RE: How handy are you?

Can do all the usual household things, cook, clean, knit, sew, lay bricks, clean drains, repair, decorate, diy stuff.

EMPLOYED AS: a caterer, tiler on construction sites, decorator, interior designer, soft furnishings (own company dealing with hotels, hospitals and airports, retirement homes etc),been dresmaking since I was 9 yrs old, arts and crafts teacher, house mother to 90 kids, foster mother, hospital admin, shop manager, artist, sculptor, writer, journalist, poet, therapist, cheesemaker, chief buyer for an engineering company, caregiver in nursing homes, secretary, waitress, receptionist, telephonist, fashion designer and St John's Ambulance Certification, among others...

RE: When you don't like a person

I rarely find that any person is devoid of something to like about them.

It's just a matter of looking. I would feel I was being unfair to anyone I did not see something good in, even if there were things I did not like.

RE: Which is worse?

I think all words have their place and it's all about balance.

If i was bouncing around with a thumb I had bashed with a hammer accidentally, I wouldn''t be sitting there saying "Oh! my! what a silly thing to do!!!"

RE: Negative Energy

What you are saying here is a bit like I think of negativity. I see it as perception. If you perceive someone or something as negative then that is like seeing the glass half empty, and when you perceive someone or something as positive, then you are seeing the glass as half full.

So, ergo, ie, therefore, the negativity is not in the person you are perceiving, but in YOU, because you perceive them as negative.

Some people can't see the good in anyone, because that is what they are looking for in people, or percieving from a negative viewpoint, and others see it in everyone, because that is what they are looking for, or perceiving, from a positive viewpoint........

Just an observation...........

RE: question for ladies

Each individaul person's scent is different, so the same scent on many people smells different. I think it is about the individual not the scent, or what combination you AND your partner find to your taste.........

RE: Teenagers

I think I might have enough on my plate for the moment lollaugh

RE: Teenagers

While, and after raising my own 3 kids through teens, I also fostered drug addicted alcoholic teens with criminal records. I have been fostering now for 11 years and have 2 at the moment aged 15 and 17. My own kids are now 23, 26 and 28. All have turned out really nice people.

RE: random thought

You always weave such delightful patterns that lift the spirit. Thank you.bouquet

RE: What is the best way to break up with someone?

Face to face is best. If you have time and not in a hurry to get rid, then make them break up with you first.

It is easier on them if it's what you want anyway. Just say and do things that annoy them and they get angry and leave.........

It works for me every time.

RE: What do you want to be when you grow up

Artist wasn't on your list.... doh

Is it not a career or something to aspire to?confused

RE: why are people so hung up on looks cause really its whats on the inside that counts for the longterm

I'm with you on this one.........thumbs up

RE: Have your views changed?

Those would be pretty much my views toowine

RE: Are people starving to death in The United States?



This is a link to a site that shows pics of starving Americans, among others.

Funny thing though. When I went looking up sites that talked about poverty in the USA, none of the sites worked. Isn't that odd? (I have friends who for many years have worked with the poor and starving in various parts of the States, so I know firsthand that it exists, so why hide it?).

Censorship maybe? Could the fact that this media outlet is, after all owned by America, have anything to do with it?

RE: ARE THERE ANY LADIES OUT THERE THAT WILL ACCEPT A PERSON FOR WHO THEY ARE?

If I know who they are, and they know who I am, and we both want that, then ok.

If not, there is no point in trying, because either of us would feel that we would have to change something, and then it wouldn't work.

RE: Be honest now, is race, religion, or politics an issue for you, when it comes to dating?

I think that most people actually define who they are by a set of beliefs. Their individual set of beliefs make them a particular individual. When they start to state who they are, they say things like I am religious, or spiritual, or could never do this or have that because I believe..............????????

I find that it is very rare to find anyone who can seem to step outside of their often narrow belief comfort zone to actually meet another individual on a different set or level of beliefs, and therein lies the problem.

Personally I find that having a particular set of beliefs is often very limiting on all levels, so I try not to confine myself and try to accept everything as being ok or possible or worth trying, at least once, so long as it does not appear to damage a person physically, psychologically or philosophically.

We are all limited, even with ever-changing-beliefs, sometimes very limited, and that makes it almost impossible to co-habit with anyone, or even to get on with some, on a daily basis, on even the most basic levels. JMOwine

RE: Bad Seed

I don't like to label anyone evil, or even bad. It's not a concept I can accept. I believe, like many others here, that how people turn out is part genetics, (drug or alcoholic hereditary factors or mental disease), and part how they are disciplined or not, parental and environmental example, and brought up/raised, even down to which place in what size of a family they come from, how strong or weak willed they are, their willingness to learn, or not, their reactions to how they are treated, life traumas, (physical and mental), their own habits and addictions and interactions socially and a multitude of combinations of all these things and more.

I have never met an "evil" infant yet!

RE: Have you ever been given an award, or won something?

Group Captain Geoffrey Leonard Cheshire, Baron Cheshire, VC, OM, DSO and Two Bars, DFC ( to give him his full title),
founder of :
The Cheshire Foundation Homes for the Sick for disabled people (later known as The Leonard Cheshire Foundation)
Leonard Cheshire Centre for Conflict Recovery
Ryder-Cheshire Foundation
Ryder-Cheshire Volunteers, and
The Memorial Fund for Disaster Relief ,

visited Kenya when I was there and gave me a special award for a project I pioneered there in relation to the work he was doing with kids with missing limbs.

I also won a pair of recycled rosary beads (all different colurs and shapes of beads), when I was 8 years old,

I got 3rd prize out of 25,000 contestants for a poem I wrote, and numerous other smaller awards for other writing pieces,

and €500 on a lottery scratch card.

RE: Phrases you can use to take someone down a notch....

Did you get that head in the cabbage patch?

RE: The Rhyming Word Game

opine

RE: The Rhyming Word Game

whine

RE: The Rhyming Word Game

Incline

RE: what about Mama

No is the short answer.......

RE: what about Mama

You are very sweet , ty. All my family are in the hospital with her right now but I can't bring myself to be there. I saw her just before she went in there and for once she didn't run me down. I somehow want to hold on to that and not let anything she said before, or would say to me now, colour my memory of her. Praying for her is all I feel I can do now.

RE: what about Mama

My mother always told me I was crazy and useless and would never amount to anything.

I don't like her but I don't hate her either.

She is dying right now of cancer, not expected to live past the next few days.

I don't know what to think about her any more.

RE: should profits of corporations and CEO bonuses be controlled?

The corporations OWN the governments..........

RE: If you could have any one thing right now, what would it be????

My man in my bed......

RE: Love or money ??????????

I do

RE: Finger Foods

wheatos or similar fortified cereal dry, tuna, sweetcorn, rice cakes, dried fruits,(apricots,bananas etc), raisins, dried blueberries, little pieces of poached fish flaked, lightly stewed apples, melon, jelly, thinly sliced cucumber, grated carrot raw, little cooked chicken pieces chopped up.........

RE: Love or money ??????????

Love definitely. Money doesn't kiss you softly, or cuddle up to you, or have eyes that light up when you enter a room, or tell you how you have enriched it's life..........

RE: Alone or with someone else

I just like a little alone time during the day or maybe an hour or two in the evening. Although I live alone most of the time, I really enjoy the sharing with family and we all visit each other every day. I love playng with the grandkids and catching up with friends most days when I am out and about. I work alone most of the time but enjoy company there too. When I can, I foster. Kids are great company and bring life to the house, and bring a different perspective on life and what's happening in the world. I am not territorial about "things" and how they should be, so I suppose I prefer sharing space to being alone.

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