TRUST
One of the strongest pillars that account to the foundation of a good and sound relationship is through this very volatile yet complex and at the same time look so simple emotion given to us, man. T R U S T. With or without it can either break or make a relationship. Life is so complicated and somehow it doesn't look like it gets any easier, with all the negative feelings we have. However, some may or may not agree with me, that Trust actually is a result of some logic and reason applied before its execution.This time, we will cover an area that doesn't only cover lover's realms but it can be to a friend, to a parent, to a fellow employee, to a supervisor or simply to the government.
TRUST. How does it affect our bearings towards the people that are important to us and even to those that are of less significance. And in general, the world for that matter?
Should we give our trust to someone or should we make them earn it? In example, if a person tells you something, would you give the benefit of the doubt that what he is telling or saying is true? This is about being close to that person as he or she will significantly spend most of the time with you.
Or should you assume that theory, where TRUST IS NOT GIVEN RATHER IT IS EARNED. Stemming from the experience, that, everybody is a liar. Therefore, no matter what that person is telling you, until you prove it to be true, you wouldn't give any credit to his words or arguments.
In case of a lover, would you be leery at first and distance yourself until you can feel comfortable that he is telling the truth? Therefore, TIME is always at your side and don't just jump fast to any commitment, rather take your time to know and study how compatible can you be to this person?
Thank you all for your participation..
SR
Comments (53)
Third but not least. Yes agree with you.
I like that being comfortable. As long as that feelings are sufficed I'm in.
Thanks again
SR
WOW great blog and right on time for me funny you write about this subject this morning i've been dealing with this issuse for awhile and just when i decided to let go of this person and there issuse with me here you go with your blog,a good relationship cant exist without trust and as hard has it is to do going into a relatioship it should start with trust.
Take care
SR
Talk to you soon. Still heavy snow?
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I have tried to wait until someone earns my trust it does not work for me that, as then I would be looking out all the time for some one to slip up Automatically I trust until the trust is broken Many a black eye in life for that. But I am me.
Respect----no matter who or what they be in life for me my respect must be earned.
That isxto some, that I have read here is the most chosen direction
SR
SR
I come from the school of thought that I try and see the best in everyone..But once the trust is broken it becomes hard to have faith in that person anymore..I usually give a person the benefit of the doubt unless I catch them in a lie..To me little lies can become big ones..
Of course in a love relationship trust is a pillar of the most importance..I'm generally a trusting person seeing the glass as half full..But don't mistake my kindness for weakness..
Your friend,
Ken
Good blog as always!!...the matter of trust...it is a process...little by little I can invest in someone and either be pleasantly surprised or disappointed...a relationship takes time to flourish and so does trust...not to say I am suspicious of individuals from the start...but through time we understand and appreciate, (develop a rapport with) people we want to trust...A little faith in people comes with the territory!
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Thanks Ken.
Much appreciated.
SR
Good blog as always!!...the matter of trust...it is a process...little by little I can invest in someone and either be pleasantly surprised or disappointed...a relationship takes time to flourish and so does trust...not to say I am suspicious of individuals from the start...but through time we understand and appreciate, (develop a rapport with) people we want to trust...A little faith in people comes with the territory!
I am stunned Loulou on this position, because this is what I have done recently in my life. Whereas I was too all trusting and then after living in a place where TRUST, RESPECT AND COMPASSION IS a little bit of a rarity, I have proven the opposite of how I conducted before. Now I lock my cars, lock my doors, heck hide my valuable in my cares. NOTE; LOST A MOTORCYCLE, IN FRONT OF MY GATED HOUSE, LOST TWO CARS, ONE OF THEM IS MY FAVORITE. 2000 300zx 5 SPEED, AND NUMEROUS, CAR STEREOS, (Stockton) and so on and so on. So there you go, now I am more for my protection in this example as not too trusting anymore.
But in a relationship I do love your argument, and I can pretty much second you on that. I love that kind of thinking Loulou.
Thanks again.
SR
Thank you all so much.
SR
THANKS ALL AGAIN,
SR