im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!
Was in long distance relationship..
He came to me from North Carolina to Canada a few times
I am in a LDR now, and he is coming to visit as soon as possible...which gets sooner every day (thank goodness). It happens, it works, so have patience.
Best wishes to you that you find what you're looking for, Flower.
Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....
Feb 10, 2009 10:23 PM CST ARE U INTO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? and willing to visit her too?
JamesBragintonPalm Desert, California USA179 Posts
JamesBragintonPalm Desert, California USA179 posts
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!
Long distance is almost the norm. Sometimes it is to another country very far away.
U are huge in Indo???? Wow, u should see how many are huge here!
Anyways,, my brother met his wife in Indonesia. He has a great family. He met her online. it take guts sometimes to meet some one in their country,,but it is totally fun. However,,,do a lot of reading in between the lines on email and chat,,,also when u talk to them on the phone. Just have to be smart about about it.
Charli15695: Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....
I would need a few phone chats to get a feel of his voice and find out exactly what he is looking for in a relationship. If all clicked I would be willing to go the distance.
Yes, my bf is from another country. But he didn't come online these days and not response to my offline message. i'm so desperate and have a bad feeling that i may lose him or he's just playing with me......
javid1964: one can fall deep in love at first glance..
Disagree completely. You can become infatuated at first glance, but that hardly qualifies as love. You fall deeply in love with a person through sharing and spending time together. Which makes long distance relationships really tough unless you are both willing to travel the distance and fairly often. Jmo.
I voted yes, for the simple fact, love is love, whether its near or far. If you truely love someone, distance is but a thing. However, I do feel it has it's limitations in that, sometimes, love isn't enough and the point for more comes and sometimes it's impossible for you to be w/ one another.
I say go for it, but don't get your set your expectations too high because , it's never a 100% sure thing until you know for a fact that you can be w/ one another.
i agree with you...love is love ...no matter how near or far it is...yes im into long distance relationship...even his far from me,we always talked and chat each day...good news is were meeting soon...in july,his coming to visit me philippines.
Kinda, well she and I are friends right now but she knows I am interested in her and I know she is interested in me. I still consider myself single until she and I decide to commit to a relationship.
The long distance must be seen as temporary laps of time between moments of togetherness. Even when those laps are much longer then the hours spent close.
To have a relation without any physical contact would be too much for me.
floweringrosa: im looking for sum1 serious but kinda hard since i live too far away.the reason im here coz i always attracted to foreigner man. im done with guys from my country as they (mostly) spoil and mommys boy.and the wont go for me hahahah yeah rite!! indonesian guys always love slim girl and i dont have that. for foreigners im slim but for indonesian man, im fat!!!
You are you, anywhere in this world.
I took the "you are you" from your profile. I hope you find your foreigner man!!!
Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....[/quote]
hopefloats: Nope -- not for me...JMO - romantic relationships take time and presence to develop - it would be impossible to make that important of a decision in a few visits - I'm not a rich woman, can't afford the constant travel back and forth and I wouldn't ask someone else to if I couldn't carry my end of the deal. I guess I'm more of a realist than a romantic....I'm in the same boat.
See Merky, you are just looking at it the wrong way. You already have a boat and are sitting in it with other able bodied rowers. It is just a matter of finding a direction and setting sail.
BarrenPneuma: See Merky, you are just looking at it the wrong way. You already have a boat and are sitting in it with other able bodied rowers. It is just a matter of finding a direction and setting sail.
Point made my friend. That's it. I just need direction! Now, where did I place my compass?
I had a long distance relationship she lived in singapore and me Texas.....She came to the states for her first time was here on a 90 day visa....I then went and visited her in Singapore....But long distance still puts a strain on relationships though...I still think of her often.
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
i wish u happness and all the best inthe future. some guys i chat with they are all said like me and interested in me. but then never heard them again. they just dissapeard. so i guess they just playing games. dont u think its wasting time to do that?
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
JamesBraginton: Long distance is almost the norm. Sometimes it is to another country very far away.
U are huge in Indo???? Wow, u should see how many are huge here!
Anyways,, my brother met his wife in Indonesia. He has a great family. He met her online. it take guts sometimes to meet some one in their country,,but it is totally fun. However,,,do a lot of reading in between the lines on email and chat,,,also when u talk to them on the phone. Just have to be smart about about it.
cool , where she from? i totally agree chat is not enough to know someone better. too bad some guys who interested in me always wanting to see me naked..hahhahhahha sigh!!!
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
druidess6308: I am in a LDR now, and he is coming to visit as soon as possible...which gets sooner every day (thank goodness). It happens, it works, so have patience.
Best wishes to you that you find what you're looking for, Flower.
thank you to u, i wish u best future and happiness....i dont think i can find someone serious here.
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
RebeccaWYR: Yes, my bf is from another country. But he didn't come online these days and not response to my offline message. i'm so desperate and have a bad feeling that i may lose him or he's just playing with me......
im sorry to hear that. but its better he left that way then just continue chat u more and then later on u discover his real skin. wouldnt be sooo good for you. i had online boyfriend as well, but things didnt work out well. something about him i can feel not rite. he is playing games but he lied all times about it. until one day i found out im not the only girl he loves. i think i shouldnt put much effort for online dating till we really meet for real??
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
woody636: Disagree completely. You can become infatuated at first glance, but that hardly qualifies as love. You fall deeply in love with a person through sharing and spending time together. Which makes long distance relationships really tough unless you are both willing to travel the distance and fairly often. Jmo.
totally dissagree..love at first sight happend to me. love work in a mysterious way friend. and by spending time and sharing things together is makiing u close to each other (bonding)
floweringrosaOPsidoarjo, East Java Indonesia32 posts
Da10th: I voted yes, for the simple fact, love is love, whether its near or far. If you truely love someone, distance is but a thing. However, I do feel it has it's limitations in that, sometimes, love isn't enough and the point for more comes and sometimes it's impossible for you to be w/ one another.
I say go for it, but don't get your set your expectations too high because , it's never a 100% sure thing until you know for a fact that you can be w/ one another.
i totally agree with you.ive learnt my lesson now. ive been trying so hard to get over my ex online bf. its only matter of time ..im much happier now and more focus on what i want in the future
Distance could be an impossible obstacle if "the planets do not work our way", but if we had the opportunity we would not let go for that reason alone.
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