Nothing, of course. That was a joke at SFG's expense. The idea is that he employs a double standard by criticizing a certain class of women for doing exactly what he does.
It's not so much the length of time of interaction, but rather what's accomplished in that interaction. For example, if you were isolated with another person on a desert island for three days, you might know him or her far better than you might know someone else after relating to them for a year.
To *actually* come to love someone involves a pretty intense process of mutual exploration. There is no set time for such an exploration to result in love -- it just has to be sufficiently thorough to permit a deep level of mutual knowledge and appreciation.
I think you're doing some good work here, Dom. George H. Smith, author of the classic "Atheism: the Case Against God," is a friend of mine, and I think he'd join me in giving you a hearty thumbs-up.
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Unmatch, my friend, you're still here?!