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Dad is still in hospital and I am busy to send his food every day. His chronic bronchitis temporary seems under control again but still use nasal feeding ( he can't eat by mouth). A nursing assistant in hospital help me to take care of Dad most of the time, so I am in charge of Dad's daily meals, and have a chance to adjust my status as well. I was really tired.

Here’s my daily schedule:

-- Get up at about 06;00, then go to hospital for Dad’s first meal of his day.(goat's milk + bee milk) then eat my breakfast there,shaving for him, waiting for the ward round time ...
-- At about 09;30 the second meal ( yoghourt ).then I leave for shopping or washing or cooking ...
-- After my lunch, at about 12;30 go to hospital again for Dad’s third meal. (nutritional rice milk I made). Then back home having a small nap...
-- At about 15;30. Go there again for his fourth meal (cow’s milk+ banana) and clean his mouth cavity if necessary...
-- At about 18;30 , send him the fifth meal same like the third one...

All his 5 meals I feed him by myself, the hospital has special food offered. But I don't like eat the same stuff all the time which packaged in a bottle already .

Fortunately.An acquaintance of my family sent his unused,eighty percent new bicycle to me and I sent my old one to a bike repaired person. Now with it I like a bee “flying” quickly from home to hospital and shopping as well. Oh, by the way , it is a quality brand named "phoenix" which was made in Shanghai. Blue colour, my favorite.



Ok, time to go ,wish you all well!

I'm giving up. I can't go on like this anymore....It seems that I can never do anything right at all. I feel like I'm going no where in life...tired of Putting, my own needs and happiness on the back burner .........

Now who said long distance relationships does not work? I lost my heart to somebody in another country on the other side of the world and I will still have to wait another six weeks before seeing her. Why is Oz so bloody far from here?

It grieves me to think that she will only be here in SA for 4 weeks before returning to Australia. She is still very attached to her mother and I will have to work on that. I don’t know why she wants to drag her mother along on the trip. Mind you, I would like to see her mother as well… as long as she does not interfere too much when we want to spend time together.

The latest photos from Aussie Land have me pacing up and down in my room and at times, I want to crawl up the wall from pure frustration. All I ever think of is she. Can a man of my age be so in love?

I try to control the feeling and think of other things but time after time I catch myself thinking of her again. It is a good thing photos don’t wear out when you look at them for too long because all I do all day is to stare at her pics.

And the uncertainty is driving me mad. What if she does not like me when she sees me for first time? Will she like me as much as I like her?

I guess only time will tell and I will count the days until I finally can get to meet the new love in my life.


Now have a wonderful day and don’t go falling in love with strangers.

many saying said about life that life is not always fair, life is about choice, life is not an easy thing to live. especially when we have to make a choice, make a decision between 2 or 3 important things in life. for our future. whether you will be happy or sad, whether you will be succeed or lose.

making a decision is not as easy as talking... not as easy as give advice or suggestion when friend comes to us with dilemma and have to make a choice. for me this is just about a courage to make a decision. i can say this bcos many times i was in this situation in my job. why a manager get well paid? bcoz they bear a big responsible for any decision they made....

but in daily life, some people keep considering what the best to do between 2 choices if they have to choose only 1. spend a lot of time and put themselves even deeper in confusion. this situation will not good for them, can be affecting their healthy and mood. but some people can make a decision and make a choice pretty fast as they know what they want and they know what the best for them.
So, why people prefer to stay in confusing and still cant make a decision which one they will choose? it can be many reason. in this matter, I cant say about encouragement bcoz it is not about yes or not, right or wrong, but according to me it would be more about what the next will happen if they choose this or that.

when a friend come to me to share and say that they are confuse as they are forced to make a choice.. I maybe will advise them to make a list of plus and minus between 2 choices, so they will know what is the best between 2.

but how if the case about love ? about feeling ? do you think by making "plus and minus list" will be helpful?
for example : if I were one of the choices, if I love him..I might leave him for his happiness. I will not let him make "plus and minus list" as it would not be fair for both of us.

what is your opinion? what do you think?

hope you dont have to make any choice in your life... as you know what the best for you.

I have not been here on blogs for a while, but would like to say happy Thanksgiving to all in the states.. And to all my family around the world on blogs,,hope you have a great day and may GOD bless you and family

I love to read the newspaper in a set fashion.

First the sports, then the section with the funnies and the advice letters, then the business section, followed by the local news section and last the front page section.

I think I like the advice letters section because people just can't figure some of the simplest things out by themselves. In this letter I have chosen to blog about this woman has a son that is slightly overweight and Mom just frets about it.

She goes on and on about how he used to listen and mind when he was a young boy but now that he has grown up he doesn't seem to want to listen to her advice. She further complains that she made an appointment for him to see a doctor but he didn't show for the visit. She is also in a tizz because he hasn't explained anything to her.

The advice columnist ripped into her and said, basically, you need to mind your own business now that your son has grown up.

My advice would have been: He listened to you as a kid because he had to. He also surely thought that "when I grow up" and you know the rest of the story.

I think he has her figured out not to respond to her pushiness and just in one ear and out the other then he forgets about it. Pretty slick dude!!

Like every creature I came to this world without knowing what was ahead for me, I was fed by others people hands, I was wrapped in some robe or whatever it was, I didn't care for anything, cause everything was awaiting to get me later in life, but that day of the week was, Monday.

Since writing about "Linda"...I have been to see her every day for its getting very near the end....She has shriveled down to nothing...Skin amd Bones...She doesnt open her eyes anymore...Her voice is a very high pitch ...And what she says cannot be understood ....Her Kidneys have shut down now amd they cant try to give her Liquids as she would drown..They say.......She would drown??!!!....For Christ Sakes!! That would be better to do that than for her to Suffer a slow agonizing death from starvation and Cancer!!!.....ITs Scary to look at someone whos cryibg out from deep inside themselves and they are not responding to what you say anymore.....Its sad that this is how we treat are fellow Human beings....Let them slowly die an agonizing Death While those who come who care the most are Horrified as to what they are seeing and Have to go Through....)We as Humans would not let an Animal suffer this way....Imagine your Dog or Cat is suffering..And you go and visit Him everyday and see the pain and him looking at you....Of course that will never be that way(You wouldnt stand for it would you?..Humanity wouldnt Stand for it.."Its the Humane thing to do".....But its not when it comes to Humans ..is it?..........To watch someone slowly die from Starvation ,,No Liquids and a slow killing desease that is Cancer....Goes against life itself.........According to the Nurse..She has 2 days to 2 weeks to live(If you want to call it that)......I get to go and watch what another day closer to dying looks like today......And yes...I do wish that she would just die....For all concerned..especially for her..............I dont want your Pity..Thats not what this is about....Its about Linda and all the Other Lindas out there.......Im positive if it was up to linda she would wanted to "Go" already....."Its not fair..Its not right"...Its a torture thats instilled on "Our Loved Ones" by Others...(Whoever they are)....And we allow them to do this.....And its awfully hard not to break down being a Man in front of other people........And the worst part for those who remain behind?...Were left with all these wonderful vivid memories of watching someone die ever so slowly every damned day til finally "They Are Taken".........This is the 1st time Ive gone through this....And it surely will be the Last........Youll never know the Horrors Ive been through till youve been through it yourself.....People in this condition should be allowed to go of their choosing....We wouldnt do this to an Animal......So tell me...."Whats is wrong here?"...............God?...Will you Please take her now?.................Please?..............

When he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.
Luke 15:20


Last February, John Allen, a British lawyer living in Holland, smiled across the supper table at his wife and three sons, ages eight to fourteen. Someone snapped a picture. They were happy. A family vacation to Indonesia was in the works.


Five months later the five Allens boarded Malaysia Airlines Flight MH17, but somewhere over Ukraine the plane was blown out of the sky. The whole family perished in an instant, along with their fellow passengers.

We can’t comprehend the evil and calamity in the world. Such tragedies deeply upset and depress us, but they also represent a poignant reminder. Take every opportunity to cherish your loved ones. If you’re peeved with a family member, forgive them. If you’ve neglected them, give them a call. If you’ve rebelled against your dad or mom, go home with the humble attitude of a repentant prodigal. If you’ve been tense with your kids, give them an extra hug. If you live far away, work harder to stay in touch. Whatever it takes, take care of your family as well as you can. It’s at the core of God’s plan and provision for the world.

God bless everyone!

My fiance and I are planning to celebrate Christmas abroad. but I am not sure he would enjoy it because he was an atheist. and this will be my first experience of parting with my parents at Christmas time. we usually celebrate with another family and my fiance does not ever want to join. I believe in the end it will be like a regular holiday... uuuffff.