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Feb 10, 2009 5:08 PM CSTARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java, Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts

ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?(Vote Below)

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YES
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YES BUT....
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im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!
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Feb 10, 2009 5:09 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
Distance is an excuse to travel.

zee
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Feb 10, 2009 5:32 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!


Was in long distance relationship..

He came to me from North Carolina to Canada a few times

Then moved to North Carolina and now married
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Feb 10, 2009 5:36 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I am in a LDR now, and he is coming to visit as soon as possible...which gets sooner every day (thank goodness). grin It happens, it works, so have patience.

wine Best wishes to you that you find what you're looking for, Flower.
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Feb 10, 2009 5:45 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....
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Feb 10, 2009 10:23 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
JamesBraginton
JamesBragintonJamesBragintonPalm Desert, California USA179 Posts
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!


Long distance is almost the norm. Sometimes it is to another country very far away.

U are huge in Indo???? Wow, u should see how many are huge here!

Anyways,, my brother met his wife in Indonesia. He has a great family. He met her online. it take guts sometimes to meet some one in their country,,but it is totally fun. However,,,do a lot of reading in between the lines on email and chat,,,also when u talk to them on the phone. Just have to be smart about about it.
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Feb 10, 2009 10:37 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
javid1964
javid1964javid1964rasht, Iran20 Threads 10 Polls 242 Posts
Charli15695: Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....


one can fall deep in love at first glance..
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Feb 10, 2009 10:44 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

I would need a few phone chats to get a feel of his voice
and find out exactly what he is looking for in a relationship.
If all clicked I would be willing to go the distance.
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Feb 10, 2009 10:49 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Yes,I am in a long distance relationship and,
I'm willing to visit my friend too...her."


grin




doh
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Feb 10, 2009 11:09 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
RebeccaWYR
RebeccaWYRRebeccaWYRShanghai, China7 Threads 4 Polls 92 Posts
Yes, my bf is from another country. But he didn't come online these days and not response to my offline message.
i'm so desperate and have a bad feeling that i may lose him or he's just playing with me......
crying
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Feb 11, 2009 12:21 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
javid1964: one can fall deep in love at first glance..


thumbs down Disagree completely. You can become infatuated at first glance, but that hardly qualifies as love. You fall deeply in love with a person through sharing and spending time together. Which makes long distance relationships really tough unless you are both willing to travel the distance and fairly often. Jmo.
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Feb 11, 2009 12:27 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
I voted yes, for the simple fact, love is love, whether its near or far. If you truely love someone, distance is but a thing. However, I do feel it has it's limitations in that, sometimes, love isn't enough and the point for more comes and sometimes it's impossible for you to be w/ one another.

I say go for it, but don't get your set your expectations too high because , it's never a 100% sure thing until you know for a fact that you can be w/ one another.
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Feb 11, 2009 12:28 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
I met a woman locally, but I moved 2000 miles away. When I can't fly there, I will fly her here. We'll see each other every couple of months.

Because I live in Las Vegas, it's cheaper for her to fly here than me fly to Florida.
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Feb 11, 2009 12:38 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
gelynn
gelynngelynnDigos, Davao Philippines1 Threads 42 Posts
i agree with you...love is love ...no matter how near or far it is...yes im into long distance relationship...even his far from me,we always talked and chat each day...good news is were meeting soon...in july,his coming to visit me philippines.
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Feb 11, 2009 2:46 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
Kinda, well she and I are friends right now but she knows I am interested in her and I know she is interested in me. grin I still consider myself single until she and I decide to commit to a relationship.
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Feb 11, 2009 5:22 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
merci49
merci49merci49Sieradz, Podlaskie Poland6 Threads 3 Polls 194 Posts
as long as my arms extendprofessor and my imahination reachesangel
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Feb 11, 2009 5:25 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
The long distance must be seen as temporary laps of time between moments of togetherness. Even when those laps are much longer then the hours spent close.

To have a relation without any physical contact would be too much for me. dunno
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Feb 11, 2009 6:40 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!


You are you, anywhere in this world.

I took the "you are you" from your profile. I hope you find your foreigner man!!!
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Feb 11, 2009 8:18 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....[/quote]


I'm in the same boat. thumbs up conversing
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Feb 11, 2009 8:20 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
hopefloats: Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....I'm in the same boat.


See Merky, you are just looking at it the wrong way. You already have a boat and are sitting in it with other able bodied rowers. It is just a matter of finding a direction and setting sail.hug
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Feb 11, 2009 8:22 AM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
BarrenPneuma: See Merky, you are just looking at it the wrong way. You already have a boat and are sitting in it with other able bodied rowers. It is just a matter of finding a direction and setting sail.



laugh Point made my friend.conversing doh That's it. I just need direction!conversing laugh Now, where did I place my compass?uh oh
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Feb 11, 2009 1:15 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
I had a long distance relationship she lived in singapore and me Texas.....She came to the states for her first time was here on a 90 day visa....I then went and visited her in Singapore....But long distance still puts a strain on relationships though...I still think of her often.
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Feb 11, 2009 5:29 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
i wish u happness and all the best inthe future. some guys i chat with they are all said like me and interested in me. but then never heard them again. they just dissapeard. so i guess they just playing games. dont u think its wasting time to do that?
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Feb 11, 2009 5:34 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
JamesBraginton: Long distance is almost the norm. Sometimes it is to another country very far away.

U are huge in Indo???? Wow, u should see how many are huge here!

Anyways,, my brother met his wife in Indonesia. He has a great family. He met her online. it take guts sometimes to meet some one in their country,,but it is totally fun. However,,,do a lot of reading in between the lines on email and chat,,,also when u talk to them on the phone. Just have to be smart about about it.


cool , where she from? i totally agree chat is not enough to know someone better. too bad some guys who interested in me always wanting to see me naked..hahhahhahha sigh!!!
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Feb 11, 2009 5:36 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
druidess6308: I am in a LDR now, and he is coming to visit as soon as possible...which gets sooner every day (thank goodness). It happens, it works, so have patience.

Best wishes to you that you find what you're looking for, Flower.


thank you to u, i wish u best future and happiness....i dont think i can find someone serious here.
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Feb 11, 2009 5:45 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
RebeccaWYR: Yes, my bf is from another country. But he didn't come online these days and not response to my offline message.
i'm so desperate and have a bad feeling that i may lose him or he's just playing with me......

im sorry to hear that. but its better he left that way then just continue chat u more and then later on u discover his real skin. wouldnt be sooo good for you. i had online boyfriend as well, but things didnt work out well. something about him i can feel not rite. he is playing games but he lied all times about it. until one day i found out im not the only girl he loves. i think i shouldnt put much effort for online dating till we really meet for real??
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Feb 11, 2009 5:48 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
woody636: Disagree completely. You can become infatuated at first glance, but that hardly qualifies as love. You fall deeply in love with a person through sharing and spending time together. Which makes long distance relationships really tough unless you are both willing to travel the distance and fairly often. Jmo.

totally dissagree..love at first sight happend to me. love work in a mysterious way friend. and by spending time and sharing things together is makiing u close to each other (bonding)
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Feb 11, 2009 5:51 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
Da10th: I voted yes, for the simple fact, love is love, whether its near or far. If you truely love someone, distance is but a thing. However, I do feel it has it's limitations in that, sometimes, love isn't enough and the point for more comes and sometimes it's impossible for you to be w/ one another.

I say go for it, but don't get your set your expectations too high because , it's never a 100% sure thing until you know for a fact that you can be w/ one another.


i totally agree with you.ive learnt my lesson now. ive been trying so hard to get over my ex online bf. its only matter of time ..im much happier now and more focus on what i want in the future
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Feb 11, 2009 5:53 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
floweringrosa
floweringrosafloweringrosasidoarjo, East Java Indonesia2 Threads 1 Polls 32 Posts
Tumpa: You are you, anywhere in this world.

I took the "you are you" from your profile. I hope you find your foreigner man!!!


i am me...thank you tumpa! i prolly fat but i have curve haahhahahahhaha



best wishes for you,
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Feb 11, 2009 5:56 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
funsweetgal81
funsweetgal81funsweetgal81Portland, Oregon USA3 Threads 39 Posts
I've never had a long distance relastionship. but may consider it with the right person for me.
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Feb 11, 2009 5:58 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Kaleb: I still think of her often.


wine for that statement...

Distance could be an impossible obstacle if "the planets do not work our way", but if we had the opportunity we would not let go for that reason alone.
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