JAN_is Forum Posts (3,849)

RE: Your girlfriend / boyfriend profile is still online. So what?

There is the trust as people have said, but quite honestly I don´t really enjoy the forums as much as most seem to, so when I´m in a relationship I never log in to CS. When I am here I´m usually working on the computer with the CS page open to flit in and out.

I´ve been a member for over 5 years....on and off. The off periods are when I´m in a relationship, real life ones I mean and not with dating site men.

RE: ladies without make up

I think you´d better stop "digging".

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)

Yes, the procession last night here in Murcia started but didn´t fnish due to the rain, but it´s always the same and only a few get cancelled.

I´m really looking forward to Bando de la Huerta on Tuesday. It never rains on that day. and it´s a great fun day in Murcia centre.

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)

Feliz Semana Santa a ti.

It´s going to be a wonderful holiday as always here, lots of processions, fiestas, good food and wine, and no work!

RE: ladies without make up

Nah, I don´t think I´d ever go down that route. I like looking like me.

RE: ladies without make up

I like wearing make-up and have done so since I was a teenager. I also have no worries about anybody seeing me without it, but I have my daily routine, simple make-up every morning which takes about 10 minutes, smart clothes and off to work. I take a little pride in my appearance and don´t see anything wrong in that at all. Less is more though, particularly for middle-aged women, and I don´t like heavy make-up especially when it´s been applied poorly.

It´s curious though, because I´m almost 100% certain that some of those saying they don´t wear make-up are most definitely wearing it in their profile pics. Probably only another woman would notice that.

RE: You're in Control?

Ah but to be in control requires a little thought and planning. To remain in control requires even more. It´s a constant battle to keep your wits about you.

RE: Ouch

Sorry to hear of the breakup Nanners, but I´m sure you made the right decision based on what you´ve written here.

A question though, not only to you but to others who have commented on anger management. If a man, or woman, was really trying to overcome it in one way or another, would a second chance be given?

RE: MEN AT 45

I don´t agree. I´m 50 in a few weeks and I think many women in my age range, and older as Phoenix said, look much better than the men.

RE: Single? Describe Your Ultimate Match!

I thought you had? Have I missed something on the CS grapevine?

RE: Single? Describe Your Ultimate Match!

Well done you!

RE: Blah Blah Blah...

Everybody here is judged on what they post by everybody else however much people say otherwise. It´s a fact, often unfair, don´t fret.

RE: Women are impossible

Aren´t we all?

RE: How to beat your wife

Not quite.

RE: Is it what it appears to be....or is it something else

Under 48???? You´re being too kind Pat Although I would have said the same until I started reading online texts, posts and blogs. Not only CS by the way, and I´m certainly not referring to only spelling and grammar before I get lampooned.

RE: How to beat your wife

RE: the things we love about CS

Awww Stu is a long time member who has been away for a long time

Hi Stu!

RE: FORBIDDEN HEALING

Surely not in Spain? There are still many practioners actively working and prescribing, and shops selling only alternative/natural remedy medications.

At least here in Murcia city.

RE: the things we love about CS

The predictability

RE: How to beat your wife

Pobrecito.

RE: How to beat your wife

And has been for many years.

Most Spanish people think it´s fish and chips btw.

RE: Is it what it appears to be....or is it something else

No, I don´t take too seriously what most people write, and I don´t think people are too honest in general. That´s fine, after all, most are here trying to put their best foot forward in order to attract someone. I also think that there may be a good few who don´t fare too well or indeed fairly here, based on what or how they post, myself included!

I´ve met a few people from here who are so alien to the persona they portray that I´ve lost all faith.

I think I have a good idea who the genuine few are though.

RE: How to beat your wife

No you´re not, and I don´t think she deseerved some of the criticism she received.

I´m sure she´ll be back.

RE: Why find love ?

Yes you´re right, people do move on, not so the married couples who lose their partner in their 70´s or 80´s generally though.

However, I agree that on the whole it´s worth the happiness one may experience, regardless of age.

RE: how do YOU approach a person in public?

That wouldn´t work for me. I like surprises but not from someone I don´t know touching me from behind, nor cornering me.

Actually, I never approach men, but I know how to show if I like a guy...after he´s approached me in a polite and unthreatening manner.

RE: Things you didn't know about The Tower of London

No definitely not, but he was funny Pat....go on admit it!

RE: Things you didn't know about The Tower of London

Love it! I´m going to show it to some of my students,

RE: How do/did you accomplish your Tax return forms?

Myself, online.

I was a Tax Inspector for 15 years.

RE: Why find love ?

I was thinking the exact same thing about getting another dog.

RE: Would you lose weight for love?

I don´t have to like it, I like my students wherever they work....most of them anyway.