good point, I get old men lying all the time too. It happens often. when i reproach them for it and ask why, they all say well if i said i was 76 instead of 50 then you would not come and meet me!!! Its because they want to appeal to younger ladies, what the ???? so when I see they are not the age they say they are I know they are liars, one lie , everything they say could be a lie. I believe that if they lie about this they can lie about anything, and who wants a liar ? a serious person looking for a relationship would not lie, because he would know he/ she would be found out. The age adjusters are not serious , they are players. I met a guy once who was about 70, but hed said he was 60, well thats age appropriate to me, at 70 he wasnt bad for his age , and i might have met him and been ok with his age if hed told me the truth straight up. When i knew hed lied i was not interested. His profile is still up with his reduced age, he still did not learn the lesson. It happens. I dont lie about my age , because I am serious. but im tending to look now at 45 year old men because they might be 55 which is the right age for me. ..but then they might still be liars eh ? oh you cant win.
a woman that much older will never have any serious thoughts about a permanent relationship with a guy that much younger than her, and thats what the guy wants, An older woman is under no delusion that the younger guy will ever seek a permanent relationship, it suits both parties. A man of senior years is unlikely to be as "active and versatile" in the bedroom, many women seek a younger man experience, they can be flattered a younger man wants them , albeit for a very short while, and he can walk away being appreciated, and without complication or expectation. saskia
He was married, and on a time limit. Some men do it quick, some fast, but they all woo you one way or another. Trouble is you liked him , but he deceived you, you are hurt because he wasted your time but you did not recognise that at the time. You will learn my dear, dont become disgusted or despondant, just learn, listen and learn. Given that this medium is a wonderful venue for the seeking of casual "fun" its understandable that so many people use it for just that. Those of us who seek something different need to have more patience and recognise that finding love , true love on the internet is same as doing the old needle in the haystack routine. You will get there , never give up. Today is another day , forget him quickly, learn to forget them all quickly , they will forget us too ! Saskia
Hello there , I am saskia from new zealand originally. My mother was pregnant to a man she had been in love with but abandoned her when she became pregnant with me. that was 57 years ago. She went to live in a different city, due to the shame, and there she met the man who married her and became my dad. He was the most wonderful person god ever put on this earth. He was my best friend until he died , and I loved my Dad better than even my real mother. He gave her everything, it must have been as if she had prayed for him , and he came along. My mother was a decent person, but like most of us at some time or other we fall in love , I guess she was a little naieve, in thinking the man , my real father would marry her. My mother had never told me who my real father was, and refused to do that, until he died, It didnt really matter because I loved my dad as if he was my real dad , and he loved me as if i was the only one in his life, We could not be parted, and when i got married myself , my new husband wanted my dad to live with us, which he did till he died, he was just as great a grandfather as he was a father to me. So dont give up dear, and dont imagine there is not a man with a good heart who will love you for who you are without ever exploiting you either. One thing is for sure , if you find a man now while you are in this state , it will be a man who loves you for sure , because it is a huge sacrifice and undertaking on his part. If you remain independant, and manage to keep yourself , I am sure you will be of interest to someone out there, you just need to look in the right places........I am not sure the internet is the place, Best of luck and good wishes for you and your baby.
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RE: Lying about age????
good point, I get old men lying all the time too. It happens often. when i reproach them for it and ask why, they all say well if i said i was 76 instead of 50 then you would not come and meet me!!! Its because they want to appeal to younger ladies, what the ???? so when I see they are not the age they say they are I know they are liars, one lie , everything they say could be a lie. I believe that if they lie about this they can lie about anything, and who wants a liar ? a serious person looking for a relationship would not lie, because he would know he/ she would be found out. The age adjusters are not serious , they are players.I met a guy once who was about 70, but hed said he was 60, well thats age appropriate to me, at 70 he wasnt bad for his age , and i might have met him and been ok with his age if hed told me the truth straight up. When i knew hed lied i was not interested. His profile is still up with his reduced age, he still did not learn the lesson. It happens.
I dont lie about my age , because I am serious. but im tending to look now at 45 year old men because they might be 55 which is the right age for me. ..but then they might still be liars eh ? oh you cant win.