Why Is on Line Dating so Hard? (179)
LillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 PostsDefinately distance.
Perhaps we would be more determined and serious, if there was a time limit on our profiles for lets say 3 months
demonfairy: Some people seem to find love on line,others are not so lucky.Lets be honest it is not as easy as it sounds to find a partner.Is it because we ask questions on line that would take us months to ask in real life, because we learn more about the person behind the face... What do you think?
I think its because of many things..One is because some people might have very picky or very unrealistic expectations and another is maybe there are so many choices some people get caught up in wanting to see if they can keep getting better ones? I basically figure if I make a friend then great, if I find my soulmate then even better..I guess I've chilled out in the last year because it isnt worth it worrying about if I will find the one or not.?Swissblueeyes: I think its because of many things..One is because some people might have very picky or very unrealistic expectations and another is maybe there are so many choices some people get caught up in wanting to see if they can keep getting better ones? I basically figure if I make a friend then great, if I find my soulmate then even better..I guess I've chilled out in the last year because it isnt worth it worrying about if I will find the one or not.?
I have been on this site over three years Swissblueyes, ive never dated anyone from here..
Distance and trust yes
scottyburd: I have been on this site over three years Swissblueyes, ive never dated anyone from here..
wow well maybe in time you will find one..
msblackusa: I say scammers because, they are the only ones that seems to find me attractive.
me too, scammers
sultryash: Distance and trust yes
I agree with the distance issue, but trust can be an issue even if
you live in the same house with someone. It all depends on the values and dedication of the couple involved in the relationship.
I could basically write a book about online dating ...lol ! Sometimes a long distance relationship can result in what I call culture shock . Its just too drastic of a change . Been there , done that and the book will one day be written .
! People can be who ever they want here online , but will they meet your expectations when you first lay eyes upon them ? But most importantly will that special feeling still remain after years gone by ? You can be like me and wear your heart on your sleeve and eventually learn to cover it up a bit .The wounds take quite some time to heal . Like the rest of anything in our lives it becomes an experience , hopefully a better one than worse. Good luck in your search everyone . All I can say is date safely !...Pete
! People can be who ever they want here online , but will they meet your expectations when you first lay eyes upon them ? But most importantly will that special feeling still remain after years gone by ? You can be like me and wear your heart on your sleeve and eventually learn to cover it up a bit .The wounds take quite some time to heal . Like the rest of anything in our lives it becomes an experience , hopefully a better one than worse. Good luck in your search everyone . All I can say is date safely !...Pete
demonfairy: Some people seem to find love on line,others are not so lucky.Lets be honest it is not as easy as it sounds to find a partner.Is it because we ask questions on line that would take us months to ask in real life, because we learn more about the person behind the face... What do you think?
I Think Distance is Major problem to find love ,Most of peoples specialy women dont want to be in contact a men from an other country ,it is my experience 
demonfairy: Some people seem to find love on line,others are not so lucky.Lets be honest it is not as easy as it sounds to find a partner.Is it because we ask questions on line that would take us months to ask in real life, because we learn more about the person behind the face... What do you think?
Good morning girl!
My opinion to your poll/question is:
Too many selections in the "candy store".
They don't want this one or that one, because there may be a better one on the other isle. Decisions, Decisions, Decisions!
To select one from the Net, is making it too easy to just sit on their thumbs up their, *ss, and let the good ones get away !
Just My Sunday Morning Opinion!
Might have a better answer if you ask me again, after I've checked my sugar level, had my shot, taken 12 med-pills, checked Blood Pressure, checked e-mail...and had my coffee!
-John- (feeling full of it again, already)
marc62: Do you think that the part of your prifile that says "Not looking for a match just here for the banter.." might have something to do with that?
No as i havent had that on my profile that long
MetalMilitia: sorry... no can do....
first you must pay the fee and ask properly !!!!!
first you must pay the fee and ask properly !!!!!
PLEEEEEEEEEEEEZE?????
invinciblemuse: PLEEEEEEEEEEEEZE?????
nice try but thats not the proper procedure....
you must first be neked, then pay the fee, in other words just lay there for a quick three seconds..... then and only then, i may consider letting ya take the quad for a ride !!!!
Why do I get so hard dating on line ...... 
MetalMilitia: nice try but thats not the proper procedure....you must first be neked, then pay the fee, in other words just lay there for a quick three seconds..... then and only then, i may consider letting ya take the quad for a ride !!!!
That's cheap - I take it!!
scottyburd: No as i havent had that on my profile that long
Ah, OK. I expected a reply more like "OMG! I wrote that three years ago when I first joined and completely forgot about it!"
Well, if I was in Glasgow I'd happily invite you out, so again, distance, distance, distance.
Of course, even if I was there, you might decline the invitation, so perhaps not only distance.
RDM59: ... oh jeez, that's just torn it .....
You're gorrrrrrrgeous ..... Grrrrrr
You're gorrrrrrrgeous ..... Grrrrrr
marc62: Ah, OK. I expected a reply more like "OMG! I wrote that three years ago when I first joined and completely forgot about it!"
Well, if I was in Glasgow I'd happily invite you out, so again, distance, distance, distance.
Of course, even if I was there, you might decline the invitation, so perhaps not only distance.
Well, if I was in Glasgow I'd happily invite you out, so again, distance, distance, distance.
Of course, even if I was there, you might decline the invitation, so perhaps not only distance.
marc
Thats a nice thing to say, distance seems to be the main problem here,i decided to concentrate on the forum banter and not bother with the dating side of CS for the moment..
demonfairy: Have you noticed on the local sites,that you e-mail back and forth,then when it gets close to time to meet each other you don't hear from them any more..when they do that i get the feeling that they weren't trueful
It has happened to me once - I guess they just chicken out!
RDM59: ... it must have been those blue smarties of the kids that I had .....
demonfairy: Some people seem to find love on line,others are not so lucky.Lets be honest it is not as easy as it sounds to find a partner.Is it because we ask questions on line that would take us months to ask in real life, because we learn more about the person behind the face... What do you think?
You hit the nail on the head with your list alone. For me tomany scammers out there messing it up for the honest people out there. just going to keep on going.MetalMilitia: 10psi
just tightened the cap back up
i wouldnt hold my breath.....
just tightened the cap back up
i wouldnt hold my breath.....
Shouldn't have blown those 500 bucks in Vancouver - at least you'd be able to remember the 3 seconds with me!
Because nine times out of 10 it´s pie in the sky?
It´s a game with many people, maybe not intentionally for some, but whatever, somebody gets hurt usually as we´ve all seen here on CS many many times.
Forums are relatively safe for discussing and debating issues, the occasional feel good factor flirt, and making a few genuine pen-pals, if you choose wisely, along the way. Not much else as far as I have seen.
It´s a game with many people, maybe not intentionally for some, but whatever, somebody gets hurt usually as we´ve all seen here on CS many many times.
Forums are relatively safe for discussing and debating issues, the occasional feel good factor flirt, and making a few genuine pen-pals, if you choose wisely, along the way. Not much else as far as I have seen.
saints be praised. I see the tell tale 4 wheeler.
Congratulations Nanners!
Congratulations Nanners!
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