The magic never has to end.......

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Most people will say that there are different "stages" in a relationship which I believe is basically true . They will say that there is the "warm and fuzzy stage" in the beginning when its still new and you feel butterflies in your stomach each time your eyes meet . Then there is the "comfortable , secure stage" when you feel more familiar with one another yet still romantic. and finally the "friendship stage" where there is less romantic feeling and the "friendship aspect" of the relationship becomes stronger.

In a sense I believe that if you are fortunate enough to be in a relationship long enough a relationship changes just as people do and does go through stages.....and yet , I must ask the question.....does the "magic" have to be a "stage" or is it possible to hold on to it?

I believe that the magic never has to fade and with the right balance of giving one another enough space to grow as separate individuals along with coming together again to "rediscover" each other, a relationship can keep that "warm fuzzy magical feeling" FOREVER.blushing bouquet heart wings
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Nice! You really should write more blogs like this :)
you missed a little bit out .....there's the 3 month hurdle and after jumping that one and you are still together then there is the 6 month stepping stone to a long life of no less than 3 years banana
Still,

Thank you....I truly believe in this. I think that many times men and women simply don't understand that there are times when we must give each other space and room to breath and THATS when the "magic " dies....we end up smothering each other.
Virgo,

There are always hurdles but if you can get through those the relationship becomes stronger.thumbs up
Smothering is what ruins many a good relationship. Of course you want to spend time with someone you love but its not necessary to be glued to each others side every single moment of every single day. That can actually turn a relationship sour.
I totally agree with all of you. But I still can't explain to my ex-wife why she should have cut the shackles off of my anckles after a 28 year failed marriage...(it must be my limited vocabulary...)

rowdy, esq.cool
@ rowdy ....at least you gave it your best cheering
That is really nice, thanks for already share in here wine
Nice blog, Lana!

I think the challenge is that both are needed to maintain the magic while only one is needed to stop it.

For the magic... I think it changes over time so 'magic' will look different in the future... and you still need to see it (and feel it) as magic.
Lana,

I could be your Magicblushing
I think a lot of people would like to be Lana's magic lol
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