Its easier for a woman to do than a man id expect especially if she is willing to put out in exchange for food and accommodation. I met up with an aussie girl many years ago when we were hitchhiking. Before it got too dangerous. She arrived in Europe with no money determined to see europe. She found free food and board every night , and a ride every day , sometimes to where she wanted to go even. Of course she had to do what was expected of her most of the time , but she did not seem to mind , she was a very accommodating little lady . I wonder if she tells of her wanderings to her grandchildren these days? I certainly was happy i did not have to do that , I always had enough money to catch a train. But its possible also to catch private yachts all over the world. Joining Couch surfer network might also help with free accommodation. Networking the internet seeking friends in places where u want to go to as you suggested the other day would also work. I just don't ike the idea of relying on others. If you feel off or are an impatient person it could be a challenge. saskia
My late husband had a beard ...............it was soft , long enough to be soft..........i loved him so i loved his beard.........most women don't like men with a beard..........but girls , let me tell you this , there is nothing more sensual than a mans soft beard down there , doing you know what . The memory of it makes me want to cry...............Saskia
Mayhow...you missunderstand me, I did not say you need to be buried deep....I said you should bury your hate very deep!! All your blogs are expressing hate for people, you sound hateful and angry always ..... why? Spread some LOVE MAYHOW LOVE BY EXAMPLE IS WHAT IS NEEDED HERE NOT HATE. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR HATE . LOVE MAYHOW LOVE SPREAD THE LOVE ........REMEMBER WORLD PEACE BEGINS WITH YOU.......AND ME ..........LOVE MAYHOW LOVE ............ WE ARE TIRED OF SEEING YOUR HATE ON HERE. Saskia Remember Mayhow Jesus loves you.
Hes polite enough to offer an explanation why he is no longer with you. It might have been more face saving for yourself if you had not replied in such a way. Rather to say you wish him all the best in finding someone better suited to him. Often being gracious rather than desperate can be better for both parties in the long run. He will not feel so threatened by your neediness. If he is just testing the waters and looking for other options its always best to be as unemotional as possible about it. It makes it easier if you were ever to meet again. Lifes lessons has taught me these things. Always treat your new freedom as a blessing , because he was not right for you, or you not for him, so move on, try not to cry too much over it. Just go out this weekend with your gal pals and have a nice time . Plenty of fish in the sea dear girl. saskia
Sorry lazily maybe you are right it is not my business , but it was a public blog available to read so whats out in public can and will be my business to read it and make assessment of it if i wish to do so. Thats how it works here or did u not notice that before?. Its a blog site with people writing their experiences opening them selves for comments .........no disrespect Lazly , but if reading blogs and making comments on them is not my business then either is it yours and we should not be here at all. Saskia
Why don't you get out of that country instead of making yourself utter and angry every day. You need a better life a positive life, some where you can progress. Just get out of the situation and stop complaining . You deserve more for yourself, you can never change it, the system is corrupt. the people are corrupt. they always have been ..... saskia......... why live in hell when you don't need to?
I remember when i was your age eons ago, my heart was often broken, i felt inadequate and sad for a while , until the next one came along.Its the lesson of life. Try not to get hurt about it , but move on as quick as you can. involve yourself in activities where he does not go , meet new people go to salsa dancing lessons, start learning how to sail maybe, anything go to the gym thats a really great pickup place. Make new friends girlfriends as well , great way to be introduced to a whole new set of young men. saskia best wishes
Shay I live in Bahrain , next door to Saudi so I know what type of life you live very well. If you are a nanny or a housemaid or work in a retail shop , or even as a nurse , I understand you have a better income than at home in the philipines, but you miss out on a nice life , especially in Saudi. I would make contact with guys outside of your area exclusively, especially in Australia, or NZ or America because this could be a better life for you with freedom and good potential. Look for philipino guys in these countries rather than locals , so you have someone with your own culture who you also can understand. That way you can kill 2 birds with one stone, find a decent man and get a better life . remembering the salary of workers in those countries is 5 times as much in ksa, nothing wrong with wanting to improve your circumstance. Saskia
If you don't want to go there you should be extra nice to your kids and be a nice person always then they will want you around. My dad lived with us till he died, he had begged me to never send him to a home. He was a sweet man and great to be around we were close...my mother on the other hand was a difficult woman and I am happy she wanted to remain alone. Depends on the situation. I want to be with my family.......We are of European background so it may have an influence on how we regard our elders, I am not sure. But in our family we seem to take care of our elders well.
Thats very interesting, what you say Rainbow, Most Pisces I have met have been intelligent thats true, but also a bit lazy and self centred , they have high opinions of themselves and feel the world owes them a living. They have the tendency to use people when they can easily , even at a low level, its as if its natural to them.They are not all bad of course , but in relevance to your blog I will just focus on the most negative potential aspects of a persons star sign here to support this theory. They don't seem to have much of a conscience nor much remorse and often consider it someone else's fault even when they have done wrong, as in they can blame anything for their own wrong doing thus exonerating themselves from any blame. Maybe thats why Pisces can do this...........I don't know just summizing here.
Scorpio, is one of the most jealous and vindictive signs of the zodiac, they are passionate and inconsolable , unforgiving in any wrong doing. They will take everything very personally and not have any compunction in making wrongdoers pay. While they can be extremely loving and very generous to the end , its the bad side of them one has to watch. SO.........I believe the possibility of the theory being true. What other zodiac insights do you have to share with us, its a fascinating subject ?
I used to look for intelligence .....then after dating several doctors, professors, lawyers etc I realised some of them were a bit dumb and did not really have a life, or a grip on life. Then I looked for sense of humour.......Then I looked for good looks....Then I looked for guys with all their own teeth........ Take everyone on board, every one has weaknesses and strengths that appeal in different ways to us in accordance to our own emotional needs. Too hard to be selective from a profile, I go for men who can spell.............but my husband who was a gorgeous and perfect man for me, until he died, could not spell to save himself. He was French after all. But i realise you can never tell . Best be open minded, we can't be too fussy at our age either, i am beginning to realise. So anyone with a pulse is welcome in my life. saskia
you tell him saddest tangle........you hit the nail on the head......being called babe , by a stranger is a real indication of where their minds are at. Only a dumb woman will be flattered. and an even dumber man think women like that kind of thing.
Join the club love ..............just resign yourself to the fact that there will always be people who just don't get it. Some people here expect everything anyone ever says to be compatible with their own lifestyle. Thats not reality. We all have the right to express ourselves. For those who email you privately, best to check their mind-blowing and enlightening blogs......then usually you will see what hole of deprivation and ignorance they are coming from. Keep heart, keep expressing yourself, you will always have fans, just write for them and no one else. Saskia...have a great day, keep smiling at strangers and spread the love today.
Marshmellow girl, i think you and i are on the same page here......its a reflection of achievement. All people have this sense in one way or another........everyone wishes for something a little higher or better than what they already have. Like when "" i win the lotto i will get this or that "" or if i had some money i would buy myself this or that. I think we are all like that in a way , I value your comments Marshmellow girl. Saskia
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was that english?