how many times have i heard "you challenge and stimulate my thinking-thats what i want/need"
and then he flips later- funny how many profiles/people say one thing but when you get to know them you notice they perhaps are listing hopes of how theyd like to be? but arent there yet...
and i guess im mostly referring to those that say they cant even send one thru mail-
i know there are reasons for not posting it on a site but come on!
plus so many times they are the first to ask you to cam- but they dont have one-lol
like i said we dont even know if these fotos are actually them but its just more comfortable even though its a counterfeit feeling of security to be "looking at someone"
and if a guy cant figure that out he's too stoopid to interest me anyway-
well really what does one say when they see the photo and become disinterested?
-its awkward
but if there was a foto up from the beginning the two would begin talking with ease as they would have on some level, passed muster..?
ive seen all situations w/ fotos fuzzy-far away shots are the same as none if you ask me. but i spose its enuf to interest some and get them communicating, simply because its a foto posted.
also men and women use fotos that are NOT current-lol and sometimes i figger-what does it matter if theres a foto? ive discovered over the years many a foto that actually came from google or somewhere-LOL what can we do-?
having a foto- in a way...well, it allows a rapport-(or not) to develop just to get chatting but so far as the "oooh i dunno how to do that-" explanation?
boy do i agree-but it took awhile its very discouraging but i didnt do anything wrong so why should i leave?
as you said-friends are here sometimes its good just to hang around with friends and stay involved
you are not alone in being hurt here- the details dont matter the hurt is so the same
i also have come to believe the best thing to do when i am unsure is nothing- just do the next right thing and running is rarely ever the right thing...
i had a nap and the weirdest most awful dream that i had simply moved away and just now gone to visit and he was in better health and very prosperous and rejected me in front of all these 'hangers-on'-(public humiliation is a deep rooted oddity for me)
ohhh it was just weird and like i was trapped in the feelings in the dream
and i went back again the next day
welll----i spose i do have a difficulty in letting go-
mindfful Forum Posts (18,996)
RE: KARENS DEN :)
i think karens decided her cellar is a great place to hang outand not share!!!
moloko bring out your supply please-?