Which isn't to say that most women don't like to win arguments. They just don't like the gritty detail of a real debate. That is, they don't like the process of winning arguments, but they're more than happy to emotionally impose the final word - to assert that they're correct but never prove it.
The thread is titled "I can't believe what women think".
But no most women don't like to be seen in the same clothes as the next because it's confrontational. Most women, perhaps not yourself, avoid arguments and confrontation because they're masculine. But they're still very competitive about looking good they just don't want the competition to be glaringly obvious - say, by wearing the same clothes - because this creates confrontation.
And so would I. I'm just saying that style and looking good is relative to what everyone else thinks. She can't wear a potato sack, tell herself it's stylish and by doing so become stylish.
That wouldn't work. The White commonwealth is very much still a Europe that isn't in Europe. America is something distinct. And it manifests itself today on issues like healthcare and the size of the state - the Canadians politically have more in common with Western Europe than they do with America.
One only need put a Brit and an OZ, or a Brit and a Canadian in the same room together to see how much the commonwealth still has in common.
1)I should hope so. Men have aggression to manage. He needs to be trained to channel hs aggression to avoid all kinds of psychological and emotional problems. Aggresssion is a man's medicine.
2)Boy and girls have generalised different strengths and weaknesses - so yes you would have different expectations. If my Daughter cant kick a ball straight, so be it, if my Son can't kick a ball straight it will get him beaten up at school and the girls will like him less. So a decent Father trains the spackiness out of his Son.
3) Yes, I'd stop physically disciplining my Daughter at a younger age.
It's basically a blend of not making it easy for a woman and flirting. To say and do those things that skirt the boundaries of social acceptability which have parted the legs of woman since time immemorial.
I expect that's where you're going wrong. You need to misbehave with women. I'm not saying come on all insulting or aggressive; the aim is ambiguity and a hint of darkness; women love men when they can't quite figure out if he's a good guy or a bad guy; don't be so nice and obvious. You will be palm-pleasuring yourself in the friendzone for the rest of your life. Or until a woman pronouncedly less attractive than you comes along before then.
For the man of the Light then normal and abnormal means the same as the healthy and the unhealthy, the truth and the lie, and the man and the monster. He is revulsed by all which degenerates his harmonious norms, by the freaks and the pissants who confound the Light in a mask of sophistry, for the mask is death.
If it was a good friend that was still in love with her then I'd have my reservations. If he'd dump her then I'd say it's definitely fair game, and I'm not bothered about having his castoffs because I like to make my own mind up about things. In the final I'd say that it's doubtfully a dealbreaker, possibly a gamechanger.
As a society? No. In fact my hope is that the state goes bankrupt before all the death astronauts die away. If young people can't get jobs or a roof over their heads and face a future at the food bank because of what baby boomers have done then I don't see why the elderley deserve to be fed. They are the empitome of the undeserving poor.
Then it's just about the individual: have you raised your kids properly so they will look after you when your senile?
The importance of common interests are overstated. Good relationships are congruent and contrast counts; they are not samey. And you're not meaningfully defined by the games you play or the kind of DVDs you like to watch. It is good to have your own thing.
Yes, and been out with loads of Irish women. But yea the traditionalism and probably religion too has kept Irish women that bit more feminine and honourable. Here's to your priest-infected backwaters!
If you've got one thing going for you Pedro it's that you're in Ireland. The fact that Ireland's always been fifty years behind the rest of the world means that your women still go for chivalry... a bit.
It's absolutely not the way men are supposed to be, you shouldn't keep your emotions bottled up so tightly. No, he's allowed one lone solitary tear to trickle down his cheek if the love of his life leaves him or he gets cancer. Just the one.
Just always remember that she is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.
Never allow your beta romance streak to blind you from reality. Look at the gays and take a leaf out of the queer book - in terms of how they deal with and behave in relationships, gay men are more manly than straight men.
Poets are deadly with women so long as they're about 80% cynical to 20% romantic.
Any man who is this lovey dovey in general will be hopeless with women, but if the poetry hints at a romantic core that she, and only she, can unlock then you have the woman in your hand and the balance of the world.
Don't say it, display it. Nobody who is funny says that they are funny... It's like people who say that they've got good social skills, only people with terrible social skills would ever say this.
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RE: I can't Believe What Women Think
Which isn't to say that most women don't like to win arguments. They just don't like the gritty detail of a real debate. That is, they don't like the process of winning arguments, but they're more than happy to emotionally impose the final word - to assert that they're correct but never prove it.