Harry , would you take the first chikita who came along? , you also have high standards surely , i mean why wouldn't you ? A partner for life needs some serious consideration. saskia
Harry we don't need men , we WANT MEN ....BUT .... only if they prove they are worthy of us. We have choices now , ..... different times dear ...saskia
you don't understand harry ..... we don't need men any more, we can handle ourselves now . It began when we got the birth control pill, then we got equal wages, equal opportunities, Now we have our own money and can establish our own lives without prejudice..... We can afford to be picky and choosy now , are you saying thats a bad thing ? Or just a natural progression of our society in its progressional development on the planet. saskia
Hello serendipity ..... I hope you have a great day , even though I don't really believe , I still love you for all the effort you make to help those of us who might be heathens......saskia
You are forgiven lively , I am happy you did not say what i thought you said, you are articulate and i welcome you here to the blogs , i look forward to reading more from you. Thanks for explaining what you did mean . Saskia
You are forgiven lively , I am happy you did not say what i thought you said, you are articulate and i welcome you here to the blogs , i look forward to reading more from you. Thanks for explaining what you did mean . Saskia
Lively , you are assuming I am another USER ?? what an absurd statement .... when you have been here long enough and really know me well , you will understand I am absolutely NOT A USER ! ! Guadal refers to my frequent travelling habits , and my love of designer hand bags , all of which I can afford from my own hard earned money . Saskia
Hi serendipity , how are you doing today my dear? Thanks for explaining what you know , i admire you that in the face of such criticism and lack of interest by most people here you do take the time to enlighten us with your great knowledge. I hope its of benefit to some. Have a great day Saskia goddess of the kitchen.
a woman that laughs at a man is like rats or mice..... you see / hear one laughing , but there are hundreds more hiding that you don't see/Hear. saskia
Its our own expectations of someone that failed to be realised for us that causes us to move on . When we can release ourselves from that expectation then it will all be put into perspective for us. Its a far nicer place for us in our own minds if we don't feel hurt or hate when someone realises or we realise we no longer belong together. Hate for a past love often eventuates when one party cannot assume responsibility for his/her own judgement he/she played in the liaison. Its lack of understanding of ones self, and respect for anothers right to be as he /she is that causes such an emotion at the end. The most well adjusted minds will recognise an individuals right and need to be as they naturally are then recognise their minds/way of life etc did not suit, or situations change and agree to disagree . Its only anger at ourselves and disappointment in something we cannot have for ourselves that leads to such hate in the end. If you have hate for another human , its really self hate you are experiencing . think about it please...saskia
Stay confident and hopeful my dear. its regrettable that you must go through this awkward process, but i guess they try to protect themselves from people staying in their country and working illegally as happens often. I wish you all the best in reaching your dream...saskia
some people mistake kindness for stupidity ......... therein lies the problem. A kind person can be taken advantage of if he/she lets it so. I consider myself kind and generous , people tell me that , but once someone tries to take advantage of me i clamp up and i give nothing. Just because you choose to be kind and helpful do not allow yourself to be taken for a ride , thats the key. saskia
Vulpine thanks for your approval, to clarify the point you make about my comment of dressing well and having the means to do so.... I did not mention as you seem to think that "fancy " dressing is a representation of a cultured person . It is about dressing well. To suit the occasion , having the means but within his/her means. Cultured persons do not dress in a way to stand out or draw attention to themselves, they are modest rather than overtly stylish and need not be fashionable. Its about the quality of the dress, I have seen very poor people in my work who can dress in a cultured way, they can still be clean and obtain the right fit. Some of the most cultured people I have ever met were Indians who by our own standards were quite poor. Its about refinement within your own restrictions , good taste in all things comes into a high cultured existence always. saskia
I always believed that jesus claimed to be the son of god....never god , can you offer a biblical verse where it says jesus is god please? I find your efforts here to inform us quite remarkable , your knowledge is astounding Serendipity..... i thank you for your information ....... saskia
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Solve the problem Teddy and become your own boss then .....