comments and questions like this are posted all the time on CS
i dont know her or you never seen either one of you on here b4 for all i know youre the same person and i dont care
there was nothing personal just all well intended advice frankly 98% of the subjects like this that come up dont cause me any curiosity at all as to who is interacting with who.
we dont need to know a 'whole story' to respond as the situation was posted.
little defensive on your part she was being discreet- you outed yourself.
wow shipoker i dunno wut to say to THAT! that would not be my perception of you at all-
seems like there are 2 opps to comment on so ill go with the title
yes- maybe half the time i am learning to not overshare and that timing is everything which is not an exact science cuz if you wait to share something sometimes the person then feels deceived.
knowing that people are crazy and so am i helps.
also ive always been taught that 'rejection is god's protection' and usually its the first thing i hear in my head when i feel that initial sting of rejection. its something i have seen be true enuf to rely on it
love from another human ibeing is never unconditional its not possible its not part of our nature
i guess releasing that ideal is something i would work at giving up allowing myself to accept that about me and him... that helps a relationship thrive
i couldnt grow if there were never any compromise in my life
what would i learn about me? have the opportunity to change/grow/mature? why else would i get involved in anything at all if there was no opportunity for growth?
bottoming out in addiction and living in my car w/ my son who was in 6th grade, for 7 months
having my other son at nearly 16 choose to leave home for drug and gang life
being sued for 5 yrs by an idiot who claimed my dog bit him
my fiance dying suddenly 3 yrs ago- and my dad 3 wks later and 3 months later getting a diagnosis of MS and 2 yrs after ending up 3 inches shorter and in a wheelchair
having a surgery after it being discovered that my spinal cord was almost severed and i didnt have MS at all (even tho my grown kids and teen had to face my possible death... and did see me deteriorate to a chair)
said surgery was 50/50 for walkin again and 70% possible i would never speak or sing again
my point iiiis
im sure im leaving some stuff out my past has served in so many ways to help others and isnt that why we're all here...
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RE: What should I do?
i wasnt scratching my headcomments and questions like this are posted all the time on CS
i dont know her or you
never seen either one of you on here b4
for all i know youre the same person
and i dont care
there was nothing personal
just all well intended advice
frankly 98% of the subjects like this that come up dont cause me any curiosity at all as to who is interacting with who.
we dont need to know a 'whole story'
to respond as the situation was posted.
little defensive on your part
she was being discreet-
you outed yourself.