I don't know the answer. I certainly don't speak for all men. However, personally, I would prefer to invest my heart with someone who is healthy and is more likely to be around long term. I don't believe it is a matter of fear of catching it, as you suggested. I do think you are doing the right thing in letting people know. Perhaps you are best matched with a guy who has gone (or is going) through the same thing. That way, you can be great support for each other and have similar risks for remission. Either way, good luck to you !
A better question is - why do you love someone "so badly" when they don't love you ? Is it possible that it isn't really love at all ? You can not love someone you do not understand. That is a false love at best. Indeed, it is a misunderstanding. My guess is that you have been infatuated, rather than truly in love.
So, the real issue is that you consider a photo "competition" ? If she (the one in the photo) was competition, he wouldn't be on here would he ? (unless he isn't seeking anyone romanticly)
BTW, the dog photo is violation of CS rules. Your main photo must be of yourself, or you can have no photos.
If we are attempting to read between lines (that don't exist), what exactly does it mean when a woman posts a picture of a dog's nose as her main photo ??? What does that suggest ?
Think about what was REALLY written here, not your interpretation. Look at the actual words.
First of all who would even answer such a "type of ad" ? "I have a house and car - any takers ?" Not you gals, but a "taker". Someone looking to take material things. By using the word "type" it indicates that she has experience with more than one person of this "type".
Second of all, would a guy even place such an ad ? No ! But, this is exactly what she was looking for in the profile. This is what is important to her.
Even the word she chose to indicate her disappointment in not getting what she wanted was a material - "ashes".
She spoke nothing about lies, but rather her disappointment in not getting what she wanted; a house and a car.
She has effectively outed herself as a material girl, for those who can clearly see it.
Today I visited my aunt. She is the only sister of my mom and lives in the same neighborhood as where I am now. I invited her over for Christmas yesterday, but she declined saying that she "had company". Now, I knew that she was at one time the president of a singles club (for seniors), Thus, I guessed that perhaps one of the gentlemen from that club was perhaps celebrating XMas with her. Nope, I found out today it was another 'aunt'. Technically, she really isn't an aunt, but my sister & I call her that. She's like a second cousin-in-law or something like that. Regardless, today I went over and ended up fixing my aunt's toilet, flipping her mattress and doing some other manual labor type things for her. I also gave both women a couple of XMAS gifts from my siter and also from me. I got my aunt a tea pot (she burned her old one up) and my other aunt (second cousin) a book titled, "No Reservations". My sister gave our aunt an orchid (my suggestion) and our second cousin a large cranberry candle. Both women were very surprised & pleased with their gifts.
I just got home now and polished off a couple of turkey sandwiches & blackberry tea, while writing this blog. I hope it was as good for you, as it was for me. Ready for some fruit salad ?
Certainly, chemo should be tried first, or perhaps a combination of chemo & radiation. Has he seen a specialist at a cancer center ? If progress is not shown, I recommend getting hospice involved. They can help him feel comfortable and also assist you and your family. I do hope that somehow his cancer can be cured.
Hi L. I am about 45 minutes north of West Palm Beach. Thanks very much for the offer, but I cannot be around smokers. I know it may sound odd to you, but it's a real turnoff to me. Nonetheless, I do wish you Happy Holidays.
The cable guy is supposed to stop by on Monday to hook me up with the 'triple play' (internet, phone & TV), so until then, trips to the library are my only way online.
Very true. I was not as 'lucky' when it was my dad's time.
Yeah, I'll be very careful ESPECIALLY regarding the gators. I saw several big ones last time and likely will this time too. They look like they would move slow, because mostly they don't move. But man, they are FAST !
Thanks to you both. Yes, I will be taking my laptop with me, so unfortunately for you all, I will still be posting here & in the picture threads, despite requests to the contrary.
RE: well
Was it a suggestion, or a demand ?Regardless, you are a lovely person just the way you are.