I went on a date, and some other stuff happened as well..

In my last blog, I said I was meeting up with someone I met on a dating app. Two days before the meet, we agreed that it would be a date, so I decided to play it slow. Meet up with her, talk for an hour or so, and then see what happened.

The date itself was quite good fun. We spent a bit talking about our day, and we then decided to take a walk through the city. Laughs were had, smiles were shared, and in general, I felt good about it. She was very easy to talk to, so that was a huge plus.

We ended up at Copenhagen Central station, where she had to catch a bus home, and I had to catch a train. I asked her if she was interested in another meet, to which she said "Maybe. We'll see". I was fine with that, so I told her that she could just write me and tell me her decision. If it was a yes, then great. If it was a no, then that was fine as well. To me, the date on Thursday was just two people meeting up to see, if the chemistry was there, and if it was something worth pursuing. I liked her, so if she told me yes to a second date, I would be extremely happy, however I wouldn't get offended if she turned a second date down.

The following day, I went about my day as I normally do. I did write her, and thanked her for a lovely evening walk, and that I was interested in seeing her again, and I hoped she felt the same way. A few hours later, she replied.

"Hello! Thank you for a great walk. You are a very nice guy, but you will not get a second date. It's something about my gut feeling. All the best"

So that was that. No second date. My reply was "Hello. It's okay :). Thank you for letting me know. All the best to you as well". As promised, I wasn't offended, and I accepted the rejection like a man should! Some men begin to scold a woman, if they get a rejection. Some men even resort to threatening behavior, which I don't really get. She wasn't interested in pursuing it, which I fully accept. So now I just need to look around for another date, but I am not in a rush at all.

In other news, remember that 18 year old girl I started a FWB thing with? Well, I gave it a thought, and I decided it was not worth it. She's too young anyway, so it would never work in the long run. I have told her that I am pulling the plug, so I am just waiting for her reply.

Besides, I would feel strange being intimate and close with someone 10 years younger than my sister