interracial dating...
Interracial dating is a touchy subject for many.I have no emotion about it either way!
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I have never dated someone from my culture and never will because noone will have experienced my particular mix of culture. Even my sister experienced our childhood culture differently than I.
When we have a relationship we find commonalities and we find difference whether that relationship is mixed race, or same race.
In my student days I house-shared with many different people, but only once with people who were culturally similar to myself. I really enjoyed it and there was a certain comfort in feeling that my cultural quirks were understood and accepted.
If I look at some of the other people I shared a part of my life with, however, people who were culturally very different and had different belief systems, there was a great deal of kindness, acceptance, communication and humour.
If we don't have the skills, or emotional maturity to have kindness, acceptance, communication and humour it doesn't really matter how alike, or unalike we are in a relationship. Race, or culture isn't the most salient feature in having a healthy relationship.
We are the same in our humanity and most people want a quiet life with friendship and things in common and to share life's journey.
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Now isn't it time to be no racial and spend time with your wife ?