I have always very guided in my life...like I am being led... nothing as incredible as that but sure.. there is alot more to life, fate and faith than meets the eye.. certainly!!!
I agree with u.. I think when you love someone as much as a mother loves her children... they take up a compartment of your soul or heart or something and there is an un-breakable connection...Particularly if u are very 'maternal'
My first 'mistake' is staying in one relationship way too long.. he was not the one for me.. but because we were good friends and because I cared about him I did not have the heart to leave him.. he proposed to me towards the end but I knew I just had to do start thinking of me.. If I married him.. where would I be now.. miserable probably.. though I might have children by now.. but still though.. if u gonna have kids.. u owe it to them for their family life to be built on a strong foundation.. JMHO
I have always considered 'Success' to be a rather abstract concept and dependant on what each individuals require in order to feel fulfilled.. for me Success would be simply to be loved for me(by that special guy), have a job that I enjoy and gives me enough money to get by, and my own family one day..
If I achieved the above.. I feel confident that I would look back at age 80 and feel very content with my lot
I am sorry.. it wasn't meant in that way.. more in a light hearted way.. u have no idea how much I love and respect my Mum and what a truly wonderful and amazing person she is...
I would never actually mean it in a bad way.. especially in the same sentence paragraph referring to my Mum..
This will seem strange Riya.. but the above rings true with me.. I am a bit of a wierdo I know but I alway say little prayers to God... very frequent.. he must be like 'Oh for heavens sake.. not HER again.. everytime I call on him... often for the MOST mundane of things.. anyhow as a result of a recent emotionally charging situation I asked (as I frequently do) God for a sign.. (he had sent me several already which I chose to ignore) but on this day I couldn't ignore.. cause a thought came into my head one morning to the effect of 'I have sent u signs.. you will see them with open eyes'.. anyhow that morning I got an email from the subject matter of my turmoil which started the process of enlightenment.. after that initial email the cycle of ignoring mails etc.. begun.. it was the beginning of the end.. and I knew... weird I know.. but true
I shouldn't care I know.. but I do.. I am such a mother at heart.. can't help it.. I really don't want anyone elso to get hurt.. I have a horrible sinking feeling that this beautiful and sweet girl is gonna have to go through it all again...
Ok.. there is nothing I can do.. just hope that she is wise enough to see through him like I did
Be aware... be careful.. u are a beautiful and sweet girl with a tender heart and you deserve the utmost best.. please think of yourself, please put yourself first... please do NOT be another casualty
RE: Say something to someone,no need to name names..
Hiya Lorr..