Depends on how old one is. Love at first sight I believe is possible for youngsters, it happened to me and my ex husband and we were together for over twenty years, still just as much in love at the end.
Older folk, as I am now, no. We are generally too fussy....perhaps enlightened is a better word! and a little jaded maybe. We expect, want or need too much for love at first sight to be a real possibility.
It would be totally unworkable. The list would be endless! All new members can do to be on their guard is to read the CS advice regarding scammers and keep updated on the forums.
In any case, many, many people have been suspended or banned who are most definitely not scammers.
Glad he´s ok even though he needs medication for the rest of the time you and he will be together. Such a weight off your mind CC. Remember though he is very old, and as I know from personal experience you´ll go through heartbreak eventually.
I was thinking the same....well almost the same. I think poor Toshi must be worn out and just wants to put his feet up with a beer and watch the football.
I too have experienced personal fulfillment in finding inner peace as you say since learning to live alone for the first time in my life, but the hurt and pain you describe related to love I´ve not experienced to such degree so we are different in that respect.
My memories of love are mostly good, and despite the reasons for separating, they remain a good time in my life.
...I mean to a time in your life which was particularly happy and you were truly in love, when would it be and why7
I don´t particularly subscribe to looking back, but some of us have experienced times in our lives which sadly may never be surpassed in terms of love. I´m convinced that my first true love and subsequent long marriage can never be equalled for the passion, amongst many other wonderful things in the relationship, which endured for many many years. Perhaps because we were very young, crazy in love, lots of things in common, and perhaps more importantly bore two great children, both of whom have done us proud, there is still an unbreakable bond, but the flipside of course is a lot to live up to for a potential partner.
Incidentally, I do not harbour any desires whatsoever to have any intimate relationship with my ex husband, nor he with me as far as I´m aware, although we are still friends.
Same sentiments here, and as an English teacher I´ve noticed great leaps and bounds in some of the non-native English speakers here, paricularly our Boban.
Congratulations to all of you. Nice thread T, and congratulations to you too on your results.
RE: Love at first sight?
Ah well, we all have to grow up sometime.