Oh dear, from all his "damages" you have mentioned, I don't understand what's the "great" about him. In my opinion you should get on with your life...or soon you might be doing this
I won't think twice to hit a man or a woman if they put in danger my health or life. But if a man or a woman endanger my son's life I think I am ready to kill.
Oh yes, it does promote laziness. When teenage girls become pregnant with their parent's blessing just to get a council house and benefits exactly like their parents did for years, yes it feeds the laziness. There are so many people who never had a job and are very proud of the fact. They can't even read and write and why should they bother when they are perfectly able to count their easy money.
I think we have to make a difference between having a job and career. It is not the same. Not climbing the career ladder doesn't mean you are unemployed.
Unfortunately too many people are wealthy just because they are famous and they are famous just with being famous. One can hardly have any respect for such people.
RE: How do you date someone who is great but damaged from past relationships
Oh dear, from all his "damages" you have mentioned, I don't understand what's the "great" about him. In my opinion you should get on with your life...or soon you might be doing this