congrats sam for knowin that and finding your way back.
the rest of it WHOOOO CAAAARRRRES?!!
if youre not the parties involved, why share the info THATS THE VERY DEFINITION OF GOSSIP and is what men always say is such a turn off in a woman so all of us are looking bad- also i think what is shared in private is private- or else if a member wants it to be public its up to that member to make it so!!!
alot of this has been going on lately- people who see themselves as the protectors and information officers to other members, tho their services were never requested- and sometimes exactly the opposite! people say-'no-please dont defend me' and the damn people do it anyway-
i must once again quote the comment-"like a schoolyard!"
now im claiming there are 4 sides to every story disregard my claiming there are 3 in past postings
yours, mine, the truth, and the one your "protector" sifts thru and trumpets to the world at large
boring boring boring (where is a leaving icon?) completely not constructive to the individuals involved and destructive to CS as a whole as well.
i am not taking sides nor bashing anyone i am just stating principles in which i believe and try to live by cuz i have found, for me-i am more peaceful that way and my peace is more important to me than any kind of attention i might get from anyone-
thats my 84 cents
(hey now that i look at it- i coulda made this whole post with only icons- )
i know that it is hard cbond-so much respect... ive poked around here for a long time-taking long sabbaticals- this is the most ive been here- it is difficult sometimes
i think many of us are sensitive people and if an online friendship grows to the point we call it friendship it feels the same as any hurt that happens anytime
this seperation line between online and not i cant seem to find it- so- like in real life- i get hurt sometimes
now that i am hearing myself say this- hmmm-i think i have just put it into perspective for myself!
so far i have lived thru whats happened wherever- so chances are i will 'in here' as well...
mindfful Forum Posts (18,996)
RE: whoa ..i'm back :)
well good gravy marieim here to tell ya
LIFE GOES ON
congrats sam for knowin that and finding your way back.
the rest of it
WHOOOO CAAAARRRRES?!!
if youre not the parties involved, why share the info
THATS THE VERY DEFINITION OF GOSSIP
and is what men always say is such a turn off in a woman
so all of us are looking bad-
also i think what is shared in private is private-
or else if a member wants it to be public
its up to that member to make it so!!!
alot of this has been going on lately-
people who see themselves as the
protectors and information officers to other members,
tho their services were never requested-
and sometimes exactly the opposite!
people say-'no-please dont defend me'
and the damn people do it anyway-
i must once again quote the comment-"like a schoolyard!"
now im claiming there are 4 sides to every story
disregard my claiming there are 3 in past postings
yours, mine, the truth, and the one
your "protector" sifts thru and trumpets to the world at large
boring
completely not constructive to the individuals involved
and destructive to CS as a whole as well.
i am not taking sides nor bashing anyone
i am just stating principles in which i believe and try to live by
cuz i have found, for me-i am more peaceful that way
and my peace is more important to me
than any kind of attention i might get from anyone-
thats my 84 cents
(hey now that i look at it-
i coulda made this whole post with only icons-