The uhoh moment when you realize you're on different wavelengths
It may only be me but there's always that urge to leap for the door when someone I've known for ages, or just met, suddenly comes out with one of the following. Uh -
In no particular order, for sure you won't agree with some, although maybe the last ... That's okay. I'm looking for an argument.
All immigrants are parasites, if they were any good they'd stay in their own countries (ok I know that one's a personal reaction)
Violence is a cry for help and our fault as a society, not theirs.
Oo's daddy's little pwecious den? to a dog or cat (it's the babytalk, not the affection, btw)
The moon landing was faked, you know
He's the greatest leader we ever had (I don't care whether you mean Hitler, Nixon, Churchill or someone more topical, nope, change the subject)
He / she is dead to me (especially when about a former close friend
) Oh, I'm totally God-driven (
) So what you're saying is (then they say the OPPOSITE to what you just said
) I'd rather die than miss 'Strictly Come Dancing' (Really? rather DIE?)
No such thing as lesbians, just women who can't get a real man
I don't often talk about it, but when I was abducted by aliens ...
Stirring, stirring, stirring ...
bring it on 
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Anyone ever said any of them to you, though? Or worse?
He believes his country had landed on the moon 9 times.
MiMi believes they were faked
Art may be wrong about three
MiMi strongly believes in black magic, psychic, fortune-teller, clairvoyant, medium, reincarnation, witch-doctors ( that’s what he claims they are!
Art respects my beliefs but
No argument from me, many are quacks but there are more things than are dreamed of in our philosophy etc etc - to say all true, or none, either way would be bigoted. To discuss - fascinating!
Imagine MiMi’s horror when her Arty told her that he didn’t like the noodle at all?!? Instead, he preferred the Peking duck which MiMi loathed!
over Pakistan
Match made in heaven
MiMi has never seen it that way before!
Thank you!
Don't get me wrong, I love debate, I'll argue happily about anything. But these are all flat statements, not open to argument. Yikes!
signed
Biltong lover
If it is one that you both hold extremely strong, unshakable, views on , it's probably better to get it out of the way early to stop both of you wasting your time.
Other, less intransigent issues, can be drip fed naturally. At that stage, hopefully you will like and respect each other to either be able to debate it sensibly or even more sensibly, not discuss it
And the drone in Pakistan ...?
Definitely a wavelength fail, but I am frequently thick when following my own train of thought through thickets
Luckily not ever come up in a relationship situation, usually friendships or colleagues
crazy blog
On the other hand, he used to also complain that the natives didn't accept him.
You can't have it both ways
It was a side of someone I never thought existed, quite a shocker. Defintely a Different wave length.
We have had a few on here who plainly hated women and you think dude, a singles site. Why ARE you here??
But then I sometimes wonder that about others on here, they don't seem to like anyone, male or female, who doesn't agree to a T with their opinions.
Unicorns aren't as pretty as you'd expect, though
That awful moment when you have got right to the good part, you're peeling off clothes, and he says 'come to Daddy'
Guys - DON'T. EVER.
What people say about others, we have little control over.
It's harmful when gossip is malicious and misleading.....in other words a pack of lies.....that's when it's damaging. If it's amongst close, trusted friends, anything goes.....because we know it goes nowhere else.
I don't venture too far down the back streets on this site though....