The more a person lies, the easier it gets. I made a decision long ago to not lie about things and relationships. I am certainly not perfect but I have worked on many things in my life to improve myself. An old expression: "don't lie and then you won't cast a shadow".
I agree that you love unconditionally; however, without absolute trust in a relationship, it never works. If he has lied to you about his past or present, he can't be trusted!
Sounds like you are in a tough situation! Maybe you could take some time off alone from your situation and reevaluate what is important and what isn"t.
It is said that when Ben Franklin was making very important decisions, he used a technique where he took a piece of paper and drew 2 columns. At the top of one column he put "pros" and the other he put "cons". Then he would think of each thing and decide what column it went into. After going thru this completely, he added up all of the "pros" and then the "cons". Which ever had the greatest number that is what he made his decision by. You could play with this idea a little to maybe help resolve your situation!
In a private mail, we can talk further! I wish you the best on whatever you decide!
Hey Cat, good to see you back. Glad things are going well for you my friend! I hope you can eventually get your own place again and get your dogs back.
Thanks Butter and Zeu. I appreciate your comments.
Luke, you are correct in your observations of some of the bloggers. I have been bad mouthed by some for some of the things I have written. But hey, that is to be expected I guess!
So Minerva, you don't ever copy and paste? Bull! I don't discriminate about hair color! Hey, the female neighbor could have been bald then there would be no argument!
RE: Suspicious mail?
Allia, look at the bright side. You stopped it before it got going.