I think one of the essential problems with society today is that they have so much of the day to day stuff to worry about, they don't have time to 'nurture' their spiritual side.. this is unfortunate as it is important to be at peace with yourself.. cause if you are at peace with yourself.. all the other stuff takes its rightful place in terms of priority and life is more likely to take its natural course and fall into place...
Having said that I do struggle from time to time... cause the 'real' life stuff is hard to avoid...
I am on friendly terms with most of my Ex's... they were mainly nice guys and didn't stop being nice guys just cause we stopped going out... there was one that I chose not to remain friends with, but for good reason... still if I met him out I would chat to him... life is too short to be holding grudges... I also believe that if someone does something underhanded, cruel or nasty to you then they have to live with their own conscience...
You can't simple as that!!.. still we all go through it and we survive and learn from our experiences.... believe it or not my friends and I can laugh at what a pathetic misery guts I was after my last heart wrenching experience.. ..
Stating one's beliefs and proffering argument and debate against religion is fair enough in my book.. because I think we can all agree that 'Religion' in the institutional sense has its flaws.. but to attack God, and to attack a person's innate spirituality is very wrong in my opinion.. because a person's sense of spirituality goes to the core of their being...
Give him some time... he's probably feeling v awful now... no matter what comforting things you may have said... I don't think it had anything to do with you.. perhaps he really likes you and was anxious about his 'performance' (maybe he has not been with somebody for a while)... there could have been any number of reasons..
My heart goes out to u both... remember though hunger is a great sauce.. take ur time.. sensuality can be enjoyed in the meantime which could allay his fears and build things up nicely..
Hiya.. criminal liability would be taking it a bit far certainly... civil liability though.. might help focus some minds.. as would encouraging people to drink responsibly... though it has to be said.. people who are already quite drunk.. are not necessarily in the best position to make wise choices.. JMO
I believe that you can make a tremendous connection at first sight.. doubt that you can love someone at first sight.. not real love anyway.. lust or spiritual connection possibly.. as to destiny? yes I do believe in destiny... my own life seems to have a will of its own... if that makes sense.. and I have experienced so many coincidences.. I kinda have to be open to the possibility..
I know!!.. I remember that show about Ibiza years ago...and I was absolutely and utterly gobsmacked... ur so lucky u dont live there... the rest of the Island I hear is like heaven on earth
Under ordinary legal principles... a bar owner would owe a legal duty of care to ensure that any party entering onto their premises does not injure themselves.. so I think it would be reasonable to impose an obligation on Bars to assess their patrons... now while I know people can still get others to go up for them... i don't think it would be too much for a bartender to keep an eye out for potentially risky behaviour...that said.. we also have to take responsibility for ourselves and our actions...
I do believe in Destiny... but I don't think it is one single definable path.. its more like it is a definite direction... I think we often stray .. but are drawn magnetically back on to it...
Like me becoming a Lawyer.. definitely destiny... so many coincidences.. had to be something going on.. I kid u not!!
I believe that many people do and will have to experience their dark night of the soul... be stripped completely back to their true selves...before they are actually CAPABLE of truly looking outside of themselves to seek the thruth... I think that sometimes is the most effective way to find enlightenment.... it is a journey though and does take time...
look up the 'evolution of the soul' article on the web... I think you will find it interesting... their are some references to bible.. ignore those if you wish... the 'thinking' behind the article is very interesting though...
I know!! u really can't leave them alone for a second... remember a few years ago was baby sitting my lil nephew... I literally ran into the loo for a minute and when I came back out he was eating coal.. .was actually kinda funny.. but could have been alot worse... tricky lil blighters
RE: Soulful talk : catch-up times **
...admittedly chocolate eclairs are pretty heavenly.. think ya got me there...