KNenagh Blog Comments (3,678)

RE: why promise forever?

Nope, the sane good guys looking for a relationship just all married years ago.

RE: Just Chilling...

Hiya CH, try to spoil myself with some little things. Something nice to eat, a good book and a warm bed.

RE: why promise forever?

That was my point georgie. Someone else will take the time to get to know you. My BS radar got a lot of work in the last number of years.

RE: why promise forever?

To get you for the present day georgie.

RE: I always wonder

Just wait until you have written a bestseller and made lots of money - then you can rent out your current abode and live somewhere else for a while and see how you like it.

I'm the opposite. I hate moving and renting and finally made up my mind after 10 years to settle down here. There are some things I'll never get used to, but I love my little home and have no intention of moving again EVER.

RE: As The Cookie Crumbles

Stuff like this happens all the time everywhere.

I do realise that worthy causes do need financing. I often donate time (more so for community and fun things) which I find do important as well. I sometimes give money to some local causes but it's usually small money these organisations are looking for.

RE: Happy Ending

It would be nice if love is like that, but I don't think it is realistic.

No one is perfect, 2 people have 2 different lives with different values, preferences etc.

Personally I'm happy to find someone compatible to spend time with, love and be loved and have both people working on making it last. As much as I would want it, I do believe a "forever" is rare - and I'm talking love, not sharing living space.

Doesn't mean I don't wish you (and myself) to find someone like that.

RE: Life is an adventure !!

They have a new collection box?

Seriously, I'm not allowed to eat sugar. A friend gave me a package 2 weeks ago and I shared it with my friends kids. They were delighted, but I would have eaten them myself over time if I was allowed. Buy now chocolate without added sugar and hope no one brings too much nice stuff to work.

Enjoy them, they are delicious.

RE: Life is an adventure !!

Yup, and you go out and actually date. Go figure!

RE: Saying nothing

These days, if someone asks me, they will get an honest answer.

I find not many people do ask, so I really try to keep my mouth shut.

I do find some things about the new technology awkward. Someone wanted to meet you, they had to pick up the courage and ask for you phone number (and your parents to hand it to you). These days, they can make contact via FB, other social sites and I just ask myself, how the HECK did you get the idea that I could be thrilled to hear from you? Why not talk to me face to face when you actually had the opportunity?

Good to see a handsome face around here btw.

RE: Life is an adventure !!

If I don't like something in my life, I'l change it. Thankfully I am in the position to do so.

Looking around, I always found that the people with a bit of get up and go are happier than the moaners who only complain and do nothing about it.

RE: Confused in California

Different people want different things. There are couple with bigger age differences and if they're happy, best of luck to them.

I prefer someone pretty close to my age. That's just a personal opinion, but the thought of someone my father or son - simply not going there.

RE: If you could only see...what love has made of me..

Trying to meet like-minded people is good. Is there an active church group in your area? You like horses, are there groups doing trekking? I find meeting someone in social situation and just being sociable and chatting a good way of actually getting to know someone.

RE: Happy Birthday Calliopesgirl

Callio, best wishes and may you find what you are looking for!

RE: If you could only see...what love has made of me..

I know these days that "trying" to meet someone never works for me. Socialising, heading out with friends and getting to chat to lots of different people - and then realising, oh this one in interesting is what works for me best at this stage.

RE: my good deed for the day..

Fair play to ya Ian and Biff.

Someone who is all about themselves won't ever be happy methinks. Also, who wants to be with someone like that?

I had people helping me when I had a tough time and I will never forget that.

RE: Breaking News Alerts!

Best wishes to you Miclee!

RE: Wrong or right

FB is there for EVERYONE to see - so I wouldn't put up anything I didn't want someone to see, let it be a guy or an employer (btw. employers do look at it as well!).

I do find his behaviour with shouting unacceptable, but I do find it strange as well that you say that you are in a relationship for the last 6 month and have no indication of this on your profile here - your profile is still active "for business" by the look of it.

RE: Defining friendship

Sometimes acquaintances to get out and about and have fun with is exactly what I need. Doesn't mean I don't have this with my friends (and I often take my best buddy along with me to others), but it is important to have a variety of people to do a variety of different things with.

RE: Defining friendship

Hiya Biff, my circle of friends got small and that's the way I let it happen during the last number of years. I'm close to my family, I can always rely on them and on a few close friends.

I have acquaintances, people I socialise with, people I chat with (RL and here), I do like going out to meet people on the weekends, but prefer quiet evenings at home during the week.

There are people I would like to meet for a coffee and a chat from here (and have already met a good few), but I do concentrate to spend time with people in RL.

RE: Where's all the Wild Wanton Women at?

I'm going to have breakfast now.

Think I'll pick up some smoked ham tonight.

Ladies, have a lovely day!

RE: Another Mini-Mijo On The Way!!

Great news Ed!

Congratulations to you and the family and hope mum and child are ok.

RE: I remember - actually no I don't

"Fair is foul and foul is fair."

I write down everything. If I don't, I'll forget. Sometimes I'll put notes in my phone, but I do forget to look it up.

RE: OLDER MEN AND YOUNGER WOMEN.

If 2 people want to be together these things are up to themselves. I wouldn't be interested in someone with a big age difference, but it's none of my business what other people do. If 2 people find each other and are happy, I would simply be happy for them.

RE: I don't like you much

It's Sunday morning, I'm lying in a warm, cuddly bed, life is good, so not having to get over anything - just getting up laters and meeting a friend for lunch and another one for coffee.

If it's any consolation, I do like you and the missus.

RE: #WEARENOTAFRAID#Kamitidaktakut#staystrongIndonesia

It's what happening in the world and it's horrible.

Glad to hear you are ok Kasih.

RE: Why is it

It takes a while to get to know someone and no one is perfect anyways.

I think it helps to get to know someone over a period of time to make up my mind if it's someone I would want to have hanging around - or not.

Hope all is well with you Mrs Biff.

RE: I know why you will always be single (A reflection

Some people are better off with being single methinks. (this is not a slight at anyone, just an observation.

I know what I want and don't have nerves for a guy that doesn't.

RE: Afraid Of Commitment?

No, I'm not afraid of commitment. I wasn't ever with someone where I had the feeling to give up anything - a partner is a positive addition to my life.

When I'm with someone, I was never interested in even looking at another guy or have this "the grass is always greener" attitude. Know a good few people that do and I do think that some of them will either end up alone or regret some choices they made.

If I meet someone I like and could see a future in a relationship, I will give it a go. Being realistic and taking the time to get to know someone is not a guarantee, but it helps.

I do like having someone in my life.

RE: RAISING A RED FLAG

Hi wen, I can understand where you are coming from. There are cultural differences, but it wouldn't be a common occurrence where I come from - someone would need to "mess up" to have kids taken away (if they are small and not already young adults studying or working away).

A red flag for me is all these guys that have kids but aren't married. I do realise that unplanned pregnancies can happen and things don't work out sometimes - but I'm surprised of the big numbers where it "didn't work out". I do have sympathy for guys that are in their kids life and that were married and at least gave it a try.