Men Do Cry??????????????????? ( Archived) (104)

Feb 14, 2009 10:16 PM CSTMen Do Cry???????????????????
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, Guernsey, UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts

Men Do Cry???????????????????(Vote Below)

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Yes...It Happens...!!
198
93%
No...Never...!!
7
3%
No Idea..!!
8
4%
Total Votes
213
Men Do Cry????????....yes..but mostly they will try to hide their tears too...comfort comfort heart beating heart beating heart beating heart beating
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Feb 15, 2009 12:30 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I don't.
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Feb 15, 2009 12:35 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
auzzieatom
auzzieatomauzzieatomblacktown, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 1 Polls 11 Posts
i cryed when my ex and i broke up
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Feb 15, 2009 1:43 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, , UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts
wow
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Feb 15, 2009 1:44 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, , UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts
thewall2....sure??????confused
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Feb 15, 2009 1:46 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Mystiflower
MystiflowerMystiflowerVale, , UK3 Threads 2 Polls 6 Posts
auzzie..hmm so sad....sorry to hearcomfort hug
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Feb 15, 2009 1:51 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Yes, in my experience men cry. OR else they express their feelings through music............


Crying is healthier though!

It's an natural emotion, to cry.


Morning all wave
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Feb 15, 2009 2:06 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I weep uncontrollably when I see the next "Would you date me" thread...crying crying
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Feb 15, 2009 2:13 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Irishminx
IrishminxIrishminxCork, Ireland16 Threads 2,282 Posts
Lagoona22: I weep uncontrollably when I see the next "Would you date me" thread...




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2009 3:37 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Wanted1981
Wanted1981Wanted1981Danville, Kentucky USA20 Posts
I cry when I watch the movie "The Notebook... and Bambi...crying
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Feb 15, 2009 4:59 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
Wanted1981: I cry when I watch the movie "The Notebook... and Bambi...
big boys dont cry they say
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Feb 15, 2009 6:16 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Steveno
StevenoStevenoQassim, Al-Qassim Saudi Arabia140 Threads 485 Posts
Mystiflower: Men Do Cry????????....yes..but mostly they will try to hide their tears too...



Who said that a man has no right to cry? Who said that crying is only for women?

Both men and women are human, made of the same materials (if I may say so), and have - of course - emotions. Both can feel happy, sad, annoyed etc. What makes them different is physical appearance (resulted in different role) and social treatment. The later is not originated from God's rule. It's a cultural product.

Women are always considered weaker than men. On the other hand, men have to be always stronger, tougher than woman, physically and emotionally. That's not fair. Crying is one of emergency way to get better when we feel sad. If the sadness is too much to handle, then what else can we do? Cry! This is much better than pretending that we are strong (because of we are men) while we have no way to make our burden lighter. It has no relation at all with strength or weakness. This is only a way to avoid from being deppressed by our sadness.

But what we will find in this real world is there is a kind of convention that men don't cry. That's why most of men look very tough in public, but they cry out loud in their own hidden-private-room. This is still better than trying to pretend as a tough people anytime and not to cry when it is time to cry.

crying crying crying
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Feb 15, 2009 7:05 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Steveno: Who said that a man has no right to cry? Who said that crying is only for women?

Both men and women are human, made of the same materials (if I may say so), and have - of course - emotions. Both can feel happy, sad, annoyed etc. What makes them different is physical appearance (resulted in different role) and social treatment. The later is not originated from God's rule. It's a cultural product.

Women are always considered weaker than men. On the other hand, men have to be always stronger, tougher than woman, physically and emotionally. That's not fair. Crying is one of emergency way to get better when we feel sad. If the sadness is too much to handle, then what else can we do? Cry! This is much better than pretending that we are strong (because of we are men) while we have no way to make our burden lighter. It has no relation at all with strength or weakness. This is only a way to avoid from being deppressed by our sadness.

But what we will find in this real world is there is a kind of convention that men don't cry. That's why most of men look very tough in public, but they cry out loud in their own hidden-private-room. This is still better than trying to pretend as a tough people anytime and not to cry when it is time to cry.



We may be made of the same materials, but am I glad we have different parts!laugh
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Feb 15, 2009 7:06 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Lagoona22: I weep uncontrollably when I see the next "Would you date me" thread...



You may cry, but I scream in frustrated laugh
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Feb 15, 2009 7:07 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
Mystiflower: Men Do Cry????????....yes..but mostly they will try to hide their tears too...
yes ,when i see him crying this excites me a lotblushing
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Feb 15, 2009 7:08 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Even if we most often handle feelings with versions of aggression we do cry when we are at complete loss of something dear to us - a good friend, a loved pet etc.

For many men I think crying is without tears, but the feelings are still the same.

This thing with crying is probably way old, men was not supposed to be blinded by tears but see clear no matter feelings. Lay man thinking here.

wine
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Feb 15, 2009 7:58 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Came across this somewhere.dunno

Nope,don't let anyone tell you that is a sign of Weakness for a Man to cry.
I don't make it a Rule to bawl in public,but that does not mean I do not shed tears;and not all the reasons are the same.

Here are some Quotes I found:

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness,"

“Tears are words the heart can't express” ...

“Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it.”

“Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.”

“Tears are the silent language of grief”

“Laughter and tears are meant to turn the wheels of the same machinery of sensibility; one is wind-power, and the other water-power; that is all”

“So hold her closer when she cries, hold her closer when she feels. She needs a hand to hold, someone who will never let her go again. And hold him closer when he tries to hold the tears back from his eyes. Don't say goodbye.”
Song: Hold Her Closer

“Things have different qualities, and the soul different inclinations; for nothing is simple which is presented to the soul, and the soul never presents itself simply to any object. Hence it comes that we weep and laugh at the same thing.”


Don't think it has to do with Gender!wave
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Feb 15, 2009 9:22 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
Last I heard, men are genetically altered so they can't shed tears. <end sarcasim>wave
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Feb 15, 2009 9:26 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Men cry on the inside but not so much on the outside
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Feb 15, 2009 9:28 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Yes,they do cry.He proved that to me;he does love me......"












yay
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Feb 15, 2009 9:29 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Conrad73: Came across this somewhere.

Nope,don't let anyone tell you that is a sign of Weakness for a Man to cry.
I don't make it a Rule to bawl in public,but that does not mean I do not shed tears;and not all the reasons are the same.

Here are some Quotes I found:

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness,"

“Tears are words the heart can't express” ...

“Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it.”

“Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.”

“Tears are the silent language of grief”

“Laughter and tears are meant to turn the wheels of the same machinery of sensibility; one is wind-power, and the other water-power; that is all”

“So hold her closer when she cries, hold her closer when she feels. She needs a hand to hold, someone who will never let her go again. And hold him closer when he tries to hold the tears back from his eyes. Don't say goodbye.”
Song: Hold Her Closer

“Things have different qualities, and the soul different inclinations; for nothing is simple which is presented to the soul, and the soul never presents itself simply to any object. Hence it comes that we weep and laugh at the same thing.”


Don't think it has to do with Gender!


Agree.........thumbs up
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Feb 15, 2009 9:31 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Conrad73: Came across this somewhere.

Nope,don't let anyone tell you that is a sign of Weakness for a Man to cry.
I don't make it a Rule to bawl in public,but that does not mean I do not shed tears;and not all the reasons are the same.

Here are some Quotes I found:

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness,"

“Tears are words the heart can't express” ...

“Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it.”

“Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.”

“Tears are the silent language of grief”

“Laughter and tears are meant to turn the wheels of the same machinery of sensibility; one is wind-power, and the other water-power; that is all”

“So hold her closer when she cries, hold her closer when she feels. She needs a hand to hold, someone who will never let her go again. And hold him closer when he tries to hold the tears back from his eyes. Don't say goodbye.”
Song: Hold Her Closer

“Things have different qualities, and the soul different inclinations; for nothing is simple which is presented to the soul, and the soul never presents itself simply to any object. Hence it comes that we weep and laugh at the same thing.”


Don't think it has to do with Gender!




That's exactly right! It is nothing more than secular pressure for the men.doh help
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Feb 15, 2009 9:38 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
lovestrees
lovestreeslovestreesTacoma area, Washington USA18 Threads 305 Posts
Hi all. I've read none of the posts here. But, when your emotions are too much for your body to hold in, the energy weeps out through your eyes.

Makes no difference which equipment rests between your thighs.

Holding it back is harmful to the holder. Just let it flow, you will feel better afterwards.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:38 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Mystiflower: Men Do Cry????????....yes..but mostly they will try to hide their tears too...


Yes, real men cry. My dad always shows his emotions openly, and for me it's a sign of strength and being comfortable with who he is to know that a man is not afraid to cry or show other emotions, both privately and publicly.

wine
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Feb 15, 2009 9:39 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
tumtum52: big boys dont cry they say


Big boys might not, but real men do. wine
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Feb 15, 2009 9:39 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
lovestrees: Hi all. I've read none of the posts here. But, when your emotions are too much for your body to hold in, the energy weeps out through your eyes.

Makes no difference which equipment rests between your thighs.

Holding it back is harmful to the holder. Just let it flow, you will feel better afterwards.
thumbs up Absolutely.
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Feb 15, 2009 9:40 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
lovestrees: Hi all. I've read none of the posts here. But, when your emotions are too much for your body to hold in, the energy weeps out through your eyes.

Makes no difference which equipment rests between your thighs.

Holding it back is harmful to the holder. Just let it flow, you will feel better afterwards.


Agreed!thumbs up
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Feb 15, 2009 9:40 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
It goes along with begging!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2009 9:41 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
druidess6308: Big boys might not, but real men do.



thumbs up
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Feb 15, 2009 10:00 AM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
druidess6308: Big boys might not, but real men do.
roll eyes
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Feb 15, 2009 5:49 PM CST Men Do Cry???????????????????
rick1968fl
rick1968flrick1968fltamarac, Florida USA3 Threads 2 Polls 27 Posts
we all cried on 911 01
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