Give them time and they will let you know who they are. Some take more time then others. If you are interested in finding out more about them let them know...open the door. Sometimes when they see you getting close to someone they will speak up being afraid you will be taken. Let your statis be know openly. Then they will not think they have missed out and go away. Only if you are interested.
RE: How would you deal with an unknown admirer?
Give them time and they will let you know who they are. Some take more time then others. If you are interested in finding out more about them let them know...open the door.Sometimes when they see you getting close to someone they will speak up being afraid you will be taken. Let your statis be know openly. Then they will not think they have missed out and go away. Only if you are interested.