Do women prefer to date older or younger men? (104)
This woman prefers to date men her age and up to five years older... Have never liked younger males... Had a relationship with a gentleman 13 years older than I, that lasted seven years... Not doing it again... 
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The most interesting detail would be to find out why.
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I prefer men around my age, because I have a lot in common with them. The bigger the age difference - the more differences appear.
All men I've ever dated were either my age or up to 3 years older or younger than me (+/- 3 years).
All men I've ever dated were either my age or up to 3 years older or younger than me (+/- 3 years).
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When I was younger always older men ... even up to 20 years older ...
When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
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Neonpurple: The most interesting detail would be to find out why.
Do men know why they prefer blonds or brunettes or women with large/small bosoms? 
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Selenite: When I was younger always older men ... even up to 20 years older ...
When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
Well, you’ve just eliminated 90% of the male forum posters When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
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One2note: Well, you’ve just eliminated 90% of the male forum posters
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Selenite: When I was younger always older men ... even up to 20 years older ...
When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
excellent When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
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A man my age and older with his organ working please. 
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LaFonda: A man my age and older with his organ working please.
why older when you can have a young one , I am 40 btw 
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LaFonda: A man my age and older with his organ working please.
Would a piano do ?
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Same age as me or slightly older maybe 5 or 6 years.
I’ve dated younger and older men in the past and we were just at different stages of our lives.
I’ve dated younger and older men in the past and we were just at different stages of our lives.
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Selenite: When I was younger always older men ... even up to 20 years older ...
When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
I'm in agreement with you Sele. When I was younger I thought older men were smarter because they had more experience. I learned that wisdom does not come with age.When I reached my late 40's my taste and who I felt attracted to changed ...
Now I'm not sure I have a preference but younger by up to 12 or so than my 60 years would work and older by not much more than 5 although there are some amazing ageless humans whose age would matter not ...
Generally, I find that men above the age of 65 and me have little in common when it comes to values, spirituality, expectations, health, ideas, vitality, self-care etc... I'm very aware there are exceptions and apologise to those exceptions for my perception and judgemental view ....
Then I went the route of as much as 20 years younger and learned that younger men have a strong libido but they are not looking for a commitment with an older woman and so they lie about everything.
The last relationship was with someone 18 years younger. I thought we had a lot in common but it turned out I proved that my wisdom wasn't as good as I thought it was. There goes another liar.
Now I would rather have six root canals all at once than to even think about another relationship.
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LaFonda: A man my age and older with his organ working please.
Organ's working fine... Isn't rhythm and a good solid beat important as well? ... 
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LaFonda: A man my age and older with his organ working please.
Are you good at playing the flute ?..........
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Inthewoods: Organ's working fine... Isn't rhythm and a good solid beat important as well? ...
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secretagent09: I'm in agreement with you Sele. When I was younger I thought older men were smarter because they had more experience. I learned that wisdom does not come with age.
Then I went the route of as much as 20 years younger and learned that younger men have a strong libido but they are not looking for a commitment with an older woman and so they lie about everything.
The last relationship was with someone 18 years younger. I thought we had a lot in common but it turned out I proved that my wisdom wasn't as good as I thought it was. There goes another liar.
Now I would rather have six root canals all at once than to even think about another relationship.
I hear you!!! Then I went the route of as much as 20 years younger and learned that younger men have a strong libido but they are not looking for a commitment with an older woman and so they lie about everything.
The last relationship was with someone 18 years younger. I thought we had a lot in common but it turned out I proved that my wisdom wasn't as good as I thought it was. There goes another liar.
Now I would rather have six root canals all at once than to even think about another relationship.
I'm the opposite!! I say yeah sure! Let's see who bumps into my aura and is sensitive enough to notice
I just made that line up and I'm liking it!!
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Selenite: Do men know why they prefer blonds or brunettes or women with large/small bosoms?
Thanks for the food for thought, Selenite.That is a nearly completely different topic. For me personally, partly yes.
So does women's focus shift to a man's personality over the years?
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Personally I like older women , they are wise ,far more family oriented with patience , they proved to be a good companion 
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I wonder what you mean by "wise". That was in so many post before.
It's as spongy as "down-to-earth" (for me).
When is a man "wise", or "down-to-earth"?
It's as spongy as "down-to-earth" (for me).
When is a man "wise", or "down-to-earth"?
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One2note: Would a piano do ?
one2note likes an older man 
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Neonpurple: Thanks for the food for thought, Selenite.
That is a nearly completely different topic. For me personally, partly yes.
So does women's focus shift to a man's personality over the years?
So you do know where your preference of a woman's appearance comes from? That is a nearly completely different topic. For me personally, partly yes.
So does women's focus shift to a man's personality over the years?
In my case I don't really know why I preferred older men ... I think it started changing in my late 30's although earlier I said in my late 40's that was a calculation mistake ...
Why over the years?
Personality is always important! But I also look at lifestyle because I'm not interested in spending any time with a guy whose diet I find repulsive and makes him overweight and unhealthy ... for instance ...
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The older man finds more pleasure at looking at a young face/figure.........then to see. A wrinkled. Old face. That would be more of a use. Channeling water. Away. From the lawn. Before it becomes water. Logged.......
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Butin: The older man WOMAN finds more pleasure at looking at a young face/figure.........then to see. A wrinkled. Old face. That would be more of a use. Channeling water. Away. From the lawn. Before it becomes water. Logged.......
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Butin: The older man finds more pleasure at looking at a young face/figure.........then to see. A wrinkled. Old face. That would be more of a use. Channeling water. Away. From the lawn. Before it becomes water. Logged.......
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Younger
1
20%
Older
3
60%
Either
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0%
Did try younger...but prefer older
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0%
Did try older...but prefer younger
1
20%
Prefer much older
0
0%
Prefer much younger
0
0%
Total Votes
5
It's early days in the voting poll...but so far older is winning
1
20%
Older
3
60%
Either
0
0%
Did try younger...but prefer older
0
0%
Did try older...but prefer younger
1
20%
Prefer much older
0
0%
Prefer much younger
0
0%
Total Votes
5
It's early days in the voting poll...but so far older is winning
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Melody1671: This woman prefers to date men her age and up to five years older... Have never liked younger males... Had a relationship with a gentleman 13 years older than I, that lasted seven years... Not doing it again...
What is it about younger men...that turns you off? What is it about older men...that appeals yo you?
Have you never dated younger men before? As the saying goes...you don't know till you try
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Neonpurple: The most interesting detail would be to find out why.
Some women...I'm sure will share their reasons
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SeaFairy: I prefer men around my age, because I have a lot in common with them. The bigger the age difference - the more differences appear.
All men I've ever dated were either my age or up to 3 years older or younger than me (+/- 3 years).
So you have date both older and youngerAll men I've ever dated were either my age or up to 3 years older or younger than me (+/- 3 years).
I think a woman...who looks as good as you do...could get away with dating a man...10 years or more younger and some women do age well
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LeeCharming: What is it about younger men...that turns you off?
What is it about older men...that appeals yo you?
Have you never dated younger men before? As the saying goes...you don't know till you try
Yes, I dated ONE younger male and as much as I tried to feel good about it, because he really loved me, it just didn't work... I felt so suncomfortable most of the time... What is it about older men...that appeals yo you?
Have you never dated younger men before? As the saying goes...you don't know till you try
Older men, well, my experience with an older man happened when I was 21 and he was 34... He was absolutely delicious... Physically, the relattionship was absolute FIRE, but, the problem was mainly his EXTREME jealousy... I found myself isolated from almost anyone, so I said to myself: "I have to stop this"... And I did... It was tough, though... He died in a car accident a year after we broke up... And to hear his parents imply that it might have been intentional, absolutely crushed my heart...
Right now, I just want a gentleman my age of five years older, maximum... I want to have the most time to spend with the man I love and not with a gentleman with a life expectancy of 5-10 minutes...
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Created: Jan 2021
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