Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together ( Archived) (45)

Jan 31, 2019 12:42 PM CSTDid both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales, UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts

Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together(Vote Below)

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Yes
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I won't judge you...we are a products of our environments and we can't choose our parents...
My answer to the question is yes...My parents were married for 40 years and it was a solid family unit..I like the traditional family unit and my nan was very traditional...it was a golden age and I hope it returns, cause stability needs to return...If the family court laws are changed, the metoo mob stops existing, feminists are thrown out of the education system and the deluth model is taken away, then things might start to return to better times....the key thing is eliminating feminism and man hate
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Jan 31, 2019 1:11 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Yes and No.I had just turned ten years old when my father has died of a sudden death back in 1957 and my late mother had to go to work to support her and I.I never had a babysitter and mainly I looked after myself.
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Jan 31, 2019 1:15 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: My answer to the question is yes...My parents were married for 40 years and it was a solid family unit..
So much for the virtues of the "solid family unit". dunno

LeeCharming: Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
So, you are the child of boilogocals? No wonder you turned out like you did.
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Jan 31, 2019 2:43 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Yes, they lived and died together.
In today's age, people are difficult to satisfy, as they invariably can do better for themselves, and they are totally aware of the fact, where in the old days people didn't want to separate or divorce. Some now prefer being a single parent, and some are spongers male/female.
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Jan 31, 2019 10:22 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
until I was about 13 but I wish they hadn't of it would have saved me so much healing work later on....wave
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Jan 31, 2019 11:15 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Kaylana04
Kaylana04Kaylana04Kekava, Riga Latvia16 Threads 635 Posts
So many polls create a "False Dichotomy".
There can be more than just a simple "yes" or "no" answer.

Parents can live together and be in opposition with rearing children, just as much as parents living apart and having a set plan and agree peacefully on guiding their offspring through life.

We are the models for them, regardless.

I believe that it is more important to teach virtues of what real love looks like, how we continue to grow and change even into adulthood, that making mistakes is acceptable and that there is always an abundance of love no matter the circumstances.
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Jan 31, 2019 11:31 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Bearwoman: Yes and No.I had just turned ten years old when my father has died of a sudden death back in 1957 and my late mother had to go to work to support her and I.I never had a babysitter and mainly I looked after myself.
thanks for sharingthumbs up
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Jan 31, 2019 11:46 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
M4_Mischief: until I was about 13 but I wish they hadn't of it would have saved me so much healing work later on....
You can go into more detail if you want? It would help your narrative of anti family
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Jan 31, 2019 11:49 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Kaylana04: So many polls create a "False Dichotomy".
There can be more than just a simple "yes" or "no" answer.

Parents can live together and be in opposition with rearing children, just as much as parents living apart and having a set plan and agree peacefully on guiding their offspring through life.

We are the models for them, regardless.

I believe that it is more important to teach virtues of what real love looks like, how we continue to grow and change even into adulthood, that making mistakes is acceptable and that there is always an abundance of love no matter the circumstances.
Yes or No can be answered...either you agree with a stable family unit(biological father and mother together bringing up the children or you agree with single parenthood, instability for the children, abandonment issues, self hate issues, No positive male role models to teach a boy how to be a man and make your mark
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Jan 31, 2019 11:56 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Kaylana04
Kaylana04Kaylana04Kekava, Riga Latvia16 Threads 635 Posts
LeeCharming: Yes or No can be answered...either you agree with a stable family unit(biological father and mother together bringing up the children or you agree with single parenthood, instability for the children, abandonment issues, self hate issues, No positive male role models to teach a boy how to be a man and make your mark
Lee, that's not how the title question was written.
There is no "agree" or "disagree" in the question: Did both you (sic) boilogocalparents (sic) bring you up together.

If you want accurate poll results, please check your spelling, grammar and logic in order to avoid confusion.
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Feb 1, 2019 12:10 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Did both you biological parents bring you up together - edited
Yes or no is the option..if my spelling upsets you, then though it out and deal with it, cause I never claimed to be good at spelling, but the ideas for thread subjects I have are pretty goodgrin
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Feb 1, 2019 12:31 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
People tend to attack grammar, when they are losing a discussion and can't think of a comeback argument to use...some react to subjects I write about and some do fear the truths I speak about, cause those types might have to look deep into the mirror and face their demons
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Feb 1, 2019 12:33 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
smiley963: It has Nothing to do with Feminism, if a single father/mother choose not to get married again, and find it better for the children, not having multiple women/men coming and going, in their lives. The children has the first say after a divorce and common sense is highly required, by the single parent, being it a father/mother.
Feminism destroyed the family unit...feminism loves broken homes and broken men
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Feb 1, 2019 12:36 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
The original subject was asking a yes or no answer to a question....Did both you biological parents bring you up together? together as a solid family unit...living apart is not together as a family
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Feb 1, 2019 12:53 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
LeeCharming: The original subject was asking a yes or no answer to a question....Did both you biological parents bring you up together? together as a solid family unit...living apart is not together as a family
If you read your thread, you would see that it had already been answered, and your answer was directed towards Feminism only, not the original question!!!
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Feb 1, 2019 1:21 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
smiley963: If you read your thread, you would see that it had already been answered, and your answer was directed towards Feminism only, not the original question!!!
The original question was - did both your biological parents bring you up? this was really the subject matter and discussing the benefits of a solid family unit...cause I came from this environment and knew many who did not at school...I can see the clear disfunction in society and I know the reasons for a lot of it...I want a productive society and a happy one, but it has not been right for a very long time and I could go into more detail, but I have on many of my other threads...feminism is a big part of the problem...no doubt about it, so I will expose it
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Feb 1, 2019 1:43 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
LeeCharming: The original question was - did both your biological parents bring you up? this was really the subject matter and discussing the benefits of a solid family unit...cause I came from this environment and knew many who did not at school...I can see the clear disfunction in society and I know the reasons for a lot of it...I want a productive society and a happy one, but it has not been right for a very long time and I could go into more detail, but I have on many of my other threads...feminism is a big part of the problem...no doubt about it, so I will expose it
Ok, then why do you have single fathers, as opposed to single mothers, which you call Feminists, and what will they be called, Macho, or whatever (shall we make it another dirty word, as you use Feminism as a dirty word)?
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Feb 1, 2019 2:19 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Yes they brought me up.
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Feb 1, 2019 2:34 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Yes!
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Feb 1, 2019 3:59 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Children of single mums seem to have an almost boundless enthusiasm for what is their true calling. Competition and envy are weaker motives, passion is the reason to do anything. The nation may require an army of boring engineers but an upbringing of total mother means that no man loses his life in a field of engineering.

The upbringing of total father seems to work the other way. Duty or competition how you *decide* to act comes from the outside, you're put upon like in the army and you live how another man would live your life until you turn up to the office one day with a Kalashnikov and 500 rounds of ammunition.
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Feb 1, 2019 4:18 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Too much mothering and society grows up to be like a cat. Everything must be on your own terms.

Too much fathering and society grows up to be like a car. A vehicle of utility which is at the end of the day expendable.
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Feb 1, 2019 6:24 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Boilogocal...do you mean like, were my parents kettles?
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Feb 1, 2019 6:46 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Mummy
MummyMummyDrogheda, Louth Ireland177 Threads 1 Polls 2,380 Posts
Afraid to comment on this subject. Delighted that you had the upbringing that you did.

Until you walk in another persons shoes..... you should not comment on a situation that you have no idea about, only from talking to a few people....

Its not right. Very judgemental.

Just my humble opinion....
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Feb 1, 2019 6:48 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
i think im gonna need something stronger than just chamomile tea

maybe Thymus serpyllumprofessor
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Feb 1, 2019 10:02 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
They were together but absent most of the time...
The most influential person in my life and upbringing was my grandmother and thank God for that...
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Feb 1, 2019 10:05 AM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
too personal, I'd rather tell Dr. Phil
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Feb 1, 2019 1:09 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Honi79B
Honi79BHoni79BSt Albans, Hertfordshire, England UK1 Threads 33 Posts
Yes and so. I read a thread up a thread up there and i agree. We have moved on nothing is going to change. A product of a good child isnt determined by togetherness of the biological parents but how much love, education and good home training, quality time and involvement of all. Some kids would have done better with absence of one.
Live long parents or couples who treat the kids they meet in relationships despite the blood relationship. Some fathers werent supposed to be and vice versa
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Feb 1, 2019 1:40 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Tuesday2018
Tuesday2018Tuesday2018mayo, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 230 Posts
boilogocalparents?? lol..that's the best tying mistake I've seen in a while...can't wait to tell my parents they're a pair of boilogocals..it answers my mother's eternal question too as to what breed I am lol.. ...
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Feb 1, 2019 2:38 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Tuesday2018: boilogocalparents?? lol..that's the best tying mistake I've seen in a while...can't wait to tell my parents they're a pair of boilogocals..it answers my mother's eternal question too as to what breed I am lol.. ...
Yep it was pretty badhole
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Feb 1, 2019 2:44 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Harbal: That's why you should check before posting. Sloppy grammar and spelling are a sign of sloppy thinking. I admit there isn't much you can do about your lack of intelligence but you should at least take the trouble to check your spelling.
Harbal what do you label ones who are good spellers?? I might regret ever asking my question.giggle
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Feb 1, 2019 2:44 PM CST Did both you boilogocalparents bring you up together
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
no one is perfect and not all have been educated in public schoolsmoping
I will have to suffer the insults until my nxt thread...go ahead correct my spelling and tell me to stand in to cornerdoh I see gerbal has decide to join my thread and can't seem to keep awaywow maybe she has a cyber crush on medunno weird things happen online line and many oddballs to deal withtongue
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