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Jun 27, 2016 8:37 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
KremaP: No darling, just stop abusing the solarium...and work on your self respect...
just soh at play
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Jun 27, 2016 8:40 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
KremaP: No darling, just stop abusing the solarium...and work on your self respect...
when one can laugh at oneselfs imperfectons one has reached a true freedomhug
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Jun 27, 2016 8:42 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
btw, im good looking
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Jun 27, 2016 8:42 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I like men who's ego doesn't need stroking.
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Jun 27, 2016 8:47 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
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Jun 27, 2016 8:47 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
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Jun 27, 2016 8:49 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Well,
Endless combinations could me made and all of them will be true to some point and for certain people, men or women, we do the same tricks and we do endlessly fall for them again and again...
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Jun 27, 2016 8:51 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
Ccincy: I like men who's ego doesn't need stroking.
your right C/C.......as like myself...if people dont like me..they can do the other thing.....ego boost is not my style.thumbs up wave
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Jun 27, 2016 8:58 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
KremaP: Well,
Endless combinations could me made and all of them will be true to some point and for certain people, men or women, we do the same tricks and we do endlessly fall for them again and again...


devil gift Trick or Treat shimmy gift


yay pointing laugh
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Jun 27, 2016 9:00 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
purr4mance: generally speaking, when it comes to dating, women notoriously send mixed signals, unconsciously because of past experiences and those are usually not rational. then, there is the conscious variety, when she thinks she's come to terms with her past and is making reasonable choices. a guy can be perceptive and understand all of this, but if she isn't willing to perceive this herself,then she may be missing something in how to play her part in moving a relationship forward.

anyways, i think people are complex and unique and for that reason, i think guys fall somewhere between beating themselves up and the ignorant a**hole. it's not all black and white. there are many shades of gray.


Yes, it's a spectrum and everyone fits somewhere in between.

However, intelligence and perception breed doubt. Doubt, fear and self-awareness affect the intelligent far more than the stupid. Women love smarts in a man when it means that he "gets" her, but they also adore the confidence of ignorance which acts without fear of consequence.
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Jun 27, 2016 9:03 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
A man that knows who he is and wants makes a woman feel more secure.Looks for me are secondary.SM
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Jun 27, 2016 9:12 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Yes, it's a spectrum and everyone fits somewhere in between.

However, intelligence and perception breed doubt. Doubt, fear and self-awareness affect the intelligent far more than the stupid. Women love smarts in a man when it means that he "gets" her, but they also adore the confidence of ignorance which acts without fear of consequence.


Which is the fundamental difference between courage and confidence. Courage observes and respects the real world and courage acts in spite of fear. To be brave you have to know what you're letting yourself in for and to be confident you don't. A delusional sociopath can be confident and fearless, but what he can never be is brave. There is no bravery without fear.
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Jun 27, 2016 9:22 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
galrads: Trick or Treat






I thought they call it frog kissing... frog frog frog frog frog frog frog frog giggle
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Jun 27, 2016 9:23 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Which is the fundamental difference between courage and confidence. Courage observes and respects the real world and courage acts in spite of fear. To be brave you have to know what you're letting yourself in for and to be confident you don't. A delusional sociopath can be confident and fearless, but what he can never be is brave. There is no bravery without fear.


And this is why the word courage ruled when men ruled and the word confidence rules in the womanly age. The worldly-interested and self-expendable gender of man uses the word bravery, the worldly-oblivious and self-absorbed gender of woman uses the word confidence. Courage depends on there being a real world with danger in it, confidence depends on acting like the real world and its dangers do not exist.
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Jun 27, 2016 9:30 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
KremaP: I thought they call it frog kissing...


ribbet croak laugh
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Jun 27, 2016 9:33 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: And this is why the word courage ruled when men ruled and the word confidence rules in the womanly age. The worldly-interested and self-expendable gender of man uses the word bravery, the worldly-oblivious and self-absorbed gender of woman uses the word confidence. Courage depends on there being a real world with danger in it, confidence depends on acting like the real world and its dangers do not exist.


The internet reinforces this modern rise of womanly confidence and the death of masculine bravery. You can sort of show confidence online, but you can never be brave online. Bravery is substance for a real world of substance, confidence is style for the lands and times of make-believe.
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Jun 27, 2016 9:43 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: The internet reinforces this modern rise of womanly confidence and the death of masculine bravery. You can sort of show confidence online, but you can never be brave online. Bravery is substance for a real world of substance, confidence is style for the lands and times of make-believe.




thumbs up thumbs up

Being brave online is also known as B.S. Online people will throw it back at you if they are wise to what floats your boat (don't mean you Red) but in the real world bravery and confidence rarely go hand in hand.
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Jun 27, 2016 9:06 PM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
2intrigued: Just saw this....good for you and I'm so happy for you.
Thank you Trigs. hug
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Jun 27, 2016 9:09 PM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Kaybee50: Thank you Trigs.


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Jun 30, 2016 7:07 AM CST women go for confidence in a man more than looks
pedro27: women go for confidence in a man more than looks


as long as it is not hollow confidence. it has to be confidence based in accountable performance or actions, evidence please.
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