Yes, I definitely have less patience. I also have a smaller circle of people around that I trust and WANT to spend time with. I have a social circle to get out and about that I can drop in and out as it suits, and then a few people I spend quality time with and I'm close to.
I'm happy this way and appreciate the people I have.
I also wish you that you find the man with the family values you desire and that you don't need to succumb to your families pressure in choosing a partner.
Hope your mum enjoys her big birthday celebration tomorrow.
That's just me, it takes time to get to know someone, fall in love and see if you both want to stick around. Liking, attraction and wanting to be with someone can be instant though.
RE: BHC is Finally Home Sweet Home!!
May your new home bring you much happiness Ed.