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RE: OH NO !!! you have done it again!

How long indeed! What will it take??

Great blog

RE: SOS

fren,
You replied? Thats why they don't reply back. Men do not make sense so whatever you think would be "normal" just do the opposite...it usually works

Hope this helps

RE: Nightmare

LEVEL4. You are driving and see another hitchhiker. THIS TIME you just keep driving and do not pick her up NO stress

RE: Gotta love free will ;)

RE: Is this IT ? ? ?

For me it is when I can't stop thinking about him, when I see his face everywhere even when I close my eyes.

When his name lights up on my phone and my heart jumps.

RE: happy weekend!!

Hey Happy Weekend...and I will be working but lets celebrate anyway!! woo Hoo!!

RE: I FORGIVE YOU

lovely,
I always try to remember the most lowest points in my last relationship in order to keep a good perceptive of why I left. It would be so easy to romanticize about the good times and all of the things I used to love about him but there were so many things that I could not allow myself to accept in my life.

He will look back one day and realize what he lost and then it will be too late.

RE: ALMOST A GERIATRIC DATER.... 5....WHAT YOU DONT SE

takeme,
On a more serious note though, if you were my sister or a family member I would seriously be concerned for your safety. There are a lot of really messed up people (NOT JUST MEN) out there . Think about your children if not yourself and please be cautious!

RE: ALMOST A GERIATRIC DATER.... 5....WHAT YOU DONT SE

Next time you might want to try disabled men. My friend married a disabled man and she says that he cherishes her , of course part of the reason is that she helps him with his cane and he can't really leave her physically but he gets a nice steady , sable income and it works!

RE: I wish I lived in the 1930"s

goatee,
Now this is one blog where I will agree with you%100!! Hey, ya know of anyone who has a time machine??

RE: OTI Shy

Lum,
I relate to what you are saying because I used to be the same way and it seemed like the more I like the guy the shyer and more clumsy I got. I would stumble, trip over things make a fool of myself and even stutter sometimes(real geeky huh?) anyway, I found that instead of focusing so much energy on MYSELF if I just thought about the fact that HE the other person was also nervous and a bit scared , things seemed to go a lot smoother.

RE: is it wrong to help out my ex-wife

Lum,
Do not ever let life make you become hardened and jaded....when you have a child one day that child will forever cherish you as a father and as a positive influence in his life.....this is priceless.

RE: is it wrong to help out my ex-wife

Ultimately, the help you give her in whatever form will also help your child since SHE is your child's mother....but this is ultimately YOUR choice. Keep in mind that while your child is a minor what you do for your child's mother will also be helping your child.

RE: is it wrong to help out my ex-wife

Luminarius,

You may be only 25 and never married but you have more common sense and insight than some men twice your age.

RE: Do you have a film to suggest?

I have heard Aurthur is suppose to be very funny. I am hoping to see it when I get the time.

RE: what is up!!

Yes....they are very creative: "Your pic stole my heart!" or "I am seeking the one and I feel that you could be it!" this is my favorite though :"I feel a certain energy when I look at your pics as if this is meant to be"

RE: Feeling vulnerable

feel,
I want to say THANK YOU for understanding. I think that many men (NOT ALL) do not fully grasp the concept that some women have actually experienced some sort of threat whether physical or phsycological and are a bit leery in trusting or exposing themselves to any potential harmful or abusive situation again.

OK here goes...

yayee sail!! I agree!

OK here goes...

Yep true baltus,
And we must sometimes remind ourselves hey this is not the phsyco that hurt me this is my friend so lets have fun and tell the phsycos to bug off!!

OK here goes...

Still,
I'm with ya on that but sometimes if we get together and just have a good time, not take things quite as serious things start looking up, ya know

OK here goes...

Lum,
Mind blowing thoughts!

paddy,
Yes kindness ...never too much of that!


and virgo!
Yipeeee!!

RE: Seriously?

jen,
I can say that I totally understand you...wish I could say something to make you feel better.

I have been there and know what this feels like but I will say this, I believe in karma and when someone plays with some one else's heart in such a cruel way it will return to them one day . Know this and be good to yourself.

RE: Does some animals have solve?

My theory is that not all animals have brains.....I have seen proof in my ex bf

RE: what would you do in my place?

I have to add that from my experience.....it is never worthwhile to go out of your area to meet a guy. First of all if a man is well intended he will go out of his way for you the female to ensure that you feel "safe" another thing is that men generally do not respect or appreciate a woman going out of her way to see him in fact thought they may not tell you this they will see you as not very smart and perhaps even a bit desperate which will reinforce in him the justification that you deserve to be taken advantage of....does that make sense? NO! but we are taking about men here
Hey, you know we love you crazy guys

RE: Why I am here

Lum,
Its not that hard even in real life, you will discover that most people have the same insecurities and fears that you have ...maybe even more so. They just have learned to hide it better. I used to be shy too (yeah I know, you would never know it now) but I've learned that life is too short to worry about what others think especially since you will never make everyone happy anyway

RE: what would you do in my place?

still,
This is your decision however I am always extremely cautious in the beginning before I meet someone in person. If a man truly care for you the way I see it is he will understand your wanting to be absolutely safe and not take any unneeded risks with your safety.

I once met a man in person after emailing him for several months and thank God I was cautious enough to meet in the day time and in a public place because it was obvious that he was not mentally stable and could have hurt me physically if given the chance.

Pressure and drama

vyoleta,
Unfortunately, though I generally really love men from what I have experienced in my life so far, I believe you are right. Each man is capable of giving emotionally to a different degree but for the most part they really do not have the same capability of loving and caring unconditionally as we females do.

We are nurturers by nature. We bring life into this world and so it does make sense to a certain point which is why many times I feel that when it come to men though we do love them we must also protect ourselves and not get so involved emotionally....save that love for you children and family and as for men, they respect a woman who is strong and who respects herself.

Men for the most part do not understand the language of love. They see it as "weakness" and a woman who gives her heart to a man entirely is seen as pathetic...its not worth the heartache and loss ladies.......it really not

RE: Younger or Older?

My ex boyfriend's prior girlfriend was 5 years younger than me and toward the end of our relationship he kept bringing up the topic of how she was "younger than me" and since he seemed so taken by her I decided to look her up on facebook just to see what this "goddess" must look like Well to my shock and surprise she was anything but attractive! Seriously...I litteraly had to laugh out loud when I saw her pic and thought to myself "Is he kidding?? If he is that stupid her can have her"

Pressure and drama

@10K

Pressure and drama

Kant,
You're right which is why I said NOT ALL MEN

HURRAY 4 MEN!!!