It’s 2018 and women are now the ones in charge of romantic “pursuit.”

True, most younger men are totally emasculated.
22%
4 Votes
False, guys just don’t want to lose their savings.
22%
4 Votes
No one cares what the current expectations of persuit and showing interest in another are.
56%
10 Votes
18 Total Votes
Whatever will be, will be... wave

Comments (17)

Akeldama40
Rather sad that nobody gives a crap about the pursuit anymore. Perhaps our new love pursuit is apathy and complacency followed by intellectualism. Of course having money certainly helps.

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mollybaby
Any man that brings money into a question about love or romance makes me go yawn

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Saorstat

Really dunno dunno

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mollybaby
Yeah, really

I expect a man to be able to pay for himself and be self sufficient

I do not want him to support me, as I too can pay for myself and am self sufficient.

Once a man mentions money, I just go off him straight away.

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Deedee123x


100 % Correct and right handshake

Id even throw in an Almighty Hell Yeah into the mix.
head banger

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mollybaby
I have one more thing to add to that before going to bed.

Anybody who moans about any of the below, and a thousand other similar statements, all have one thing in common.

Women only want men with money

Men only want me for sex

I am too ugly to get a girlfriend/boyfriend

Men only want my body.

Women only want gigantic penises.



That thing is:



No personality.



There are plenty of ugly/broke/good looking/ regular sized people in happy relationships.

Why? Because they have a personality that somebody wants to spend time with.

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Saorstat


So you want him to pay and stay silen tconfusedconfused





rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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Deedee123x


applause applause applause applause
wow wow thumbs up

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emmy1
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up WTG molly

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Deedee123x


Molly was on fire or something that night!! thumbs up

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KNenagh
Pursuing someone makes only sense if both people are interested and want to be pursued.

Too many people are barking up the wrong tree - be realistic who you are hoping to attract. If you couldn't attract a 20 year old when you were 20, it suddenly won't happen when you are 40 or 50.

Totally agree with Molly - yes, there are people out there that are only interested in themselves and their gratification - there are also decent people that aren't. Plenty are trying to take advantage, it's up to everyone themselves to recognise these and keep away from them.

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Lookin4missright



She sure let loose didn't she uh oh

You go girl !! head banger irish

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Yes, women don't need to pursue anyone. They can pick and choose, of the best !

Men r looking for sex and money combined. Try to marry them, and gets a nasty shock.

Men believe they r the only ones with any smarts, till they realise the opposite too late !!!

It is a tough world out there peoples ?

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I don't have the energy to be on hot pursuit cause my pursuit went on a leave of absence long time ago.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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Deedee123x


Lol rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

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galrads



geewiseacres ... at times I think you’ll get too deep for my pea brain....

I was thinking more along the lines of Meg Ryan’s role in Sleepless in Seattle



What women really want is answered in this trailer ... laugh



wave

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DeeDee's endorsement applause applause applause applause wow wow thumbs up


Yes, women don't need to pursue anyone. They can pick and choose, of the best !

Men r looking for sex and money combined. Try to marry them, and gets a nasty shock.

Men believe they r the only ones with any smarts, till they realise the opposite too late !!!

It is a tough world out there peoples ?[/quote


To Mollybaby: confused Does THAT mean I'm in the running, Molly? hug I ain't got much else - but I DO have "personality! crazy I'm a class 1 "character"! yay

To Dee: Same question! dunno Does THAT mean I'm in the running? dancing dog

To Snookums: I'm NOT SURE I'd WANT to win YOUR hand, Snookie! shock Yeah! Yer right! It IS a tough world, out there! help And as tough as YOU'RE getting, who (in their right mind - and DON'T count me in! I'm NOT in my right mind! detective ) is gonna be able to deal with YOU? boxing I'm ALL FOR "equality! professor But I DON'T wanna have to fight for each day! frustrated I'm a lover! NOT a fighter! kiss And, besides, YOU'RE quicker on the draw, than ME! (I'm DUCKING! They won't allow me anymore emojis!) J

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