Hey Carlos Are looking for a date here or are you fishing for new ways to be a complete jerk ? I mean why would you even care how others give the bad news ? And what satisfaction arre you getting out of this negative thread ? JMO
carlosweb10: How to END a relationship?, how to get rid of a not going well situation and start another one? How to stick a goodbye on it?
what manners and skill do you use to flow the situation....
My method would be to involve her in the decision. I would tell her that I think things aren't working out, communicate clearly what I see as a problem that, if not resolved, would result in the end of the relationship, and listen to her point of view on the issue and try to find a way to work things out. If we could not agree to a solution, we would at least be able to know that we talked things through and gave it our best. The end result would be both of us accepting the breakup well.
Of course, this has never happened in my life. I've always ended up with women who couldn't or wouldn't communicate about problems in a relationship.
Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA2,259 posts
Explanations don't always work when they slam the phone down on you in the middle of saying it's just not gonna work out because.... then you get a nasty message afterwords, calling you every SOB in the book....
craig63: anyone who wants to end a relationship should always do face to face with the person, any other way is being a coward and showing a lack of respect.
In normal circumstances I would agree, but what about women, or men for that matter, who are in abusive relationships? The only thing they can do is flee when a safe opportunity arises.
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what manners and skill do you use to flow the situation....