blocking people out of our lives

Would it not be great and wonderful if we can block people out of our lives,
out of our memories our hearts and minds with a flip of a switch or push
of a button? For many when considering the time and investment in
building relationships at any level most in my opinion are shortlived
or never got off the ground. Others, before the internet was invented
and social sites etc which is designed to bring people together who
would not ordinarily meet in any other circumstance but online. They
were only images in a magazine and most people had to hook up
locally and left with whatever was available.

The good ol days when you had to actually meet in person or call on a rotary phone. Thanks
to the internet and reaching people from everywhere on earth we
have successfully alienated each other by a flip of a switch.
Instead of clearing the air of misunderstandings we just get pissed
off and block people out of our lives thus reducing our chances
of reconciliation.
Secondly, we are offered the opportunity to set up
a criteria of quality we hope to find in people. Instead of the old days
just by talking to someone for a few hours at a bar we learn that the person
of interest is an a**hole and maybe in a few minutes we learn that
while we are organizing an escape plan to the restroom and out the door.

Today we can do it in a few emails or a few chat sessions and eliminate
people in seconds if need be with a switch. The nice thing we dont have
to hear is the girl complaining about what a useless wanker the guy was
and the girl doesnt have to hear the wanker complain what a b*tch she is. Ah, but yet when
we are done stewing over what was said between two people we look at the profiles
and read what they say of themselves finding their profile is BS and their personality
does not match what they say of themselves. Like an employer who reads resumes
all day they see many but only the few or one gets the job. Only a few or the one gets the girl

With the high emotional cost in finding a friend these days its rather sad to see
that we take people with a grain of salt and believe less of what they say and ultimately
sabotage ourselves to fail. Actions speak louder. Yet considering the investment we place here
we cannot expect a whole lot on the ROI.

Setting our expectations low enough is the best policy. Nobody will give a crap about this blog
as they will say to me if I dont like the results I am getting then play somewhere else and stop
judging how things are run here or go with the flow. I know nobody is keeping me here, there is no ball and chain holding me here. Most would rather see me just disappear and stop annoying them with my ideas. Many may ask a certain lady in Spain why she sometimes stands up for me or makes subtle excuses to say I mean well but I can be a bit annoying. Well everyone can block me but can they block the truth or the foolishness? This is not even a dating site anymore its more of a internet diner like Arnolds of Happy Days. Only many dont have the charisma and coolness of the Fonz. Most are the Ralphie's and the Potzie's and a few Ritchie Cunninghams who dont have the confidence to tell a girl what they feel. If they do the women here think the guy is a flake.
Please correct me and show me differently what I am doing wrong in my approach. God I feel right now like such a heel for some reason writing this. However, bring on the onslaught for any comments will be taken in consideration.