sweetkitten4
sweetkitten4
Brighton, East Sussex, England, UK
Sep 2011
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One of those things

In one of my first blogs I mentioned that I had asked this guy if he was single and when he replied he was if he'd like to meet me for a coffee. He very nicely turned me down. Well this morning I happened to be talking to a colleague of his who has been a friend of mine for 3 years. I happened to mention this and he asked me to describe the guy to him---so I did. He smiled and told me the reason the guy turned me down was because he's gay. He also said the guy would have seen what I did as a compliment because this guy has low self esteem and what I did would have boosted his confidence. At least some good has come out this and my own self esteem has been boosted knowing that the reason for being turned down wasn't anything personal. I still like this guy but now as a friend rather than in terms of a relationship.
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JimNastics
JimNastics●Kingston, New Jersey USA
Sep 18, 2011●1,965 Blogs●11,843 Comments
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I bet you didn't see that coming. laugh
Better luck with the next one. thumbs up
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coffeeminx
coffeeminx●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa
Sep 18, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments
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Well done sweetkitten, friendships are always valuable treasures. I am sure that he treasures yoursconversing

At least now you can have a friendly coffee with him and there won't be any confusion about each others intentions or expectations thumbs up
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HuggerMan4U
HuggerMan4U●Kent, Washington USA
Sep 19, 2011●85 Blogs●1,279 Comments
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It's good that you found out the truth, and that you can still be friends, and I'm sure he appreciates your friendship.
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I am a reliable, honest, caring and easy going lady. I'm an early riser. When I first meet someone I can be a bit shy but do tend to open up once I get to know someone. I also wear two hearing aids so who ever I meet needs to face me and speak clearl [read more]

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