It feels like a death....a great loss> hopelessness....believe me, I know. You will get through this and be stronger for it but right now you will have to fight to stay strong.
You and me were pretty wild in those days! Just about all of my boyfriends had motorcycles and of course I would ride in the back while listening to Nirvana. One of my boyfriends had long blond hair and blue eyes.....thought he was sooo cool
One thing that I LOVED was the 80s big hair love ballets and I didn't have to do a thing to my hair because it was already "big" I remember one guy who had a crush on me. His name was Greg. He used to stand by me during lunch at work and pretend to bump into me ...continuously! LOL then when would say things like "do you mind?" he would grin at me and serenade me with the song "don't you forget about me"...who sang that one?
One of the fondest memories that I have about the 80's is feeling really shy and awkward (being in my20s) and getting really clumsy and nervous if I was around a guy that I liked (I was kind of geeky) I remember the song "who's gonna drive you home tonight?" by the Cars one time after I broke up with my first boyfriend
I am one of those people that Jim speaks of. I made the unforgivable mistake of misspelling a word TWICE in my blog I am so sorry Jim, can you ever forgive me for my "stupidity" your majesty
(I wonder if he is one of those guys who would fire their own mother....you bet)
I sure that blogs such as this one will get him plenty of interested women who will want to have the "honor" of having a chance at a date with his majesty.
Thank you....I truly believe in this. I think that many times men and women simply don't understand that there are times when we must give each other space and room to breath and THATS when the "magic " dies....we end up smothering each other.
I agree though I must say that I am sure there are certain females who receive many many flowers just as there are some men who I'm sure receive more emails than usual and in those cases it would be difficult to acknowledge everyone....
I would also like to say THANK YOU for your courage....yes , thank you. You should know that what you, and those like you have done does not go unnoticed or unappreciated.
Your deepest desire......to be able to let go and "play" your inner child is speaking to you and telling you of this deep need or desire that you may have for a secure, stable male figure in your life who will make you feel as though you are finally "safe."
Stability, safety and to be loved unconditionally...like a child.
We all feel a sense of pride and at the same time a sense that justice has been done .
This is great reason to celebrate while still keeping in mind that there are still people out there who have the same mind set as Bin Laden and who do not value human life. We must stay strong and stay UNITED in this battle against terror.
Thank you for this intelligent blog. Yes , this was a positive step but lets not forget that it was just that....a step. Terrorism is far from being over. We must not let our guards down. Retaliation rarely ends....ever and usually is a continuing, never ending tribulation of back and forth lashes in which there are no clear easy answers....
...Oooops, cats out of the bag now. Well, stand back and prepare yourself for the swarm of crowds ready to take advantage of our good nature and generosity!!
Yes, it is true that some people could see this as a way to be pickier but I personally just see it as being more evolved , self aware and knowing what it is that you need as an individual in order to be in a healthy relationship. After all I believe that it is better to be alone rather than to be in an unhealthy or even abusive relationship.
inthemind,
Thanks, from lana 12345, 123456 and 1234567 ....I swear thats it!
RE: What was the best thing about the 1980s?
Rose,ABBA! Dancing Queen , young and sweet only 17!