I like the selfies showing a toilet or a bedroom that looks like a group of badgers dwell there.
Photos of cars are great as well, I know what I most definitely don't want to do (hanging around some car or bike fairs on the weekend), so that's a great time saver as well.
You can always throw on a wonderbra and see what turns up on your wvm list Vivian.
I do like to read, but not celeb magazines and I don't have a TV in the house at the moment (renovating, moving etc.)
I don't know most of the so called celebs people are on about, not because I live behind the moon, but simply because I'm not interested in them.
I do think in a lot of cases no news is good news as if I get "the news" from home, the mind blowing stuff is is negative, but you won't hear me complaining about the good stuff.
There are good and bad in every species - we had cows and every one of them had a different character, most were good but there were some who would deliberately harm others. Same with horses, dogs etc. A herd has a "ranking" system and they are ruthless in applying it, there is no mercy for low ranking members of the herd (that incl. access to food and water). I don't think that it is as bad in any decent family tbh.
I know that there are bad and negative people, but I choose not to be bad or tolerate people like that around me. People have a brain and a choice and that is limited with animals.
I think so Vivian. If something is hard work in the start it never went anywhere for me.
With the right guys things came easily, it was fun and not one bit of work and hassle (at least until the very end when something totally incompatible came up - like a father in law etc. )
Jeez, and I complain about my garden being too big.
We have horses on an area that size. It's nice to have room around the house, but it's a lot of work - if you have a full-time job, are sick or just get older.
I cut the ditch, planted veg and moved the lawn a couple of times - my future garden decorating plans involve a lorry load of gravel.
Amore, there are people who are lonely and that is the reason they are looking for someone (and I think it's not a good state of mind to look for someone when you are lonely).
There are also people who built up a life they are happy with and they aren't lonely but are looking for the right person because they want someone in their life (as opposed to need to fill a void).
If something is over, it's over and people should move on and don't dwell on the past. Sit yourself down and think why things went wrong - did you do something wrong yourself or pick the wrong partner?
Be choosy but realistic in selecting your next partner.
RE: Am I who I use to be?
No one is the same person they were when they were 20.Everyone develops and for most people, it's in the right direction.
If there is something in your life you don't like, try to change it. Life is too short for regrets and to live in the past!