Define normal
I was divorced and back in the dating pool before I met my first nutter. They're not all on the dating websites, you know, they move among us in real life too.This was a blind date, set up as a double date, and he would rather have been with the other lass. Fair to say we didn’t hit it off. When he found out I had a young daughter he said he bet I didn’t allow my ex to see her. He was so effing sick of meeting women who screwed their husbands for alimony AND made it impossible for them to see their kids.
Actually my daughter spends every weekend with her dad.
So he’s stuck at home looking after your kid while you’re out partying every weekend? That’s so effing typical . . .
Oh aye, he was a prince. He then started to complain about his last girlfriend. Women were insane. They say they want flowers and cards, and then when you give them everything they want, they go to the police about you. Effing insane.
Ummmmm - what happened?
He left a flower and a card every day under her windscreen wiper, the way she reacted you’d think he was an axe murderer. Effing b*tch. Just trying to show he was caring, and interested, seriously interested, isn’t that something women were supposed to want?
I’d have moved my car elsewhere, I said with perfect honesty and he glared at me with mingled triumph and hatred.
Like that made a difference! She never left it anywhere I couldn’t find it. Next thing I know I’m being told I’m a stalker! Effing mental.
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I left, and he spent the rest of the evening telling my friend that I would never get a boyfriend, I was too effing uptight.
When she passed that on, I said he was a lunatic and should be locked up. She was quite taken aback. Yes he was a bit intense but compared to some of the blokes she’d dated, he was pretty normal.
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Define normal.
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No. Otherwise I won't be here.
He stopped CS early in the relationship.
I went along to please him.
I should have seen the signs then.
Pat is closer to the truth as he may know. Normal is relative to the person in question
Normal is what is acceptable to a person at the time. And when a lot of people in a certain area feel that way it becomes the norm.
It is normal to eat dogs and cats in certain parts of the world but it does not make the rest abnormal when they frown upon it.
It doesn't seem to be as rare as it should be.
The main advantage of this is, they are so happy to meet someone who is not deranged
Or at least who doesn't show it straight away
Maybe not every guy they dated was after 'one thing' and by the way where are those guys, I could handle being chased around a bit
They are the ones who blame their exes for everything that went wrong. They hold grudges.
They blame the world for not being right for them and not treating them the way they feel they should be treated.
Everybody and everything, apart from themselves, is at fault.
Turns out from the photographs he's been posting of them on FB, she's also gorgeous. I was quite impressed by his priorities
It's easy to spot once you know what you are looking for.
And regarding your friend, I also have an explanation why men put up with it for so long.
A wise man once told me that the crazy ones were also the wildest in bed
Pay off
As a matter of fact that´s why I´m here.
Day after day I have a message from my best friend (a pretty normal lady with a normal life) saying the same to me: "get out of there" but ...I´m so bad following advices
And yes I can believe the cracked are probably interestingly desperate in bed. Must say I don't thnk it goes the other way, you couldn't drag me into bed with an angry self-pitying man with a chip on his shoulder!
what does a crazy man take on a second date? No-one knows, it never happened
what does a crazy woman take on a second date? everything she owns.
your comment whooshed straight over my little flat head
but sure, no worries. Time for me to go find something to eat anyway, the dog has looked up suspiciously twice at the growling noises from my midriff.
TMI. I know.
So, your recommendation is, get laid and run?
I Gone remember this one