I think he was referring to mercy Ship... I think that would simply require looking to the reasons why.... having complete disregard for the 'issues' involved may even be a detrimental thing.. as an earlier poster said... they may not be cut out for it.. they may be suffering mentally, or be of ill mental health.. they may have been very young, with no really understanding
Very good post Portiea.... I believe that relationships... as in ANY relationship involves give and take and patience etc.. etc.. romantic or committed relationship being no exception... great post.. I agree with pretty much most of it
Erm.... if I remember correctly Gilly... u were defending the position that if our partner was crap in bed..its ok to do the dirt on them... I also recall you insisting that people who did not see this as the way forward were obviously lying and insincere.... erm... integrity.. thank God.. there are alot of people here on CS who indeed have integrity...
Gilly the whole point of the forums is that people share their views.. we will not always agree with them...God knows... but hopefully we can learn from them...and believe it or not... alot of people would not or have not been unfaithful for any reason..
dunno.. think that comes accross as a bit mean.. would prefer to just take turns cooking or going out.. my friend went out with an English guy for a while who always split.. dunno there was just something a bit wierd about a couple after a meal counting out their portion of the bill at the end of it.. even with my best girlfriend we take turns to pay... think thats a less miserable seeming... cause even though it evens out and neither of us feel like we are being taken for granted... still feels nice being 'treated' to lunch.. and we share in the task of 'treating' the other..
If I went on a first date and a guy expected us to split.. I would.... but that would be the last date.. ... I am not in the least bit impressed by a guy who does not at least offer to pay... yes am old fashioned in that way..... not that I would expect it all the time.. as the relationship progresses things even out.. but I would expect a guy to wanna make an impression...
This is reeaaally wierd!!! I woke up today with a really horrible uneasy feeling in my stomach... I still have it in fact.. what is significant about today?? .... thank god I am not working today.. probably for the best I would say...
Prudish?? No way.. what a sneaky F**ker!!!!! to stand you up and then try to plamause you over to his home.. u don't know him.. .he could be a murderer for all you know!!! men like that have not even evolved to the amoeba stage intellectually or emotionally... ... thank god you didn't go
Ummmm don't wanna burst ur bubble but that sounds suspiciously like infatuation.... love happens when you know the person really well and STILL care about them regardless...
But yes what your experiencing is a delicious feeling... so enjoy!!!
One thing I love doing is talking to old couples about how they met etc.. etc... and it is one thing they very often have in common... no questions.. no doubts... it just felt right... its kinda like the way we just mysteriously 'click' with some people above others... alot of my closest friends have been like that.. just felt drawn to then and for some strange reason was able to chat away to them like I have known them all my life... I expect that it will be a bit like that...
Am a bit of a romantic at heart... but what better basis to have than a meeting of minds.. a sincer friendship with all the added benefits huh??
Think about what he would want.... ur Dad probably loves his grandson as much as he loved you (and indeed as much as you love him) so he would want u to celebrate life...
I think you know you have found the one.. where it just feels right, comfortable and you can be TOTALLY yourself.... I remember a quote in a movie once referring to it as feeling like you have come home... so its kinda like arriving at the place (or with the person) that you know you are meant to be... haven't found it yet sadly ... but I haven't lost hope...
Becoming a Christian... it has really changed my outlook on life and myself... in a good way... I am not inclined to worry about unimportant stuff even more.. not even meeting Mr Right... cause I know my life will unfold the way it is meant to...and in the way that is best for me
Looks can attract your attention.. true.. but given that I am not into being picked up in bars.. nor picking anyone else up in a bar really, it honestly doesn't figure that much... none of my boyfriends were that gorgeous... and of course you need to feel a kind of chemistry.. but that chemistry isn't confined to looks.. so no we are not lying.. perhaps we are just a little less shallow..
RE: Serenity1971; serious
As far as I am aware the Viral version is less serious.. so I hope to God she will be ok.. gonna look it up and say a prayer