Is he faithful? Is he loyal? Is he dependable? Is he honest? Does he do what he says he's going to do? Will he be able to commit? Is he good relationship material? Will he be a good father to my children? Will he stick it out, no matter what? Can I see myself being with him for the rest of my life?
These are just a few questions for the OP to ponder over.
I absolutely agree with Monte. You want to be with someone who has a great personality, no matter what kind of relationship you are looking for. Even a blind date that isn't the right personality would make anyone feel uncomfortable. If the OP had a choice of dating someone with an awesome personality verses dating some bad boy with with a rotten personality and a criminal record, which one would she pick, I wonder? I would rather be with the sweet girl next door type of woman, like the one across the street from me.
Girls like bad boys because bad boys are more exciting. Good guys are steady, reliable, and loyal, but not as exciting.
Bad boys like good girls sometimes because they can be corrupted.
Is this what you were looking for? Personally, I would much rather be with a good girl, but not to corrupt her. Just because I like good girls because they fit my personality and philosophy better. I'm not a bad boy, and being with a bad girl would make me very uncomfortable.
Thank you. Here is the mail I got today from a 40-year-old woman form California. I thought this was pretty suspicious, even though she gave her full name. She looks white, but her English skills make her sound like a scammer. Needess to say, I didn't answer her mail. Being that I've been scammed before, I'm wary and getting smarter all the time.
"Hi hun,hows you? i will love to know you more.Kindly send me an email on xxxxxxxxxxxx9@yahoo.com i will be waiting to hear from you.
I have no passport and no webcam. I do have Skype, but it's under a different login name, and I don't know how to change the Skype login to my name. I didn't grow up with computers, so I'm computer illiterate. (I haven't even figured out how to upload pictures in these forums.) Also, I don't have a car, so going to get software or hardware items would take quite some effort.
Well, hopefully the next man who comes alonhg will be much better prospect. Most of us have been scammed in one way or another. I just got an email today that I'm suspicious of, because the wording sounds just like a scammer. She has an account on here, too.
I have my page set to North America email only and I must approve any comments on my page. That way, I'm not likely to get scammed. In fact, ever since I set the age limit from 45-60, I've received virtually no email whatsoever. Anyone else who wanted to contact me would have to find me in one of the forums or blogs or they would have to make a comment on my page that I would have to approve. I learned the hard way on Facebook that all comments should be approved first.
From the many womens' profiles I've perused, I can tell that many women want a narrow range of guy ages, too. For me, I'm just attracted to younger women (younger than me). Nothing wrong with older women at all, just my preference. I know a 68 year old who is absolutely gorgeous, and she looks 20 years younger than she is.
Who knows? Maybe I'll meet an older woman who knocks my socks off. Life is kind of funny that way.
HuggerMan4U Forum Posts (1,806)
RE: Again.....about personality !!!!!!!!
Is he faithful?Is he loyal?
Is he dependable?
Is he honest?
Does he do what he says he's going to do?
Will he be able to commit?
Is he good relationship material?
Will he be a good father to my children?
Will he stick it out, no matter what?
Can I see myself being with him for the rest of my life?
These are just a few questions for the OP to ponder over.