AHLAN, WELCOME to blogging, say what you want, be funny , entertain us, tell people about your part of the world we are interested. Your life your struggle, your happiness , your sadness, practice your English, you are doing very well already, AHLAN AHLAN
Stay true to yourself , be how you are and dont apologise for it. Plently of decent guys out there looking for a lady who for them you will be just perfect. Speak of the positive disregard the negative, and its good you are not overflowing with offers, someone genuine will find you now. Saskia.......
i repeat............people with real wealth and CLASS never brag or show off ! ! ! ! especially about a bmw X 3 which in europe is a very ordinary car .
sunny bai...........one man only needs one car...........if you really want to impress us , tell us you have sold all the cars you dont need and tell us how many poor children from your country you are sponsoring to be educated...........That will impress us !!!!! because what you keep telling us about all your wealth and cars and expensive maids etc is just an obscenity........really wealthy people with class never show off or brag..........
Hi Baltus thanks for your comment, I am not shy in business, I used to deal with hundreds of people a day and I feel I have no communication problem even in a number of languages, but when it comes to approaching a man who potentially might think I am forward or may laugh at me , I am reluctant to make a fool of myself should the feeling not be mutual. Also a woman picking up a guy is tacky, a man picking up a lady is "" normal "" I do get "" picked up often"" even though I am an old granny now, but I'd like to attract the attention of men I fancy, not just those who fancy me. Most men think I am married........I am not sure why , I dont wear any rings to indicate this. What to do ?
Tell us when you get your maserati or lamborghini or bentley cabriole ...............or at least an x5....... or when you learn to spell in English maybe.
When you feel like that just go to bed and sleep, with a pill if you have to so you dont have to think about it. You cannot rely on people to know how you feel, you cannot even expect them to be interested or care most of the time. It is because people are selfish and dont like to see someone they know in a bad way. There will be one person who cares, there always is , find that person. If no one at all cares , it just could be your fault, because you may not have given off enough care to anyone yourself. If for instance you have lived as a selfish person dont expect anyone to be there for you.thats kind of like the rule of how it works. At your age, whatever it is that troubles you, can be put aside by recognising you have your whole life ahead of you. You need to have dreams, achievable dreams and a wish to progress in life if you are to ever get satisfaction from life. If where you are now isnt making you happy . work toward moving from there. If people do you harm get away, be choosy of your friends , dont let them choose you. If someone is a waste of space and a pain to you then this is not a friend, move on. Learn how to move on quickly from people who offer nothing to you such as real friendship or care. Be brave, be sensible, open your eyes, keep on the ground, dont attempt to get attention to yourself but always offer attention to others. Try to get on , by surrounding yourself with happiness, getting negative influences out of your life, then you can have happiness and joy.
Latvian Ladies can be beautiful women for many reasons. Generally hard working, well educated and domesticated. If she suits you and you like her go for it. Be wary that many ladies from Eastern block countries and the former ussr will do anything to get out , especially to America. They suffer a lot of financial hardship due to very low wages. If she is in the same age bracket as you it could be a different story , but if she is much younger try not to delude yourself too much dear. There is nothing worse or more soul destroying than two people using each other for their own ends. Good luck, I hope it works out.
Try migrating to Australia or New Zealand, they need engineers there and if you pass the age test and english test youll find a life of a lot more prospects in both these countries than in Europe.
Younger guys like older ladies because they know we would not want a committed relationship with them. They think they can be of service to us in an uncomplicated way. I am the same age as you, Older guys are happier living on their own often and if they are divorced from a nagging demanding ex wife they are very disinclined to want a permanent relationship. The existence of internet dating sites has made finding women for casual fun very easy, many of those seeking a permanent relationship on paper, say so only to get us interested or into bed. Age appropriate suitable men for our age group are as scarce as hens teeth I believe. Many are afraid they cannot afford us, and many cannot, its just so much easier for them to have freedom these days , so why should they bother with a potential burden. I have been searching for six years , lots of stories to tell, but no success thus far. I recommend special interest groups for meeting people , create new interests for yourself. Meet people in the normal world.
yes and he would like kids someday according to his profile, and she must have brown hair and brown eyes, and she should be 62...........now I dont know honey , but I think it will be real hard to find a woman who at 62 would be interested in that deal .....GOOD LUCK THOUGH
yes and he would like kids someday according to his profile, and she must have brown hair and brown eyes, and she should be 62...........now I dont know honey , but I think it will be real hard to find a woman who at 62 would be interested in that deal .....GOOD LUCK THOUGH
Learn quickly how to judge these guys, dont just trust them because they pay you some attention and then become dissolusioned by them. remember it is in a mans dna to be as they are. It is in our dna to be smarter than they are............ignore the losers and keep a smile on your face so the nice ones will notice you too.
Hi Virgo, I know your neck of the woods quite well, Greymouth that is, and especially Hokitika. I was born in Dunedin and conceived in Hokitika . My parents were sent there to work as new migrants from Holland in the early fifties. I get your point though about the men there not being so fussy, which is nice , but the problem is I am fussy, I remember walking into a bar in Hokey once it was winter, a few years ago now, and I noticed all the guys seemed to look the same, they all had those thick woollen checked shirts, they all had long rough beards, they all had a beer in their hand ( no drinking poncy wine) It is true they all looked like really swarthy salt of the earth kind of men. They all stopped talking and started staring when i came into the pub , I could see what they were thinking almost , " oh shes a bit fancy for round here " maybe........ Its a nice idea, West Coast NZ , you can really let yourself go there get about in ugg boots year round, fleecy's, and tracky daks to most occasions, best night out is at the local club, do a few bucks on the pokies, have a slap up meal of fish and chips or chops, sausages and chips or something more fancy like a fishermans basket. I dont know virgo, give me time I might warm up to the idea. Its worth thinking about and thanks for the suggestion.
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AHLAN, WELCOME to blogging, say what you want, be funny , entertain us, tell people about your part of the world we are interested. Your life your struggle, your happiness , your sadness, practice your English, you are doing very well already, AHLAN AHLAN