In case you wanted to know...........

We don't really get to know each other very well on this site.

We are mostly a mystery to each other.

I thought that it might be nice for the group to have a better
picture of who I am, or was, and may lead to others being a
tad more forth coming with who they are, or were.

I spent the predominance of my working life as a mental health
practitioner and mentor.

My specialties were with youth and the reintroduction of criminal
offenders into mainstream society. Of course this involved a
tremendous amount of my time being spent in both the criminal
courts and the family court system.

I became very involved in education, interdiction, and even
liaising with gangs to prevent violence, escalation and expansion
in my area.

But this was not a one way transaction. I think that I got a lot
more out of it all than what I put in.

I learned something from each and every person that dealt with.
I always aimed for a common respect, but I received an uncommon
degree of respect. I was accepted on both sides of the law.

My wife used to tell me that I was becoming more like 'them' than
the normal person that I had started out as.

She was right. But I learned respect for others, without qualification,
and I learned patience and I learned compassion.

The whole experience made me a better person, and I smoothed the
waters for all around me.

In all, it was a good trade.



That's me, in a nut shell.

Now, let's hear from the rest of you in this looney bin. Shall we?
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Grew up in small town....explored a bit...found my way back. I buy and sell junk. laugh
I love what you are trying to do here, create a stronger community unit, the foundations a little firmer. You have led a very interesting life and done some wonderful things for others. You should be proud of yourself, as was your wife by the sounds of it. Investing so much time and effort into others is a very selfless action, but actually in the long run it is actually very beneficial to our own souls and promotes self growth and understanding of people and life...you seem to be a very open and genuine person...I like that and thank you for sharing
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I on the other hand am more reserved than you about my sharing my life story on the Internet but because of your openness and ability to share:in brief I have done a considerable amount of training in relation to children, behaviour, development, safe guarding etc. I've worked alongside childcare professionals as a support worker. I've volunteered for local self help groups and food banks and I've also opened my doors to several women over time who have been in abusive relationships. I have always felt the need to help others and have made some wonderful connections with people from all walks of life! My job at the moment has diverted greatly into buying and selling enabling me to work from home and be there at all hours for my children. But my true fulfilment professionally comes from being supportive to those who need it so my volunteering remains current....
Thanks Viking....

I have many great stories and have been very lucky. :)


I love the "treasure hunt."

Take care.
Hey Rough, see, it ain't so hard.

We can be family.

Just open up and let it flow. If anyone laughs, assume they're
with you and enjoying your success. Don't go to the negative.
There's nothing there. And thanks?

Johnny, any time.

This is what it's for. Enjoy. Expand. Take it in.

I've had enough of the negative.

I hope that more folks jump in.

banana banana dancing banana banana
Hey Johnny that's what I do now..buying from charity shops, car boots, auctions and house clearance etc! I've found some real bargains grin I love the fact that I never know what I'm going to find from one day to the next...
So true Rough...at one time I have done all you say. I still go to auctions. However, a lot of what I buy and sell now is right from the internet.

....knowing something about certain objects...better than others...can turn you a profit.
It can indeed, I end up doing a lot of research on some of the items I buy, it's so interesting and often I think I can feel that they have had a past...weird I know lol!
Now you are older viking how has all that made you as you, or did you (now that you can step back) revalulate your life made a different you.

I would need a month or more to tell my story the good and the bad, but I reavalulate my life from time to time, to see if I am in a rut, did I make a wrong move, did I say something I should not have, and did I hold back when I should have spoken out.

Then what adventures are left to me being realistic with my age etc, grin I could not climb Everest now.laugh

I do know that some beliefs i have had have changed, BUT I have always hugged trees grin that has never changed. Meaning really I care more about the planet we leave behind for future generations, and you hug what you can laugh laugh

Have a good day viking I liked your blogthumbs up
And other bloggers asking what we are selling , lol . well I did not do much in my lifetime . got married , started a family after a while I worked for a company repossessing stuff , like cars , household items , serving legal documents . I was a bailiff , after sometime I got tired and I opened a meat shop and thats some of me . please do not laugh .
Thanks Johnny I will take note of all that, I hope I can say that I will of gained as much experience and profit as you. Well done hug
Good morning Red.....yes time has marched forward. We
will not do many things that we wanted to do now. We will
not climb those mountains, nor tame those raging waters.
But we did our bit in our time.
There is nothing wrong with coming to grips with the passage
of time and finding your new home in the sun..
Hi Annleerose......you know, it's good if they laugh
at you or your life. Then you know who to avoid.
It saves you having to get to know somebody that
has shown that they are not worth your time to
know.

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Rough....not all profit....moping crying It is expensive to sell online these days.


But, you are welcome.
I realise that Johnny but still so worthwhile doing....I might be calling on your skills and tips lol
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