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RE: Annoying things in a relationship

Good question ymer! When the other person gets pissed off, pouts like a child and pulls the old silent treatment! My ex use to do that....drove me nuts!!! And also deceit...of any kind.

RE: hi there

Welcome to the Forums.

Playmate or Soulmate ...

Playmate or Soulmate ...

Yes, it is a very good thing. But being the new kid, I hesitate at times. Thank you, dragondog.

RE: 69 Flavor Opinion

Natural...

Playmate or Soulmate ...

In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a
Playmate when God has a Soulmate waiting for us.

Sometimes this is a hard distinction to make.

Playmates are tricky.They are so much fun to be with that even the
smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this has to be our
Soulmate.

Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a Soulmate out of a Playmate.

The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet
our Soulmate, but it may be too late then. We may have already made a
Life mate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional bonds,
children, etc.).

Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape
ourselves to be anyone's anything.

How can we distinguish between the One, and just another one?

I believe that first, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what
our soul yearns for. Only you and the Man upstairs know what is truly
in your heart and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy
and whole.

In order to find your Soulmate you have to know You, first. You must
be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling
you that that nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts
with, could be him/her? What about that friend who is always willing to go
the extra mile for you when no one else will. Oh no, he/she's too short or
too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on. Just too ordinary
looking for me!!

Then there's that man/woman who makes you feel so special when you're
around them, but they don't match that ideal you have conjured in your
head. They are not tall enough, not slender enough, not light or dark
enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. They
just couldn't do it for me!! He or she is going to treat you
like the jewel that you are. Not only that, his/her soul and yours
will commune in ways you never imagined possible.

In order to heed that voice, I believe we have to put on the back burner our own
superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is for a
truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy playing, stay on
the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy your
time. But don't spend too much time playing or you may play your life
away.

Eventually the playing loses its appeal and your soul begins to crave
a deeper, more meaningful connection.

Your soul begins to crave your...Soulmate.

just some thoughts...

RE: if you

I would spend every last minute with my children...

RE: Add a line

while his eyes are

RE: thoughts

Trying not to.....

RE: Promiscuity

Very well stated...Mr. Hot.

RE: still about the primary pic

It's always nice to be able to put a face with words.

RE: Should Someone Lie About Their Age?

RE: some one help

OUCH!!! What a rough spot to be in!! One thing I would do would be to make 100% certain you have all the facts straight before mentioning a single word.

RE: If I could turn back time,

I cannot think of much I would really like to change...

RE: Should Someone Lie About Their Age?

Gheeshhh....I am almost 50 and I do not think I am over the hill... I do not think you should lie at all...about anything. 51 is a very nice number.

RE: Why did you choose...

It is the most recent....

RE: The love of your life.

You are quite the handsome bachelor.

RE: The love of your life.

Welcome to the site Lamar.

RE: Happy anniversary!

I think that is wonderful!!!! Thanks for sharing.

RE: memories what are they too, do you treasure them , or do you forget them.

I have happy memories that I will always treasure. The bad ones, I try to forget!

RE: should witch doctors be made legal in the united kingdom ?..they are in africa !

I am part Native American and grew up with my Grandparents and Native Elders. I think there are alot of non-conventional alternative medicines, herbs, etc., that can be quite beneficial at times.

RE: Why stay Ladies give me a reason???

Actually, I believe most say they are here to possibly find the "one". I am mainly here for the Forums. You seem like a very nice man, but I think alot have been burned in their search for him/her. Alot of times people are not really who they portray themselves to be on line when it comes to meeting face to face . There are alot of weeds to pull from the garden to find the flowers, so to speak. Don't give up. Patience is a virtue, so I have been told.

RE: do you remember what you dreamt about last night ?

I am not sure Oklahoma is famous per say. Alot of history with the Dust Bowl days in the panhandle of Oklahoma and Native American history. The movie Oklahoma is not a bad flick. Maybe you could rent it???

RE: Why stay Ladies give me a reason???

I do not think any of the guys or women here are bad. Maybe everyone is not looking for someone ...

RE: do you remember what you dreamt about last night ?

RE: do you remember what you dreamt about last night ?

Well....ummm...errr.....I do not think I can say that here!

RE: Howya doin' ?

Welcome to the Forum.

RE: Electric chair

RE: what do u do in order to lose some weight?

I kick box....

RE: Which do you prefer?

Sunset...