TRUST

One of the strongest pillars that account to the foundation of a good and sound relationship is through this very volatile yet complex and at the same time look so simple emotion given to us, man. T R U S T. With or without it can either break or make a relationship. Life is so complicated and somehow it doesn't look like it gets any easier, with all the negative feelings we have. However, some may or may not agree with me, that Trust actually is a result of some logic and reason applied before its execution.

This time, we will cover an area that doesn't only cover lover's realms but it can be to a friend, to a parent, to a fellow employee, to a supervisor or simply to the government.

TRUST. How does it affect our bearings towards the people that are important to us and even to those that are of less significance. And in general, the world for that matter?

Should we give our trust to someone or should we make them earn it? In example, if a person tells you something, would you give the benefit of the doubt that what he is telling or saying is true? This is about being close to that person as he or she will significantly spend most of the time with you.

Or should you assume that theory, where TRUST IS NOT GIVEN RATHER IT IS EARNED. Stemming from the experience, that, everybody is a liar. Therefore, no matter what that person is telling you, until you prove it to be true, you wouldn't give any credit to his words or arguments.

In case of a lover, would you be leery at first and distance yourself until you can feel comfortable that he is telling the truth? Therefore, TIME is always at your side and don't just jump fast to any commitment, rather take your time to know and study how compatible can you be to this person?

Thank you all for your participation..

SR
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Calleis, first thanks for your opinion. Second my first time to see you so allow me to be honored by your visit

Third but not least. Yes agree with you.

I like that being comfortable. As long as that feelings are sufficed I'm in.

Thanks again
SR
to go into anything without trusting it or not being trusted is absolutely the wrong thing to do.
WOW great blog and right on time for me funny you write about this subject this morning i've been dealing with this issuse for awhile and just when i decided to let go of this person and there issuse with me here you go with your blog,a good relationship cant exist without trust and as hard has it is to do going into a relatioship it should start with trust.
Leah my dear wavelength is powerful. Anyways in the hym right now and be done soon and get back more

Take care
SR
Ps. Leah read the comment of Tar? Very interesting arguments. So much to digest and learn from. I hope you'll be enlightened and use some wisdom

Talk to you soon. Still heavy snow?
wow a weighty blog with many a corner.
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I have tried to wait until someone earns my trustmoping it does not work for me that, as then I would be looking out all the time for some one to slip upuh oh Automatically I trust until the trust is brokenmoping help Many a black eye in life for that. But I am me.
Respect----no matter who or what they be in life for me my respect must be earned.teddybear
Well said my dear Red.

That isxto some, that I have read here is the most chosen direction
SR
On your line of thinking as expression of earning i might add. Election. That's why candidate needs the pronouncement, and platform of what they stand on building political trust

SR
Hi Phyllis,
I come from the school of thought that I try and see the best in everyone..But once the trust is broken it becomes hard to have faith in that person anymore..I usually give a person the benefit of the doubt unless I catch them in a lie..To me little lies can become big ones..

Of course in a love relationship trust is a pillar of the most importance..I'm generally a trusting person seeing the glass as half full..But don't mistake my kindness for weakness..

Your friend,

Kenrose
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Good blog as always!!...the matter of trust...it is a process...little by little I can invest in someone and either be pleasantly surprised or disappointed...a relationship takes time to flourish and so does trust...not to say I am suspicious of individuals from the start...but through time we understand and appreciate, (develop a rapport with) people we want to trust...A little faith in people comes with the territory!
I love your reason and for your argument Ken. I think I pretty much sum you that way, considering how long we have known each other on this site. It is indeed evident that when it comes to a relationship while trust can't be unbendable just like the truth upon which it is laid of, we do differ in the conduct upon which we bestow and we give and or surrender. I meant the word surrender, because, in my personal experience, I gave it to myself first, just like Non said, and because I trusted myself, it was given that I can trust those who are to be around me unless, proven otherwise.\
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Thanks Ken.

Much appreciated.

SR
sunday
Good blog as always!!...the matter of trust...it is a process...little by little I can invest in someone and either be pleasantly surprised or disappointed...a relationship takes time to flourish and so does trust...not to say I am suspicious of individuals from the start...but through time we understand and appreciate, (develop a rapport with) people we want to trust...A little faith in people comes with the territory!

I am stunned Loulou on this position, because this is what I have done recently in my life. Whereas I was too all trusting and then after living in a place where TRUST, RESPECT AND COMPASSION IS a little bit of a rarity, I have proven the opposite of how I conducted before. Now I lock my cars, lock my doors, heck hide my valuable in my cares. NOTE; LOST A MOTORCYCLE, IN FRONT OF MY GATED HOUSE, LOST TWO CARS, ONE OF THEM IS MY FAVORITE. 2000 300zx 5 SPEED, AND NUMEROUS, CAR STEREOS, (Stockton) and so on and so on. So there you go, now I am more for my protection in this example as not too trusting anymore.

But in a relationship I do love your argument, and I can pretty much second you on that. I love that kind of thinking Loulou.

Thanks again.

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You are most welcome my dear soldier. Savior for the cause and effect of freedom, a man with a heart of gold and a seeker just like most of us, aspire to tread with courage, our journey as we believe, that faith and fate is one and the same and much the same way as trust and respect and belief is in the same bowl of sand. and compassion, kindness, and generosity are but our choices in life to flourish and or nurture for us and for mankind.

Thank you all so much.

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And lastly, yes Trust is relative to how we give and or receive and how we balance is all that counts. All I wanted to present in the beginning is, how it effects our lives and more so how we can cultivate altogether for a significant improvement of our personal life, as much as those around us and the world in general. Perhaps, a true paradise is yes where it is completely devoid of all our negative traits. COMPLETE ABSENCE OF IMPERFECTIONS..WHERE AND WHEN? I TRULY DON'T KNOW, I'D BE DEAD NOT KNOWING HOW IT WILL BE SO..

THANKS ALL AGAIN,

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