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RE: Would you get with me?

... Ur such a sweetie Kansan... ur wife is like waaay lucky :lucky:...

RE: Friends with Benifits

... true.. we like to think that we can mess around with this kind of stuff and not get burned... not true ... someone always gets burned....

Saw a doc recently on Polygamous marriages.. the intention of the programme was to show the world that it was all A-Ok and everyone was happy... not the impression I got at all, in particular the women were miserable and lonely and felt underappreciated.. the men typically were controlling manipulative and clearly thought they were getting a great deal and all was rosy.... now while it was just one documentary showing only a portion of the truth... to me it is a strong indicator that messin with nature and trying to re-invent the rules... just doesn't work.. we are humans.. .we have feelings... and yes we can get hurt...

RE: Would you get with me?

What???????? she is a YOUNG girl Mastic... possibly confused and lacking in confidence.... U ARE AN ALLEGED GROWN UP YOU AND THE OTHERS SHOULD KNOW BETTER!!!........ JUST CAUSE SHE 'ASKED FOR IT' DOES NOT MEAN SHE SHOULD BE TREATED IN THIS REPREHENSIBLE WAY....

RE: Would u flirt with the one above u?

Nice Photo

RE: would you date a recovering alcoholic

Alcoholism is both an illness and an addiction.... I have a close friend who is one and he explained it all to me.... the main feature of 'alcololism' is that it controls you rather than you it, it comes before other things including family and responsibility and it ultimately causes distruction in your life... not always dramatic.. sometimes is just ur finances...

Addicts have to abstain... that is the only way that an addiction will be kept in check..... I know this as an ex-smoker..... If I have one cigarette, it will be a downward spiral, not in an instant dramatic way but in an incidious way...

Seriously I do not know who was telling you this stuff.... perhaps a drinking buddy.. but it is not entirely accurate...

As to relationships when in recovery.... bad idea until at least one year after... recovering addicts can very easily become co=dependant with inflated expectations, and some will almost WILL chaos as a viable excuse to go back on the bottle...

RE: Real Wealth

Thats a really good point Rusty...

I was chatting to a senior Barrister recently (really lovely guy) about the current down turn, which has been experienced at the Bar for some time because of fundamental changes in how things are done etc..... and his answer was so refreshing and inspiring to me.. he said.... I don't really care what happens, I have a roof over my head, I have my family and I have my wife who I still love after 30 years of marriage... I am a rich guy, rich in the kind of wealth that they can't take away from me... ...

RE: Would you get with me?

Sweetie... ur 18 and ur beautiful, you don't need to be asking people would they get with you...... and the pathetic idiots who said they wouldn't or would just want a one night stand ought to be ashamed of themselves... .... end of the day girl, they are probably just way too old for you..


Dunno.... I am embarrased by peoples behaviour sometimes

RE: would you date a recovering alcoholic

To be very honest with you I think it is a good idea to be recovering for at least a year cause most addicts have codependancy problems and need to find their own Mojo before they even consider a relationship JMO...

RE: i really dislike so many people on here

yeah.. lots of love in here by the looks of things

RE: Do you believe men should be the head of the household?

:hmmmm: not very comfortable with the word submissive... I think marriages as partnerships should be about mutual giving... and that comes surprisingly easy when you love someone, so cooking for and looking after home and family would not bother me... however, relationships are about give and take and one partner taking the other for granted, taking and not giving back is something which would eventually lead to discontent...

RE: Let Go And Let GOD

very encouraging words thank you Mike..

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

I am guessing it will be a Pope then...

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

I agree... but Spiritual 'journeys' can start off in the most unpredictable of locations... an eager and seeking heart is like a fresh seed planted on fertile soil... so I find it kinda encouraging.... if you looked at my posts before I found Jesus.. you would have thought I was a pure Hippy with no real direction in my beliefs... the fact is I was eagerly searching everywhere, asking questions about everything.. until it all eventually fit...

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

Interesting that you would say that, I have been reading very recently that because of the recent world events there is talks of all the world getting together and having finances all dealt with by one body... kinda 'new world orderish' perhaps?

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

Hey.... I don't wish to jump on any bandwagon.. and tbh I don't really know anything about this guy... but my first instinct when he came on line was who is he? and where does he come from? he seems to come out of nowhere... and what has he done poliitically... why has the campaign concerning Obama, been about everything else but politics...thats strange to me.. it seems like a media circus where media image speaks louder than merit... could be completely wrong of course....enlighten me...

RE: Best vs Worst

Best trait... sincerity, honesty... feature....lips/skin

Worst.... can sometimes think too much... that is why I gel best with silly quirky people.... I dunno should I be listing all the things I don't like .... the list would be fairly long.... ...

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

Jesus is about Spiritual enlightenment... he is the way, the truth and the light... and his teachings are really worth reading.. very practical stuff..

RE: Hey...do you make your beds in the morning?

I should try to make my bed every morning.. doesn't always happen though... can't understand really, cause it only takes about 1 minute.. .... my room is kinda my haven, which I can have a bit messy if I feel like it... otherwise.. other rooms are clean and tidy...

Actually I was away for the weekend.. just back and my room could do with a tidy right now.... reeaaaally don't feel in the mood..

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RE: Hey...do you make your beds in the morning?

Hiya Spicey.... just looked at ur profile to look at ur new photo... really nice btw, and read ur profile... ur friggin hilarious girl.. ....

RE: Mental acuity...

Definitely.... I have particularly severe 'blonde moments' from time to time and can be quite ditzy while at other times be quite sharp.... it really just depends... I think that can be the case with lots of people..

RE: Who Is The Anti-Christ In Revelations Chapter 13

Hey reminds me of this really excellent book I read recently.... its basically about the writer, a Jewish father and his quest to prove his daughter wrong when she rings him up one day to tell him 'Daddy I am a Christian’... Shocked and disgusted but nevertheless a loving father he decides... ok… its a passing phase, I will not make a big deal out of it and in the mean time I can look up the various Religious texts and point to her the errors of her ways and make it all better.. a typical male 'fix it' approach... however.. during the course of his studies a transformation took place..... quite extraordinary... won't tell ya the rest ... ...

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RE: Why Do People Order A Hamburger At A Really Nice Restuarants???

It doesn't so much bug me as baffle me... I love trying new things.. so I just don't see the point of having something that you could russle up in a few minutes at home... having said that some 'posh' restaurants do simple dishes like Sausages and mashed potatoes, but just do it reaaaaly well... I think that can be worth it

RE: Say Something...Names Are Changed To Protect The Innocent

... oh he is gorgeous

RE: Let Go And Let GOD

I presume you are taking the P...

RE: Let Go And Let GOD

... beautiful words... as always from you Mark.. you really are a sweetheart... hope you know that

RE: Let Go And Let GOD

very true.... one thing I have noticed in the last few months since I have become a Christian... is that God is intent on making me face all these sides of my personality that I didn't even know existed.. he moulds you, brings you to your knees, strips you back to the core and builds you up from there...cause we are of no service to him if we are still of the world...

RE: Psychology Thread

Hiya MB.. doin great.... had a recent hurdle to overcome, which I have done so (sucessfully I hope) so all is good.... hope all is well with you too...

RE: Psychology Thread

RE: Is Connecting Singles a serious site?

Hiya it is a serious site tho it is also good for the forums, so some are just here for that.... I agree also the that best time to start a new relationship is when the old one is over... if youa are still in the other one it could be an indication that there is still hope (for the relationship that is)