Maintenant, je suis vraiment pleurer dur avec cette chanson, les paroles sont très poignante. mon mari était aussi le français, merci mon cher pour la chanson je pense que je vais rester dans mon lit aujourd'hui. saskia
Its not the man who makes the woman"s life miserable ...its the woman who allows the man to make her life miserable. Thats why I am still single after all these years , I know who will make me miserable , from small signs...and I always walk away . Most women do not do that , they stay, have babies do not walk away and become miserable...saskia
Just by being a believer in KARMA can make you a good person . Being a good person can make you believe in KARMA. I have a story about my father and KARMA, when he was newly married he had a friend who needed money desperately , so he lent him 200 pounds , it was a lot of money in 1955. He was supposed to get the money back in one month, but never did . My mother was very angry with my father for ever having lent the money , she needed it to buy new furniture for their new house they had just moved in to. My father never told my mother who he lent the money to , because he knew she would pester him for it. When my father decided to leave my mother he signed over the house to her , he was not going to make a scene and make her sell it , it meant so much to her in her materialistic fashion, so he always said , let her keep it , thats whats important to her , only money and possessions. I was amazed at my dads reasoning , how he could be so calm and unfussed by someone who thought she was cleverer than him and trying to squeeze him dry. My mother had to buy old furniture that everyone was throwing out at the time , all antiques...no one wanted such stuff in NZ in the fifties, they all wanted chrome and formica . For 20 pounds she furnished her entire house with antiques. One day a letter came from a lawyer in NZ to my father.... the man he'd lent the 200 pounds toin 1955 had died and left my father all his money. With a letter saying he was sorry he could not pay back the money at the time , he was grateful my father had never pestered him for it . At that time my father was old and in his eighties , he had just begged me to never put him in a nursing home ( he had always lived with me from even before i was married) ..... that money helped fulfil his dream by enabling us to afford a full time nurse for him until he died. My mother came and tried to claim the money a hers , when she heard about it ..... but she did not get any ..... when my mother died her antiques went to auction ,about $ 50 k was raised , so much more than had she at the time bought new furniture in the fifties which would now be just junk. My mother died a lonely old sad woman , with material wealth , but little else. Its all KARMA ....... FROM KARMA , THE BEST LESSONS IN LIFE CAN BE LEARNT.... I believe in it . Saskia
I believe you are right Jana . He is not a bad man at all just a little misguided thats all .. I also hope he finds his way . I was hoping he might do well with forex trading as he said he was doing that , but we have not heard how thats going yet for him ............ I know when people live in one place and have unfortunate situations around them they often cannot see a way out. It can become a cycle of negative influences and outcomes with little achievement . Some people are winners in any situation because they are open minded to anything , some are losers because they cannot see the dirt from the rocks , but we are all in the same race ...its called life ..Saskia
Leo and Jana I just love you guys ....thank you so much for your back up here I do appreciate it . You are both astute people and you know the story well . I hope he understands . I actually feel sorry for him now. Its so sad to see someone so bitter . saskia
Salam David................I totally agree David , respect is where it begins respect is the path to peace , but respect should be for everybody . Even for those who do not like us, or criticise us .or are different from us ....... the trick is to have respect for those even who do not respect us, that is being truly respectful .....Saskia
The funniest thing i ever saw was in bangladesh , a guy had his motorbike ( broken down) on a rickshaw. I did not have a camera at the time sorry...saskia
Sometimes its just not convenient or practical ....end of story. How many chat friends does one need to have at the end of the day. Most people have work and are serious in finding someone , then local is the only way to go, why bother with the rest.
She perhaps was not a true friend,,, friends do not have expectations of others like that . Friends understand, friends accept , maybe she became your friend just so she could use you at some later time..... you are best to avoid "" friends" like that........ saskia
My Dear 39 is not old at all , it is young ( from where I am at that is) I was always attracted to older men myself and my late husband was much older than me ... But he was mature and decent and kind and loving and supportive etc etc... I doubt at the time I would have ever found what i had in him in anyone else the same age as me. You sound very mature , highly intelligent , and have a great personality yourself. You have a long way to go in the world yourself as a person.. I sense this in you, A man 12 years older could be a blessing to you , if he is established , is kind supportive and can be loved by you for how he is , then go for it... !2 years for the right man at this time in life is not a difference at all , besides you sound very mature yourself, maybe an older more mature man is just what you actually need . Sometimes also "baggage" can make a man ...... in a way . You can see how he handles it , if he's responsible or not . YOU go for it girl and keep us (me) posted on the progress , I love stories of love and success. I hope it all goes well with you , and just cos you go off into lover land , don't you forget about us now here in blogland waiting for you will you ? your friend saskia
Try muslim matrimonials or arab match , or jeevanjee match..... and then stay here for the blogs we need some Pakistanis who are not radicals blogging here ...... You look like a cool kind of guy ... blog with us . saskia......
I know what you are telling me Carl, its at least a step in the right direction that you can acknowledge that . Social dysfunction is often the burden of a highly intelligent person. Their brain cannot adhere to what is for some normal behaviour, they are emotionally sent packing to a place where very few people go. Isolation from like minded people isolates them even further. as time goes on. By the time they recognise where they could have done things differently , it is usually too late. A life of great dissatisfaction often plagues highly intelligent people because basic intelligence is what they lack. They often appear as lofty know it alls to regular folks because they are too difficult to relate to. Intelligence can be marked in many ways ,, there is academic intelligence , practical intelligence, emotional intelligence , and a combo of the three. Having one form , without the others will leave you devoid of all the necessary tools to create a naturally satisfying life for yourself. Please don't be like my own mother Carl , who had an I Q that could boil water , and to this day still the smartest woman i have known , yet on her death bed she admitted she was a slow learner when it came to love and emotions. saskia
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Maintenant, je suis vraiment pleurer dur avec cette chanson, les paroles sont très poignante. mon mari était aussi le français, merci mon cher pour la chanson je pense que je vais rester dans mon lit aujourd'hui. saskia