What do you ladies think ?

A scenario you are presented with..

You meet a guy on a dating site, you meet him but in that meeting he tells you that his long term partner died two weeks ago, and that he, being in the middle east, un married and living with his partner for 6 years, is arrested and put in jail for 3 days until they figure how his partner died.

She died of a heart attack and he's about to go back to the UK with the body for burial. Now this is not a fairytale story, but true.

What are your thought on this man ?..and if you was that women meeting him for a date what would be your reactions to him.

1) Think he is a complete a** hole ?
2) Feel sorry for him ?
3) Other ?
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Something similar happened but I was told after the fact...a BTW moment.
Blindsided.
I would feel sorry for him but I would never agree to meet any man who just lost his partner, or separated. That's too soon no matter how they lost their partner.
wave I would ask myself how much he loves the significant other in his life if he is on a dating site so soon..confused
I would meet him , he is human , give him that moment let him talk , everyone is not the same . let us not judge him because he is on a dating site and wanting to meet . I see nothing wrong in talking and everybody needs somebody.
I wouldn't be interested in seeing him again, because my way of thinking would be obviously he was not in love with her, yet stayed with her all the same...I'd hate anyone stay with me for any reason other than love, so if he done it to her, he could stay with me also under false pretence.
I presumed he was on the dating site even prior to the partner dying...
So because his girlfriend is dead , he should stop living ? the woman is dead . who knows maybe the guy just needs an ear .
she died..in between her death and he buries her..he dates..are you sure thats alright ?
Ian, no, that's not good.
We can only hope that he is so grief-stricken that he doesn't know what he is doing.
If i was interested to join his harem, yeah, i would comfort him.
Well for me, i thought he was disrespectful..
The key is dating site, combined with middle east. She'd be pretty special I reckon.
No date I am afraid Ian out of the question. Maybe just maybe keep in touch if i was interested in helping another human get over bad happenings in life but certainly no date
If my partner died I wouldn't be interested in going out on a date. Even if he would claim that things weren't good for a while, I still would find it tasteless.

He shows no respect to her so I wouldn't expect any respect from him. Good bye.
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