Unknown

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Oct 2015

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It's OFFICIAL

Received the Judgement from the court today, I am offically divorced. Took a painstaking 9 months to finalize and several trips back and forth to the court house..... (one day after my mom's passing...thanks mom)

Ok, they say things come in 3's, so here they are: Last night my baseball team won their final playoff game to appear in the World Series. In their 54 years existence they have gone to the big dance 5 times. This may be the last time I see it in my lifetime....oh, it's the New York Mets. Sorry for you guys from Chicago who haven't been to the dance in 70, yes SEVENTY YEARS. If you beat the Mets I was ok with that, your so overdue.

Great stock trading this week (still one day to go). So, there it is 3 good things in a short period of time. Now, I know three good things are followed by at least a couple bad things, so I'm ready for ya....hit me with your best shot........

So, all in all 11 months of marriage (cost about 50k) not bad....

If you recall, I met her on another dating site, Skyped for 9 months and met in London and brought her back to the USA. Beautiful woman, very intelligent and 17 yrs my junior....who could ask for anything more.....ughh!!!! My words of wisdom......watch out what you wish for.....And I thank the friends I've made here on CS and totally don't like the in fighting....life is too short to fight with people you don't know....save it for the ones you do know.......

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LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

Well, Sands, it's been an adventure! This is the beginning of the rest of your life as they say. I'm not much of a baseball fan...at least to watch it. Love playing the game though. There's a lot of excitement here over the Blue Jays....they sure know how to keep their fans in suspense!! And yes, the stockmarkets have been 'happy' this week!

to you!

Abby1963●California, USA

Oct 22, 2015●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Sounds like congratulations is in store . Darn those cubbies !!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hi Lucy, I love the Blue Jays, great hitting, I think I would like to play them vs Kansas City. I've actually been to a game in Rogers stadium and thought it was a great ballpark......GO METS....

Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

Not sure whether you congratulate someone at a time like this but I hope your future is a lot happier, now that you are free of all the carnage!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Abby, Miracle Mets, who would have guessed they would have swept them......not me.. I truly feel sad for them, their close, maybe next year

luckyman1970●jacksonville, Florida USA

Oct 22, 2015●232 Comments

I thought you took a vow to your God?

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hi PAC, I here you, it was so close...yet so far......but the world of knowledge of human behavior has been invaluable.....nice to see you PAC.......

Abby1963●California, USA

Oct 22, 2015●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Im from Chicago so it was a big let down for me

but I'm happy that your team won !

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Luck, pass the baton, it's my day today....actually, it was a non church marriage.......so, if I close my eyes, my God is just shaking his head.....

luckyman1970●jacksonville, Florida USA

Oct 22, 2015●232 Comments

Perhaps that could be a problem. Believers and non believers might not be a good mix.

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Lucky, she was Catholic, as I was, but I couldn't get an annulment before her visa expired.......someone watching over me.....

luckyman1970●jacksonville, Florida USA

Oct 22, 2015●232 Comments

Then in the eyes of your church you are still married, no?

luckyman1970●jacksonville, Florida USA

Oct 22, 2015●232 Comments

Personal question. Are you looking for a third wife?

Abby1963●California, USA

Oct 22, 2015●25 Blogs●714 Comments

We're all human none of us are perfect . Ask for forgiveness and it shall be recieved . Your not the first nor the last to divorce

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Sorry to hear of your mum Sands

luckyman1970●jacksonville, Florida USA

Oct 22, 2015●232 Comments

I suspect this guy's testosterone levels are advanced for his age.

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Lucky, if I could explain what I've been through you would understand that the last thing on earth I want is a woman......I'm still working my way through it, maybe this spring. I'm a romantic at heart and spring time is a great time to start a new relationship......will see what's in store...for now, it's Go Mets!!!!!!!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Abby, I like how you think

Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

Ah no Sands!! And there was me thinking I was in with a chance now!!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

PAC, spring is not so far away......

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

(Roots the wedding dress magazine back out of the rubbish bin)

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

I don't buy magazines, but I'll check online for a bridesmaid dress.

Poor Sands!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Lucy....funny.....I wish I could express how happy I am today..It's sad when people divorce, but sometimes it's the best that could happen...

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

Sands, not all people are unhappy when a divorce is finalized. I think it's very understandable and am very happy that you're happy. Group

! New beginnings are always so exciting and energizing!

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

PAC, how about this one, it works for me

Embedded image from another site

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

sorry Sands, i didn't know that...
but i read it as if she passed yesterday

and unless i'm reading wrong again

you married to have a trophy wife?

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

oooh-la-la!!

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

My oooh-la-la comment was for the dress.

Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

Does the body come with the dress?

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Ok, what is this with this faceless photos, PAC and Lucy bring on the
pics, no reason to be shy........

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Itchy, sorry it was a while back, and yes she was a trophy....but like I said watch out what you wish for...........

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

Those are our photos. Piece, Fraya and I are triplets....although not born on the same day.

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Oct 22, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

Sands

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hi DC, I have drink in hand....and it's not wine

LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Oct 22, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

why thank you, sands.

Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Oct 22, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

Now, now Lucy! You are just the bridesmaid - remember? Enough of the flirting!

Kalpataru●somewhere close to, Jakarta Indonesia

Oct 22, 2015●34 Blogs●1,846 Comments

@sands88
Sorry to hear of your mom. RIP.

In response to: life is too short to fight with people you don't know

Agree! and too short to be hurtful to others.

sands88OP●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Oct 22, 2015●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Hey Kal, party girl, nic pics from your get away.......

ooby_dooby●Ashland, Virginia USA

Oct 22, 2015●60 Blogs●728 Comments

Since you're a Mets fan it might interest you that I knew Kathy Shea years ago. She was drop dead gorgeous. She had the hots for the service manager where I worked. I'm not sure if they ever hooked up (he was married).

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