KNenagh Blog Comments (3,678)

RE: Can we truly admit to our flaws?

I did reflect on what I want and what I can offer someone. I found that a lot of guys were trying to mess someone around, and I don't want to do this to someone.

I come from a family where we could rely 100% on our parents and they on each other. Being able to trust and rely on someone is a basic requirement for me but I have found that this is hard to find - selfishness seems to be prevalent in a lot of guys (only talking guys as I didn't date girls).

I am very clear in what I want. Doesn't go down well with the locals as they are more into "laid back, doesn't take things to seriously, likes a laugh..." which is basically looking for an easy lay and no commitment. Meeting someone with similar values is important (and hard to find). I don't do casual and know that when I'm with someone, I do get emotional involved. That's why compatibility and getting to know someone beforehand is important to me.

RE: A second rainbow.

Who could resist such an intriguing name?

Will deffo have a read sometime!

RE: It`s Sandal season...

Jeez, just have a look into the mirror before leaving the house!

RE: Take A Guess

Where lightning struck?

RE: How Do They Manage It?

Can only guess, if the fish is something of an unwanted by-product in some countries, they want to get rid of it cheap. If it's a top product in your country, they are looking for top dollars.

RE: How Do They Manage It?

World market Cat.

If there are open markets, this is the price that is paid.

Everyone can make a choice as what to buy - I try to buy local, produce from Ireland, the EU and only then produce that is fresh from somewhere else. I'm not gone on beans from a starving 3rd world country, but there are sometimes no alternatives. There are also products I don't buy because of the lack of regulations and quality control in another parts of the world.

It's your money and you decide how to spend it.

RE: Be Careful Of What You Write

People will make up their mind about someone, no matter what. Some are good judges of characters, others aren't.

I think having a look at the people they surround themselves with (and if they have genuine friends that are good people) says a lot about a person.

RE: Yes, No, How?

That's good LS, it's a shame that people have to be worried if the money arrives where it's intended to go.

Hope the kids have family who will look after them and put the money to use for their education.

RE: ring a rosy

I think some of these men will be taken by desperate women wanting someone to put a ring on their finger.

You can't change how other people behave. I have no time for guys with bad behaviour, anyone displaying something like that, I would cut off contact straight away. Cuts down considerably on guys to talk to.

RE: Yes, No, How?

Good that you are not looking away and want to leave it to others.

I don't know how this is handled in your country. I know people here can give money to the family and they would put it into an account for their education. Not sure if this would reach these kids, are they going to a foster home? If there is a possibility to donate money into a fund for the education of these kids it is something that will help them. Are there other family members that will look after them?

RE: What happens

I probably wouldn't know who is hinted at anyway, but it should be interesting to read.

Who the heck came up with that name?

RE: I am so boring at this moment

Sorry to hear about you having a difficult time and no support from your sister Phoenix.

Hope times will get better for you and that you don't run into hassle with solicitors etc.

RE: Sunday Lunch

I wanted a big open living space incl. kitchen, took out a wall and put a kitchen in where a bedroom was. I don't know how new the place you are looking at is, what I liked about buying an older place that needed some work is that I could change the place to suit.

RE: Sunday Lunch

It is hard to go out and buy exactly what you want if you don't built it yourself.

I got what I was looking for size and location wise, but with a lot of stuff to do and a WAY bigger garden than I was looking for. Love it!

It takes time and patience though to find something suitable.

RE: Sunday Lunch

Nothing better than your own, cosy place Cat.

RE: Would you buy me a coffee?

Wohoo, at least I made one person happy today!

RE: Would you buy me a coffee?

Have to ask for something like that myself and not sure how it will be taken up and if they will do it. Reviews/testimonials is one of the best marketing tools and I will really try to sit down and write one.

Can you please pm me the link someday?

RE: Sunday Lunch

Good food, relaxed company and nothing to do for the afternoon - sounds like a great time Cat.

RE: Would you buy me a coffee?

I'll buy it for $3,99 and not to worried that I might need something stronger than coffee.

What about people you know leaving testimonials on Amazon? (well, not like the veet ones ) Think that's one way of promoting, plus advertising on FB is fairly cheap and you can target your audience.

TK Maxx has some nice, sugar-free coffee syrup in lots of flavours btw.

Best of luck with it!

RE: Just call me Fred

Mini magnums and something other than brown dessous will work for me.

You can always mention it and delete it before you go to bed?

RE: Just call me Fred

I have no idea what a goonie is but the mention of flannel in regards to spending the night with someone else does bring on a headache.

Did you buy anything today that's not made of flannel or do I have to go shopping with you?

RE: Would you?

It's a tough time and be good to yourself.

I'm planning to be in Germany for Christmas and close to the New Year, would be great to meet you in person saravathy.
Just let me know where and when closer to the time.

RE: Just call me Fred

Hope you got something nice and show a bit more skin on your hols Biff.

Have to go shopping myself.

RE: Would you?

Wishing you happiness on your path saravathy.

Give it time...

RE: Online crushes

I have corresponded with guys from here where it was obvious that we will never meet. So for me it was someone to chat to, penpal etc. - but I think these days that looking for friends on a dating website is a bad idea. Friendships can develop, but most people simply don't look for friendship on here.

RE: Your Profile And You

I don't currently have a lot on my profile as I'm not looking. I did write it from my perspective though. Something I have seen over the years is that it is different how people see me - if someone really knows me or if it's just an acquaintance or someone that just bumped into me.

My family doesn't hold back with feedback btw.

RE: Here's to us

I think a relationship and someone we loved deserves a chance, so I have tried to work on something in the past and not just walked away.

When respect and love was gone - time to move on.

I was out last weekend and met a friend I haven't seen in a while in a party place I usually don't frequent - it made me realise how much I hate the whole dating scene. Still, that wouldn't be a good enough reason to stay with someone, I just would stay on my own.

RE: Relationship Killers

I know and I usually run for the hills as well.

RE: Relationship Killers

Life is too short to hang around annoying people or get involved with someone you don't even like.

RE: Relationship Killers

In fairness, I think most people know at this stage in their life what they want and what works for them.