Zarah Forum Posts (1,388)

RE: I'm kinda feeling. . . . . . . . . .finish this sentence

myself....

RE: I Really Like

Yes perfectly said...its about how much you can give to a person rather than how much they have to give you...then the perfect person will suddenly appear...

RE: What would cause a man do a complete reversal in a relationship literally overnight?

Yes it is a reason...excuse is just a figure of speech...if he felt compelled to leave then it is his choice...we can hold someones' hand but never chain their soul....
My advice let him be, if he decides to come back then it is his decision to contact you...you have let him know you are sorry now it is his decision whether he accepts it...any persistent contact can become stalking

RE: How much younger/older is too young/old for you?

Not living with their mom....
Not living with their grandkids....

RE: Which movie can you watch over and over and never get bored of?

seriously none...I am lucky to get through any the first time round..I only like french art films sometimes and have not turned my television on for weeks...

RE: What would cause a man do a complete reversal in a relationship literally overnight?

Perhaps he saw you in a different light that shocked him and found an excuse for a way out....

RE: Which movie can you watch over and over and never get bored of?

ground hog day...ground hog day...gosh not ground hog day again!

RE: Do you like Kilts?

I love a bit of tart an.....

RE: What is a turn-off on a first date?

wiping a snotty nose on their sleeve.

RE: good morning freinds of gillyloves69 this is going to be a travelling year for me ! what about you ?

afwan

RE: What is expected on a first date?

yes true...even better just make out straight up so then if its lousy you don't have to worry about the date

RE: What's for problem?

Yes you would never see me getting around half naked....he he

RE: good morning freinds of gillyloves69 this is going to be a travelling year for me ! what about you ?

He-he so many questions Gilly...you are the curious one!
I am in Australia on the northern coast right on the beach with the waves lapping at my back door...yes it is heaven but I cannot wait to get to Ireland....
The middle east was fantastic, so many places more than the war zone ones and geographically it is really full of innate beauty....

Ah yes the Fez hat...you would look rather cool in one of those. It was originally worn by the greeks but adopted by the turks first worn by the ottoman court but soon emulated by the public....it is suitable for muslim men as they can still press their head to the ground during prayer...sorry I wont ramble on, history is my favourite subject....

The goats...umm yes, well my friend lives in Sudan and after his village showed me much hospitality, I decided to give the gift of five goats to them. One of the villagers would be elected the herdsman, the goats provide milk and once they have kids they would be given to the neighbouring village and so on....Each year during Hajj they sacrifice a goat in honour of me...Ha! I am now officially a goat-herder!!
Well lets just say it took many hours by horrible busted van, two flat tyres, twelve men sitting on the roof speaking only arabic and no air-conditioning to arrive with the goats....ummm I don't care to ever smell one again!!!!

I worked in the middle east for a princess but also travelled with bedoiun people, as I already said history is my favourite subject and I tend to explore the world with first handed clumsiness.....

Have fun Gilly
Zarah

RE: Am I pretty

You are only ever as pretty as you feel....

RE: which colour car is ur favourite :)

Midnight blue mustang....2 door of course!!

RE: good morning freinds of gillyloves69 this is going to be a travelling year for me ! what about you ?

Hiya Gilly,
Trlavel...brilliant!
Well yes off to ireland very soon so I will pack some sunshine in my suitcase.
I recently spent three years in the middle east so got to really see alot of beautiful unexplored places including muslim only cities.... I rode around Morocco on a motorcycle..now that was totally awesome!! Lebanon and Jordan were also wonderful.
The biggest adventure I had was trying to get 5 goats to a Sudanese village...now that is another story!!
The world is full of such rich and colourful tapestries.....

RE: Whats Your Astrological Sign......?

I am libran...I am guessing leo or aquarian......

RE: GOD V RELIGION

...yes essence is pure love to me. The ordinary lover adores a secondary phenomenon. I love the real.

RE: what is a manic depressive person ?

Yes very true...what is worse when they refuse to aknowledge a problem and that depression is treatable because of the stigma attached.

The guy I dated thought a gallon of alcohol and marijuana would 'fix' him. The sad thing is without meds they are vulnerable and often need a co-dependancy

RE: GOD V RELIGION

I am totally with you...My essence and heart are unfettered of man-made thou shall nots.

RE: Scottish Male (Free Too A Good Home)

Hiya Willie and welcome....
So...what do you wear under that kilt????

RE: what is a manic depressive person ?

Entertaining to say the least!!!!

Hi Gilly, hope you are well xx

Yes I foolishly dated one for some time...I did not know at first he had a problem as he hid it well but at times he would behave really down and peculiar. I thought it was just problems he was having but they never seemed to go away!!! That was exactly the problem, he could not deal with anything and become at times suicidal...In the end I run before I totally lost my sanity and realised I couldn't help him, no-one could!!

It really does your headin because their mood can switch from elation, grandose notions, to depressed cycle and their behavior can socially be embarassing.

It can be caused by inheritance, or the onset can occur after a serious loss..i.e relationship breakdown, death etc. etc.

Well this guy did not take any meds..just gallons of gin and whiskey...phew!!!

Take care ...Zarah

RE: Are there any decent women out there?

There are definitely heaps of decent women.... spend some time healing from your battle scars...anger and resentment are not good emotions to carry to another relationship. When the time is right you will find that love has an uncanny way of finding you when you least expect it....Good luck and for the time being just enjoy being you for a while and spend the time wisely reflecting on how you can be the best person possible for a lady that deserves you.

RE: How can we tell if the church is a cult

Ummm.... A virgin tied to an alter about to be a gift to the 'gods' and a goat bleating in the background
A pastor with 28 wives the youngest 12 and 472 children all dressed the same...

RE: what is a manic depressive person ?

Someone high as a kite happy one moment...and before you know it they are looking for razor blades....Their mood swings alter from one extreme to another and can be anti social and withdrawn...
Doom, gloom and glass always half empty Gilly....don't date them whatever you do!!!
If so hide your ropes, razorblades, prescription drugs, pistols and sleep with one eye open at all times...

RE: good versuses bad!!

Hiya welcome.....

Bad boys...Well I don't like my men mean and definitely like them polite and well mannered....I prefer the pretty boys rather than the rough-around the edge types, hate slobs, rednecks, try-hards but I do like my guy to have some spunk when he needs it..I don't like to be boss, only in the bedroom

RE: Do you care if someone has photo /???

I definitely prefer to see who I am talking to but I do have a couple of penfriends that have no photo....

RE: What is a turn-off on a first date?

I made plans to meet up at a restaurant once...when I got there the guy was so drunk he could barely talk...

RE: How long separated till your ready to seriously date

IO live on the sunshine coast in lovely QLD...
Ireland is my second home x

RE: For you to be impressed by someone, he/she must have:

only have eyes for me...